Chaney-Harkins Funeral Home

01/05/2026

Hollis Eugene Stanford, Sr., of McAlester, Oklahoma, passed away on Saturday, January 3, 2026.

The family will greet friends from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. on Tuesday, January 6, 2026, at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

Military honors will be rendered by the United States Navy Honor Guard at 4:00 p.m. Cremation will follow the visitation.

Hollis was born on December 16, 1938, in Ada, Oklahoma, to Ernest J. Stanford and Ovella (Teel) Stanford. He married the love of his life, Mary C. Scott, on March 30, 1957. She preceded him in death on January 28, 2021.

Hollis graduated from Madill High School with the Class of 1956. That same year, he proudly enlisted in the United States Navy, beginning a distinguished military career that spanned more than 20 years. He retired with honor on October 1, 1976, achieving the rank of Master Chief Petty Officer.

Following his retirement, Hollis moved his family to Hartshorne, Oklahoma, where he devoted his years to the things he loved most. He enjoyed woodworking, gardening, and fishing, and he was also gifted artistically, finding joy in oil painting, sketching, and quilting.
Hollis was preceded in death by his wife, Mary (Scott) Stanford; his parents; his son, Hollis Stanford, Jr.; his granddaughter, Krisha Bowerman; his brothers, Ernest D. Stanford and Tommy Stanford; and his sister, Elsie Doverspike.

He is survived by his children: Rowena Rosenbaum and husband Michael, Janet Walton, James Stanford and wife Kimber, and Eric Stanford; his grandchildren: Christina Echelle and husband Anthony, Rebecca Sanders and husband Jason, Michael Bowerman and wife Leira, Jay Bowerman and wife Michele, Sara Madry and husband Jason, LeeAnn Rowell, Whitney Stanford, and Wyatt Stanford; 13 great-grandchildren; 5 great great grandchildren; his sister, Reathea Alexander; his cousin, Brian Stanford; along with numerous other cousins, nieces, nephews, family members, and friends who will cherish his memory.

01/02/2026

12/31/2025

Norma Jean Curtis, 71, formerly of McAlester, Oklahoma, passed away on Thursday, December 18, 2025 at her home in Tulsa.
A memorial service will be held at 1:00 p.m. Friday, January 2, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

Norma Jean Curtis was born on July 12, 1954, in McAlester, Oklahoma, to Alfonso Curtis, Sr. and Maggie Marie (Kirk) Curtis. She was the fourth of seven children and was raised in a loving, close-knit family.

At an early age, Norma Jean attended St. Mary’s Catholic School through the third grade before transferring to L’Ouverture School. She later completed her education at McAlester High School, where she proudly graduated. During her school years, Norma Jean loved being active and was especially passionate about sports. She played softball for the L’Ouverture Giants and later for the Granger Jets, truly enjoying the camaraderie and pride of being part of a team.
Norma Jean had a deep appreciation for style and took great pride in dressing beautifully. She also had an incredible passion for cooking, and her barbecue was famously “out of this world.” Preparing meals for others brought her genuine joy and fulfillment from deep within her heart. She was known for her quick left hand, her confident and unforgettable walk, and the radiant smile that could light up any room she entered. Her grandfather, W.B. Curtis, affectionately nicknamed her “Peacock,” a name that perfectly reflected her grace, confidence, and presence. Norma Jean was well known and deeply loved throughout her community.

She leaves to cherish her memory her three children: Tony Curtis of Kansas City, Missouri; Myron Curtis of Layton, Utah; and Chandra Curtis of Natchitoches, Louisiana. She is also survived by her siblings: Marian Black of McAlester, Oklahoma; Patricia Ann Lee of Tulsa, Oklahoma; Leona Ellis of McAlester, Oklahoma; and Brenda Hendricks of Tulsa, Oklahoma; her sister-in-law, Lorelie Pinkney of McAlester, Oklahoma; her aunts: Emma Watts of Eufaula, Oklahoma; Joann Hughes of St. Louis, Missouri; Elsie Meadows of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; and Wanda Sykes of San Antonio, Texas; along with 14 grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends.

Norma Jean was preceded in death by her grandparents, W.B. and Ora Curtis, and Odell and Norma Kirk; her parents, Alfonso Curtis, Sr. and Maggie Marie (Kirk) Curtis; her brother, Alfonso Curtis, Jr.; and her sister, Kathy A. Curtis.

Norma Jean was a blessing and a powerful presence in the lives of all who knew her. She loved the Lord and faithfully taught her children to love the Lord as they were growing up.

We are going to miss you, Mama!

12/29/2025

It is with profound sadness that the family of LaMarcus Dewayne Morris announces his sudden passing on December 27, 2025, at the age of 29.

A visitation will be held from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Tuesday, December 30, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel, 528 S. 3rd Street McAlester, Oklahoma.

A tribute of Marcus's life will take place at Hartshorne Elementary Activity Center, 862 N. Cherokee, Hartshorne, Oklahoma on December 31, 2025 at 12:00 pm, officiated by Lacey Arreola. Marcus will be laid to rest at Bache Red Oak Cemetery in Bache, Oklahoma.

Pallbearers will be Jarrod Holt, Chris Dunafan, Eddie Morris, Harold Meashintubby Jr, Harold “Boog” Meashintubby, III, and Isaac Sieg.

Honorary pallbearers will be Noah Meashintubby, Byson Pope, Calvin Bryce, Dallas Herring, Nathan Herring, and all of Marcus’s nephews and cousins.

Marcus was born in Talihina, Ok to Tammie Morris on September 3, 1996. Marcus was a citizen of the Chickasaw Nation. He was a 2015 graduate of Hartshorne High School, where he excelled in football. A natural athlete with a strong competitive spirit, Marcus was a key player for the Miners and earned All-State honors. He was known for his strength, dedication, and leadership both on and off the field. Marcus continued his football career at the University of Central Oklahoma, carrying with him the same determination and drive.

Following his football career, Marcus developed a deep passion for bodybuilding, which quickly became a cornerstone of his life. He was also successful in his professional career, earning several awards for his dedication and hard work. A familiar and dedicated presence at the gym, he rarely missed a day of training. His impressive physique reflected his discipline and relentless work ethic. Marcus took pride in sharing his knowledge and encouraging others in their fitness journeys. Despite his imposing size, he was known for his gentle heart, kindness, and unwavering willingness to help anyone in need. His infectious enthusiasm for life and fitness inspired many, and he will be deeply missed.

Marcus is survived by his Granny, Lindsy Jo Pope Moody of Hartshorne; parents, Tammie Davidson of Hartshorne and Jeffery Shores of Oklahoma City; his sister, Cierria Morris and her children Nieces, Khaleah, Khalani, and Keiko; Nephews Koen and Kendon all of Hartshorne; his brothers, Jalen Shores, Jayzen Shores, Jordan Shores of Oklahoma City; his best friend Jarrod Holt of Oklahoma City; and special friends Kirby Smith and her children Kenya Copeland, Kiersten Smith, Bryson Smith and Mackenzie Holt and her children Indie Harden, Navie Louise; his beloved dog, Meeko. He is also survived by his Uncle, Eddie Morris of Hartshorne; Great Aunts and Uncles, John Pope Jr and Reba Pope; Edwinna Gehring all of McAlester, Barbara and Jim Lann of Cushing, Ok; Karen Yells Eagle and Lora “Boo” Dunafan both of Hartshorne; and numerous cousins.

He was preceded in death by his brother Alex Davidson Jr.; his grandfather Wayne Morris; his great grandparents, John and Virgie “Sally” Pope; Uncle, Roderick “Bosco” Pope. Great Uncle's, Frank Pope, Howard Pope, C.A. Dunafan, Gary Gehring; Cousins, Gary Gehring Jr., and Elijah YellsEagle.

12/29/2025

Sheila Ann Strode, 58, went to be with the Lord on December 25th, 2025 at her sister’s home in Crowder, Oklahoma.

A funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Tuesday, December 30, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel with Rev. Matt Sennett officiating. Cremation will follow the service.

Sheila was born on October 8th, 1967 in McAlester, Oklahoma to Virgie Artie Edwards and Martin Phillip Windle.

She grew up in the McAlester area and graduated from McAlester High School in 1985. She started her career at Hardee’s when she was sixteen which would span three decades, working her way up to management.

Sheila married the love of her life, Chuck Strode, in May 4, 1991 and they shared 33 years of marriage until his death in 2024. She loved cats, especially her three: Toby, Kate, and Ninnie. She loved spending time with her family and serving the Lord as treasurer of her church. Her sweet and caring nature will be remembered by the many lives she touched.

She was preceded in death by her parents: Martin and Virgie Windle; her step mother, Jana, her father-in-law, Butch; husband: Chuck; and nephew, Kyle.

Sheila is survived by her sister, Tonya White and husband, Paul; brother, Mark Windle and wife, Mary-Kyle, nieces: Kandrath and partner, Kara, Joanna and Charli; nephews: Phillip, Weston, Chris, Hunter, and Ryan; great nieces and great nephews: Gihren, Sayla, Dylan, Paisley, Jasper, Canyon, and Emma; mother-in-law, Linda; sisters and brothers-in-law: Carla, Jackie, Jennifer, Chad, and Brent.

12/22/2025

Mary Lee Maffioli, 80, of Krebs, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on Friday, December 19, 2025.

The family will greet friends from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Monday, December 22, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

A funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, December 23, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel with Chaplain Monte Busby officiating. The burial will follow at Oak Hill Cemetery.

Pallbearers: Mason Coxsey, Stacy Zachary, Ricky Beams, Randy Beams, Chuck Courts, and Dustin Williams.

Honorary Pallbearers: Mario Maffioli, Leroy Patty, Michael Coxsey, Robert Kornegay, John Kornegay, Randy Kelley, and J. Michael Miller.

Mary Lee was born on October 2, 1945, in McAlester, Oklahoma, to Bill and Edith (Kornegay) Maffioli. She was a proud graduate of McAlester High School, Class of 1964. In her working years, Mary Lee was employed with Auld Family Dentistry, where she worked faithfully from the early 1990s until 2002.

Mary Lee had a deep love for her family and treasured her role as the family historian, preserving memories and stories for future generations. She was especially known for her delicious Italian pizzelle cookies, a cherished Christmas tradition enjoyed by all who knew her. She also loved country western dancing and found joy in music and fellowship. Mary Lee was a woman of faith and attended the Methodist church.

She also enjoyed fishing and could often be found anywhere she had the opportunity to cast a line. Above all else, Mary Lee found her greatest happiness in spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, whom she dearly loved.

She is survived by her sons, Larry Coxsey and wife Stephanie, and Phillip Coxsey and wife Deanna; her grandchildren, Caylin Crone, Emilee Coxsey, and Mason Coxsey; her great-grandchildren, Cooper Crone and Connor Crone; her brother, Tony Maffioli; and numerous nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Bill and Edith Maffioli; her grandson-in-law, Jeff Crone; and her brother, Billy Maffioli.

Mary Lee will be remembered for her love of family, her warm traditions, and the lasting memories she created with those she loved.

12/22/2025

Mary Lee Maffioli, 80, of Krebs, Oklahoma passed away on Friday, December 19, 2025.

The family will greet friends from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Monday, December 22, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

A funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, December 23, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel with Chaplain Monte Busby officiating. The burial will follow at Oak Hill Cemetery.

12/17/2025

Kenny Benton Silvers, 32, of Alderson, Oklahoma passed away on December 10, 2025.

A memorial service will be held at 3:00 p.m. on Wednesday, December 17, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

Kenny was born on September 27, 1993 to Jesse Benton Silvers, Jr. and Ruth Ann Mackey. He attended McAlester Public Schools. For the last 2 years, Kenny worked at LWC Construction. Kenny was an adrenaline ju**ie and loved to do anything daring. He was baptized, loved his sons, had a big heart, and enjoyed taking nieces and nephews fishing.

He is survived by two sons: Swayzee Joe Silvers and his mother, Bethaney Rogers, and Ryland James Silvers and his mother, Kimberly Howard. He is also survived by his mother, Ruth Ann Hill and husband, George; his father and step-mother: Jesse and Cheryl Silvers; maternal grandmother: Margaret Mackey; sisters: Delisa Mackey, Rashell Hollis, and Machelle Martin and husband, Brad; brother, Joe Wayne Carshall and Makayla Pryor; aunts: Kristi Webber, Donna Martin, and Joanie Wallis; cousins: Christopher Webber, Tim Webber, Tommy Webber, Crystal Webber, Brandi Silvers, and Misty Silvers; numbers nieces, nephews, and other family and friends.

Kenny was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, David Mackey; paternal grandparents: Jesse Silvers, Sr. and Velora Silvers; aunts: Vickie Silvers, and Pam McQuay; and uncles: Tommy Webber, and Lester Carlson.

12/16/2025

Ruby May (Spickler) Furr, age 76, of McAlester, Oklahoma, passed away on Monday, December 15, 2025, in McAlester, Oklahoma.

Cremation arrangements are entrusted to Chaney-Harkins Funeral Home.

A family-directed memorial service will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Thursday, December 18, 2025, at Dream City Church in McAlester, Oklahoma.

Ruby was born on October 29, 1949, in Omaha, Nebraska, to George Nile Spickler and Vernice (Jameson) Brunson. She graduated from high school in Hemet, California, where she spent much of her life. Ruby later lived in New Mexico for a time before moving to McAlester, Oklahoma, in 2005, where she made her home.

On November 7, 1967, Ruby married the love of her life, Smith Furr, in Valle Vista, California. Together they shared many years of marriage and raised three children: Tammy, Theresa, and Travis.

Ruby worked as a seamstress at Lucy Ann’s in Santa Paula, California, for about eight years, where she was known for her skill, dedication, and strong work ethic. She took pride in her work and valued the friendships she made there.

Ruby enjoyed the simple pleasures of life. She loved cooking, playing bingo, visiting the casino, watching game shows on television, and most of all, spending time with her family. Family gatherings brought her great joy, and she will be remembered for the warmth and love she shared with those around her.

Ruby’s memory will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.

Ruby is survived by her children, Tamra Winkler of Kiowa, Theresa Ortiz of McAlester, and Travis Furr of McAlester; grandchildren, Anthony Furr and his partner, Samantha Mirick of McAlester, Amanda Jaramillo and husband, Joey of New Mexico, Joshua Furr and wife, Sherri of Kiowa, Jeremy Furr and wife, Kylie of Oklahoma City, Corey Furr and wife, Elizabeth of Santa Paula, California, and Courtney Serrano and husband Johnny of Santa Paula, California; eight great-grandchildren; brothers, John Brunson and James “Jimmy” Brunson both of Omaha, Nebraska; sister, Virginia Howe of McAlester; along with numerous nieces, nephews other family members and friends.

Ruby was preceded in death by her husband, Smith Furr; her parents, George Nile Spickler and Vernice (Jameson) Brunson.

12/11/2025

Laura Annette (Helton) Michael, 47, of McAlester, Oklahoma passed away on Wednesday, December 10, 2025 in McAlester, Oklahoma.

The family will greet friends from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. on Friday, December 12, 2025 at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel. Cremation will follow.

A family directed memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, December 13, 2025, at the New Haven Bible Baptist Church, 55 S.W. 1st Street, Krebs, Oklahoma.

Laura was born on September 12, 1978, in Oklahoma City, Laura was the daughter of Teddy M. Helton and Paula (Heitman). She spent her childhood in Oklahoma City, where she developed the bold, lively spirit that would later define her

Laura was a dedicated worker as a package handler with FedEx until she became too ill. Her co-workers and friends knew her as courageous, unreserved, and genuinely funny—someone who spoke her mind and stood her ground, yet always made people feel welcomed and supported.

Laura is survived by her father, Teddy Helton; her son, Kaibryn Anders and his father, Sam Anders; daughters: Kaitlyn Michael, and Kristen McPherson; her beloved grandchildren: Sophia, Alanah, and Hadlee; brothers: T.J. Helton and wife Robyn, Bradley Helton and wife, Abbie, and Chris Helton; her sister, Brandy Card and wife, Cassy; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends whose lives were brightened by her presence.

She was preceded in death by her mother, Paula (Heitman) Cox; her paternal grandparents, Freeman and Dorothy Helton; and her maternal grandmother, Laura Heitman.

Laura’s life was a reminder that strength comes in many forms—through resilience, humor, honesty, and the ability to love fiercely. Her memory will continue to guide and inspire those who knew and cherished her.

12/10/2025

Chesley Reynolds Jr. Obituary
Chesley "Chester" J.R. Reynolds, 81, of Krebs, Oklahoma passed away on December 8, 2025 at his home.

A graveside service will be held at 9:00 a.m. Thursday, December 11, 2025 at the Memory Gardens Memorial Park Cemetery with Pastor Grover Walker officiating. Military honors will be provided by the United States Navy Honor Guard. The burial will follow.

Pallbearers will be B.C. Reynolds, Billy Talley, Andrew Harris, Odie Lowe, Jeff Flourney, and John Seepie. Honorary pallbearers will be Chuck Reynolds and Jimmy Joe Reynolds.

Chester was born on December 21, 1943 in Dexter, New Mexico to William Clarence Reynolds and Rubie Myrtle (Boatright) Reynolds. He married Bessie Lou Cross in 1963. Bessie preceded Chester in death on February 7, 2025.

12/05/2025

Linda Joyce Ellis, age 78, passed away peacefully on December 3, 2025.

The family will greet friends on Friday, December 5, 2025 from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at the Chaney Harkins Funeral Home Chapel. Cremation will follow the visitation.

Linda was born on November 9, 1947. She lived a life filled with faith, love, and joyful curiosity for the world around her.

A devoted Jehovah’s Witness, Linda was baptized on August 6, 1997, and remained steadfast in her dedication to Jehovah throughout her life. She deeply cherished her congregation and held her brothers and sisters in the faith close to her heart.

Linda was a hardworking and determined woman who owned and operated a janitorial service in Los Angeles, California. Her strong work ethic, kindness, and integrity left a lasting impression on all who knew her.

She had a playful spirit and a love for life’s simple pleasures. Disneyland was one of her favorite places, and she enjoyed many magical visits over the years, including her final trip in March 2024. Linda also adored the music of Justin Timberlake and *NSYNC, and she found peace and happiness in one of her favorite pastimes—fishing.

Above all, Linda loved her family deeply. Her warmth, loyalty, and unwavering affection will be remembered and cherished forever.
Linda is survived by her daughter, Yvette Toilolo; sons: Bernard Ellis, Jr. and wife, Belinda, and Lawrence Ellis and wife, Cinthia; step-son, Bernard “J.R.” Ellis, Jr. and wife, Tonya; grandchildren: Elaina Bernestine, Emalia Toilolo, Kimberly Murphy, Christina Kennedy and husband, Ben, Sabrina Randall, Jasmine Smith and husband, Joshua, Adrian Ellis, Daveon Walker, Osheana Brannan and husband, Eddie, and Bernard Ellis, III and wife, LaTrelle; great grandchildren: Armani Montgomery, Meleah Mongomery, Elijah Chatman, Leilani Chatman, Makeia Murphy, Brihanna Murphy, Keairra Heskett, Versell Gilbert, Wyatt Kennedy, Belle Kennedy, Olive Smith, and Malena Carter; brother, Bill DeRemer; sister, Rebecca DeRemer; and numerous nieces, nephews and other family and friends.

Linda is preceded in death by her sister, Frances Jean Clark.