12/20/2025
đ When tragedies occurâsuch as the mass shooting in Bondiâthey ripple far beyond the immediate community. Even for those who are geographically distant, events like this can activate fear, grief, anger, helplessness, and a profound sense of vulnerability. This is a normal human response to abnormal events.
In the aftermath of collective trauma, communities often experience a mix of connection and distress. Some people feel an urge to stay informed, while others feel overwhelmed by the constant exposure. Both responses are valid. What matters most is noticing how your nervous system is responding and responding to that with intention and care. đ
If you are feeling unsettled, consider grounding back into the present moment: limit media consumption, reconnect with routines, and seek out safe, supportive conversations. For parents, children may absorb more than we realizeâsimple, honest reassurance and emotional presence can be protective. For helpers and caregivers, this is also a reminder to attend to your own capacity and compassion fatigue.
Collective grief deserves collective care. Communities heal not by ignoring what happened, but by acknowledging pain, honoring lives lost, and strengthening connection and safety where we can. If this event has stirred past trauma or feels unmanageable, reaching out to a mental health professional is not a sign of weaknessâit is a step toward regulation and healing.
You are not alone in your response. And it is okay to slow down, feel, and take care of yourself as the world feels heavy.