03/24/2026
Real talk though, Do you know how often I hear how difficult it is to find a “good” therapist?
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Everyone seeks therapy for different reasons which also means they might seek a specific type of therapist, but all therapists should provide the following things:
Empathy: You want your therapist to be able to see your point of view.
Active listening: You want a therapist who listens and reflects during sessions
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Validation: Your therapist should be able to validate your feelings & experiences even if they don’t agree with everything you say.
Trust: Trust with your therapist will allow for therapy to be productive, when you don’t feel like you can trust your therapist, it won’t allow you to feel safe.
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Compassion
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No-judgement: there’s enough people judging us, the last person you need judging you is your therapist.
Good communication: Having a therapist who is a good listener is great, but you also need them to be great communicators. And good therapists will communicate in a language that best fits each client.