
08/20/2025
What can boredom teach me this week?
That’s what I’m chewing on this misty Wednesday 🌺
So far, I’m recognizing my discomfort with boredom and my desire to avoid it for myself and also my daughter who gets cranky when she’s bored. lol.
I seek to fill empty spaces with my phone, books, food, podcasts, you name it.
There’s nothing inherently wrong with any of these things, and using distraction and things we enjoy isn’t ‘unhealthy’ until we (I) recognize the discomfort when every second isn’t filled, or that the sensation of discomfort in general registers as ‘bad’ in my mind.
I couldn’t find the ‘right’ podcast this Sunday on my walk so I was sort of pi**ed off and hastening around trying to finish it quickly (lol), and then I looked up and saw this flower.
I could’ve missed it. And I’m glad I didn’t. Ohio is cool.
I know boredom has a lifetime of information for me, if I allow myself to linger in those mundane spaces for just a hair longer. I just know I don’t want to miss whatever it is.
Boredom isn’t a sexy process, really. There’s no dopamine in it. I do find it’s peaceful, however. And it forces me not to miss stuff as much.
Let’s keep learning together.
Cheers to a mundane Wednesday!
And in case you need a PSA—- don’t believe social media. We are all bored, uninspired, and not doing anything cool whatsoever the majority of the time 😁