07/21/2025
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💭 Instead of Forcing a “Sorry”... Try This
For many children (and adults), saying “I’m sorry” becomes a quick way to escape the discomfort of conflict or repair. But true repair is more than just a word—it’s a process.
When a child blurts out an apology in frustration, it doesn’t mean they aren’t sorry. It means they may need support and guidance to understand how to make it meaningful.
Instead of demanding politeness, pause and teach:
When the child is calm ....
💬 “Let’s talk about what happened.”
💛 “Can you see how they might be feeling?”
🛠 “What can we do to make things right?”
This is how children learn empathy, accountability, and emotional safety—not from forced apologies, but from moments of compassionate connection.
It takes more time.
But the lessons last a lifetime.
Thanks and credit to The Therapist Parent for this powerful reminder.
