09/12/2022
September means it’s Back to School time! This adjustment period can be challenging for both the adolescent and their family, especially in a post-pandemic environment. While the beginning of the school year brings in new routines and fresh starts, it can also bring feelings of stress and anxiety. In this post, you will find helpful tips, tricks and routines intended to support you/your child in making this school year a success.
Create Routines
Children thrive when provided with a consistent routine. Implementing routines can increase feelings of security and ease. This could mean predictable morning and bedtime routines, or designating specific times for tasks like homework and chores. Healthy routines lead to healthy living habits and can provide both the child and the family with more organization and structure.
Teaching Your Child About Emotional Regulation
One of the most important traits a parent or guardian could exercise with their children is active listening. When a child is free to voice their emotions, opinions and experiences with the people they are closest to, this creates a foundation for improving communication skills and building strong relationships. It is important that you give your child your full attention when they come to you with challenges, and to validate the feelings they are experiencing. Emotional regulation can be taught and practiced through breathwork; pausing to take three to five deep breaths when feeling overwhelmed, and identifying the emotion so that we may respond, instead of react. Calming tools and open communication are just two ways to help you or your child manage difficult emotions, especially those which may come with school anxiety.
Developing a Plan for School Related Conflicts
With each new school year, comes a unique set of challenges for children as they navigate life outside the home. Peer conflicts, fluctuating grades, and school-related stresses are common, and likely to occur at some point in a child’s life. Developing a plan to face these conflicts with your child can help the both of you feel well equipped to manage, or even prevent these challenges. Having a plan in place to help your child cope with potential school related conflicts will also aid them in becoming independent young adults.
Getting a Good Night’s Sleep and Eating Healthy
As most of us probably know by now, sleep is SO important, not only just for children, but for all of us. It is essential that children get at least 8-10 hours of sleep a night, combined with a healthy diet and an ample amount of exercise. These healthy habits will only support your child in their overall well being - physically, mentally and emotionally.
Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help
Sometimes school related conflicts need a more rigorous intervention, and that’s okay! There is a great amount of resources out there to help improve your child’s experience at school. Some options include inquiring about an Individualized Education Program (IEP), scheduling sessions with the school counselor, or receiving mental health/behavioral services outside of school.
Below you will find a list of resources that could be of benefit to you and your child during this school year :
CBHI Key Program Inc.
Offering therapeutic mentoring & in-home therapy for youth under 21 years of age.
https://www.key.org/programs/childrens-behavioral-health-initiative
JRI Services
Therapeutic mentoring, in-home therapy, family support & training, and more.
https://jri.org/services/community/childrens-friend-and-family-services
Massachusetts Parents Sharing Resources Page
A list of local resources to help & support families
https://jri.org/sites/default/files/inline-files/Family%20Sharing%20Resource%202022%20R5.pdf
Community Day Learning
Before & after school enrichment programs for children in the Lawrence & Methuen area
https://www.thecommunitygroupinc.org/community-day-learning/programs/school-age
Blueskies Behavioral Health Services offers outpatient therapy for individuals of all ages. If you or your child could benefit from counseling services, join our waitlist today! Call 978-655-1823.
To learn more about us, please visit www.blueskieswellnessinc.org
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