
07/14/2025
Your baby wanting to be held all the time is not spoiled.
It’s human.
It’s normal.
It’s how they survive.
They just spent 9 months in the safest place they’ve ever known, your body. Constant warmth, constant heartbeat, constant comfort.
Now they’re out in a loud, bright, overstimulating world, and you?
You are home. You are safety. You are everything.
So if your baby cries when you put them down, if they need your arms to fall asleep, if they want to be on your chest 24/7—that’s okay. That’s not spoiled.
That’s attachment.
That’s bonding.
That’s exactly how it’s supposed to be.
Hold that baby. Wear them. Rock them. Let them be close.
You're not creating bad habits, you're creating security. ❤️