01/13/2026
How does this land for you? đĄ
A natural part of human nature is worry. Thinking, preparing, problem-solving. You know if youâre no longer in problem-solving and into rumination when you begin to âcircle the drainâ, and it no longer becomes helpful. Itâs like picking at a hangnail, and you feel sick of thinking about something.
Hereâs what we can try together.
Instead of using our mind to exit our mind (hard for people prone to busy minds), how about we intervene with our body; with our actions.
In my 33 years of life I have been unsuccessful almost every time of thinking myself out of a spiral. (For some people, that is untrue! Some people respond well to CBT stuff- myself included at times)
And for some of us, we need to get out of brain mode into body mode. How?
Move. Walk. Talk to someone. Cry. Journal. Go watch a show. Video games. Podcast. Read. Paint. Draw. Get creative!
In sum, engage with something else entirely. You likely wonât want to. Brain will tell you youâre a millimeter away from worrying yourself into safety. That is not true.
Something that engages your body and gets you into your right brainâ the creative, calm, regulated sideâŠ. That is the sauce.
No, this isnât avoidance. This is actually a doorway to greater perspective, creativity and regulationâ the foundations of ACTUAL problem-solving. I can trust that my regulation is what prepares me for unknowns as opposed to obsessive thinking.
As always, my tips arenât always or never or one size fits all. Experiment with this if youâre maybe a little like me and you live in outer space a bit (lol)
In the body first, in the mind second. (Or not at all bc a lot of times a situation doesnât actually need me to solve it. *gasps at own irrelevance*