The Witty Empress LLC

04/27/2025

Unless someone is 💯 attacking you, your character, and threatening your own wellbeing…you don’t have ‘haters’. You have humans with different opinions, life experiences, and lenses of perception.

If you are jumping down everyone’s throat when they don’t agree with you or they show they lack knowledge in areas you are an expert in, that speaks more volumes about your own insecurities than their inability to see your point of view. You are attacking them (subconsciously) and taking it as an attack on you personally which then gets nothing accomplished and sets you on a spiral of self-delusion of thinking you have ‘haters’. When in realiity you have miscommunication and an inability to rise above personal triggers to see the other human. Where is the opportunity for learning & growth when you attack or feel attacked by someone who thinks differently than you?

Yes, there are times where something is wrong and must be defended or corrected. Plain & simple. And you can’t fight someone who wants to deny true natural facts of life or someone who wants to stay ignorant. However, to put everyone into that category of ‘hater’ that doesn’t agree with you? Oh dear…that’s a you issue.

Asking questions for clarification, being vulnerable with our own ignorance, trying to learn but not processing the way you want others to process are NOT grounds to dismiss, yell at, or put into the category of ‘hater’. YOU and your reaction is what needs growth.

Be passionate in life, have convictions and integrity. Stay strong in the face of negative ignorance and always use your voice when you feel called to share your life experiences & perspectives…but please STOP attacking those who don’t think like you or come to the same life conclusions as you. If this is constantly your default mode or defensive mechanisms when faced with opposing views, you need to do some inner work on why.

Because in the end, if we have truly done the work on ourselves and have grown past & out of our traumas & triggers (constant life long struggle) then we should be able to see another human’s opinions and life experiences as an opportunity for learning, discourse, discussion, and respect towards a fellow human being. Calling someone a ‘hater’ for not agreeing with you is not respectful or helpful in anyway to you or them.

Don’t let others trigger you to the point you are closing your own self off from opportunities of growth & learning. You can do this. You got this. 🙏🏻♥️

04/01/2025

I’m a day late (and a dollar short 😅) but it’s the 4 year anniversary of when I decided to take a leap into the spiritual world of healing.

Grateful for these last four years of learning, growing, and being able to help my fellow humans.

Thank you. Onward to the next chapter of this small but mighty business. 🙏🏻♥️🎉

03/03/2025

Hi! Friendly neighborhood (former) exorcist here with some advice.

Unless you are the purest form of good/love (which you are not because you are human) please please please do not do this “freezer spell” or any kind of get rid of “haters” energy/make money spell.

You cannot and should not manipulate the energy given by others towards you. That’s not your job, you are not karma.

What you can do is put up protections for yourself, create boundaries for yourself, and strengthen your grounding work for yourself.

I think those in the spiritual magic realm forget the golden rule of energy manipulation when they feel the first taste of their real power. You cannot manipulate the energy of others without consequences no matter the intentions. (Prayer & Reiki work are different in this situation.)

For example, this “freezer spell” is selfish subconscious manipulation 101 and will have consequences for the caster. Sure, I get it, let’s turn negative energy into a positive. I’m always for seeing the good in a situation. But in reality, what “haters” do you really have? Where in the world are there truly evil entities sending you pure evil hate that you can turn and alchemize it into something good for yourself? YOU DON’T. Let’s live in reality, people!

What you have is miscommunication, hurt feelings, resentment, jealousy, etc between two humans. You don’t have haters, you have humans who don’t agree with you or feel slighted by you. People who need to do work on themselves (and that has nothing to do with you). Or you really actually harmed this other person and you are very unaware of your behavior.

And because of this, your manipulation of that energy to benefit you financially will have dire consequences & repercussions. Because if the energy coming towards you from others is there to teach you something, to help you grow, or is your own accountability karma…you can’t cast spells to keep those energies from you or manipulate the energy for greed (no matter how much you need the support) without consequences. I mean you could keep the energy away, but if it’s for you and it’s for your own growth, it will find you. You are not God. You can’t manipulate the energy away through magic forever. (Shutters thinking about generational curses. 🙄)

Spell work is tricky and only highly trained professionals with extensive knowledge of magical consequences should be casting them. What you should be doing is working on protecting yourself and stop worrying about “others”. You need money? Manifesting work is better. You have “haters”? Look at yourself and your behavior first. Don’t automatically assume you are in the right and they are in the wrong. See the situation first what it is and don’t play into the stories we tell ourselves.

Stay safe out there humans. You can do this, I believe in you. ♥️🙏🏻

02/18/2025

It's intriguing how life often presents experiences that serve to validate one's decisions and fortify the reasoning behind establishing boundaries and relinquishing people and situations.

Life often serves as a reminder of why certain people are no longer in your life.

Given that they have not evolved beyond their subconscious harmful behaviors, their actions are predictable yet disappointing. While I wish I could warn others about the potential harm they can inflict, it's not my place to do so; that's a job for Karma. 😉

Stay safe out there, humans. ♥️

01/26/2025

Toxic Relationships 101

It can be so difficult for those who are lacking love in many areas of their life to see what is happening in toxic relationships.

If you were a child who was withheld love by a parent/caregiver or someone who has little to no extended family or difficulty connecting to other humans through friendships & working relationships or someone who lacks the basic human connection we all need…then it can be difficult to see what happens in toxic relationships.

Because when you rarely hear “I love you”, then you tend to hold on to the people and things that do say those words because you don’t know when your next ‘fix’ will be. And you will do this to the detriment of your own being. (And if you have people pleasing tendencies…well you are sunk.)

As someone who has finally closed the chapter of my life where I allow these types of relationships into my world because of my lack of love in other places…it really does only hurt you in the end. Best to realize it now and make the necessary changes. It is worth it and no it’s not easy. (I see you, you can do this!)

Real love will find you. No, it’s not going to look like the stories you tell yourself (Stop watching Hallmark movies!) And it will find you in the human connections & interactions you do have in life if you can be open to seeing them in new ways. I’ve done it. It’s real. It’s why I am stronger now to say no to something that is not meant for me.

12/24/2024

You are not a failure if you…

~decided to choose your happiness over someone else’s
~decided enough is enough in abusive environments
~decided that actions speak louder than words and followed through with your own alignment of actions & words
~decided to have actual self-worth & self-respect without a care of what others would think
~decided to choose yourself and the people you love even when the optics were not ideal

Society’s BS ‘markers’ of what it means to be a success or a failure are holding you back from seeing how much you actually accomplished this year. Stop comparing your life to some toxic, non-human, standards of what life should look like “normally”. (Terrible, terrible colonial programming holding your mind hostage from your true power of success.)

You are NEVER a failure if you lead a life full of honesty, integrity, authenticity, compassion, and empathy. Even if the optics look ‘off’ or are considered unconventional.

You are doing brilliantly if you are alive and living your life the best you can. Proud of you. Onward to another year of living life! Hello, 2025! ♥️

11/30/2024

What do you allow to hurt you? Who do you allow to hurt you?

It’s easy to see the ways we hurt ourselves physically (BTW: Not so easy to over come them.) with drugs, alcohol, overeating terrible foods, abusing prescription meds, too many supplements, doomscrolling, etc.

But what about the ways we allow ourselves to be hurt emotionally and mentally or even spiritually?

Why do we continue to go down a path of destruction when we are in complete control to stop it? Where is the accountability for ourselves?

When you know you are in a situation that is not healthy for you why do you allow yourself to be hurt? With romantic partners, friends, co-workers, therapists, spiritual “healers”, siblings, parents, internet interactions, etc.?

I wish I had an answer. I could use one myself. All I have is a humble human observation…

Because it feels good.

Yup. I said it. Because deep down through the trauma, the subconscious people pleasing, the victimization for sympathy, savior complexes, and the need to be the martyr…it just feels good.

Where did we f**k up our humanity when it became the default mode to allows ourselves to be hurt emotionally & mentally all because of that rush of good feeling?!?! Because we lack that good feeling naturally within ourselves so we go out and find artificial good feelings with a price tag of hurt in the end?! Oh dear…🤦‍♀️

Do whatever it is you are going to do (not murder!😅) but know that if you are hurting because of someone else but you were aware of that hurt coming, take accountability for it. Own it. Don’t act dumb & surprised or play the “victim”. And maybe recongnize the patterns that are leading you to putting yourself in these type of situations. Healthy therapy can help!

And God help us to see the errors of our humanity. 😅🙏🏻

It’s tough out there fellow humans, I am right in the middle of the chaos with you. Stay safe out there my friends. ♥️

11/01/2024

Truth ♥️

10/30/2024

And realizing those ‘trauma lessons’ were actually the real blessings 😉♥️✨

10/27/2024

Another Observation: Spiritual Plateauing

I see a lot of ‘plateauing’ within the spiritual community.

It’s a lot of the same old algorithms. And not a lot of room for growth, creativity, new ideas, and progress.

Person becomes spiritual. Person turns that spirituality into “I’m special” “I’m going to help everyone” and thinks they need to start a business online to share their gifts (or curse) with the world. (And in some cases, they think a higher power is encouraging them on this path. Thats not a higher power, that’s your ego sweetie. 🙄)

Person may get followers depending on said gifts & the ability to manipulate the toxic community online for their benefit. This may even lead to many followers. And a boosting of one’s self worth and a fix for the ego.

And then this is where the ‘plateauing’ begins. They equate the amount of followers to legitimate validation from the work they are offering (at this point their personal spiritual practices may have taken a nose dive) and refuse to give up their status due to their validation tied into the online “specialness” in the face of new information or another human that may have different beliefs & meaning in this world. Their businesses turn into ego chambers void of outside opinions.

It’s sad really, seeing all these lovely people that have good intentions get mixed up in this toxic plateauing behavior. They are not using their influence for the masses but really just to fuel their ego that they are too blind to see is really running everything at this point.

Yes, I understand that this toxic energy can have a hold on many and not just the individual and it’s also not something new in our human existence but it leaves a sour taste when it’s tied into the divine.

The divine wants you to grow, to learn, to create, to be free, to enjoy the fruits of all aspects of life that are deemed good or bad. The divine is not in the business of being stuck to fuel misguided means of making money or unhinged savior complex practices. The divine doesn’t do “I’m special”.

I know I have little to no followers (by design) and this observation will be seen by few humans but I type these words anyway because we are at a lack and in need for true divine beings in this world that are trying to break these algorithms & savior complexes and the need for massive amounts of unhealthy validation from other humans. We need them to form communities based on true humanity and the ability to rise above the “specialness” and into creative natural growth & individual progress.

If you fall into the latter category, thank you. Please continue to rise above the toxic spiritual community of followers/savior complexes/specialness because we need your creativity energies that go unseen & unnoticed. Because when the fallout hits (and it will hit soon) we will need your guidance for how to build our individual selves back to the divine and our true natural paths of creation without the need for validation or being seen as “special”.

I long for a world that is not this current one. May God help us all. Stay safe out there humans. ♥️

10/26/2024

10/17/2024

Letting go and leaning into the great unknown. The wild, chaotic ride of life. ♥️