12/17/2025
The Mental Load of “One More Thing” Season
Mid-December has a very specific kind of stress.
You think you’re on top of things, and then suddenly everything needs one more thing from you.
One more email to answer.
One more gift to grab.
One more event to show up for.
One more decision you didn’t expect to make.
One more task that didn’t exist yesterday.
Individually, they’re small.
Together, they drain you in a way that’s hard to explain.
Your brain only has so much room and this is the time of year when it gets used up fast.
When your mental load is full, even simple things feel heavier.
You get through them, but it costs you more energy than it usually would.
If you’re feeling stretched or foggy or just “done” right now, it has nothing to do with ability and everything to do with capacity.
Mid-December tests it.
And at Valley Mental Health, we support people through this exact kind of overload.