07/31/2025
Rediscovering Life in a Different Venue
Greetings one and all!! As some of you may know, I stepped away from the fitness gig for a while to work on another business venture with my wife. Her dream ever since she was a kid has been to own a donut shop! Chance would have it that my insurance agent, Jack Dear knew about a Southern Maid Donut shop in Garland where the then Owners were retiring after 32 years in the biz. My entrepreneurial spirit kicked in and saw an existing business with decent margins ready for a new Owner to take the reins. Yes, it was a far cry from the health and wellness I was teaching just months prior, to baking and marketing donuts to the very people I advised against eating them for years. I, prior to this, would eat a donut only once or twice a year at a business function or event. Even though I had never baked anything, and the shop desperately needed a facelift or remodeling (it was founded in 1974, and it hadn’t been updated since!), we made a 3-year plan and took the leap!
And here it is 3 years later! We learned a lot about the brick-and-mortar business world, which I had never been part of even after owning or being a partner in 3 prior businesses. We were challenged to learn how to bake, cook and decorate donuts and we had fun creating tasty original treats that you don’t see in other donut shops. We were also challenged with the sudden change in lifestyle, getting up in the middle of the night to go to work, putting in 12-to-13-hour days, 7 days a week, and trying to go to bed while it’s still daylight. We were challenged with being anti-social because we were too tired to attend events and the gathering of friends at a restaurant. But all of that was worth it when we saw the people’s faces light up after receiving the donuts and treats that we created! We were supported by the local and surrounding communities, loyal customers and people from around town that heard we had the best kolaches and Apple Fritters “on the planet”! Our hearts were warmed as we gave back to the community by giving our overages each day to non-profits, daycares, homeless shelters, food banks, city facilities, school district departments, local churches, Fire stations and Police precincts. We supported our local Chamber, sponsored community events and purchased supplies from local vendors. All in all, it was a good experience, but retirement so far has been a much more relaxed experience!
That being said (and I thank you for reading this far), I have a renewed spirit and itch to get back to being healthy and well again. During my 3-year stint in the donut biz, my habits changed drastically, and I did not heed my own advice of exercising at least 3 times a week. Matter of fact, I only exercised 3 times in 3 years! But during that time, I got a better insight into what I wanted to do with Hallmark Bodies. I am going back to my roots of encouraging people to relax and to live a healthy lifestyle with … no rules, no restrictions, just good habits for life! I have decided that instead of doing one-on-one sessions a couple times a week with a few people or gathering several people in a room doing HIIT exercises, that I would be of better service to you if I would impart to you the insights that I have come to learn while not exercising. Don’t get me wrong, I still think exercising is a key part of staying healthy and well, but it is only one part. Sanity, diet, stress management are also parts of living a healthy lifestyle and I will be giving you ways to stay healthy without resorting to endless exercise and restricted diets. On this site you will be hearing from me and others that know more than me, backed by science and real-life experiences on simple ways to maintain or change the way you look and feel. Not everything will work or even be something you might need, but there will be something from time to time that will resonate with you and your struggle, whatever that may be. Case in point … first lesson …
Creating Fitness Clients One Donut at a Time! Some of you may have heard that tag line coined by my friend Michael Gallops when I quit selling health and wellness and started selling donuts. You may have also heard of what I was calling the Donut Diet! (it’s a real thing that I made up) One thing I learned about myself when I started creating these tasty treats is that I really do like eating donuts. (I know, it surprised me too!) Not all donuts, but some varieties became a staple for me during the past 3 years. And, during that time where I was eating a couple of donuts a day, I dropped 15 pounds from when I started and have maintained that deficit! Not because I was exercising and eating chicken and rice three times a day. Matter of fact, completely the opposite. No, it was what I had been saying for years to my fitness Clients that wanted to lose weight … a lifestyle change is what reduces weight gain.
So, the moral of this long story is, and contrary to conventional wisdom … DONUTS DO NOT MAKE YOU FAT! The "quantity" and "frequency" that you indulge in donuts could make you fat when coupled with a sedentary lifestyle. So run, don’t drive to your nearest donut shop and tell them “Hallmark Bodies said it’s ok for me to have a donut today, guilt free.” You’ll feel better about yourself, you’ll go forward with confidence and feel you must make good choices for the rest of your day! That is a lifestyle shift you can do. Be healthy but enjoy yourself along the way!
Check back again soon. I'll have more sensible tips on how to enjoy a healthy lifestyle with no rules, no restrictions, simply good habits for life!