01/06/2026
Hello everyone. I can not speak for all caregivers. But I speak for myself and many other caregivers I've had the honor and privilege to work with.
We do what we do for many reasons. And if you call and say you need help, let me tell you what happens after:
We listen. We hurt for you and your loved ones. We take the request very seriously.
From there, we first decide if we can take on another client. If not, we call other caregivers. If what you are needing requires multiple caregivers or shifts, we start figuring out who can do what, if we can shift other clients, start talking about childcare needs etc. Whatever needs to be done to help.
It is often many hours and days, some times weeks that we are emailing calling/ texting each other, checking in with you for any other thoughts or requests.
What is one of the most difficult things about being a private caregiver?
Doing all of this because we are committed to helping and then... nothing. Sometimes we here that you are going to wait. Sometimes you've changed your mind all together. Sometimes, we suddenly hear nothing.
I've often worked 24+ hours because I go from one client to another. I have done this while caring for my children, having a "regular" job, etc and it's very, very difficult to use this time for something that goes no where. I understand that things happen. Life happens.
I ask this of you. If you are needing care for a loved one, most likely you've needed help before making the call. If you call a private caregiver, you've most likely contacted someone that has devoted their life to doing this. To helping. We give it our all.
So please, please, if you are needing help, please know we will do our best to provide it. Also, please know we are putting a lot of thought, time and effort to make it happen.
Communication is SO valued as is our time.