08/28/2025
Does this sound familiar? – you text a girl saying “Let’s go to Mexican on Friday night. 7pm good for you?” She replies with a simple “ok”, but she hasn’t included her usual smiley face in the text.
After receiving such a message, a lot of guys will stare at it over thinking that she doesn’t seem too keen about Mexican, so scared she might flake, he’ll hurriedly text back saying “…or we could go somewhere else if you like? How about Indian instead?” or maybe they’ll say, “or we could do Thai food instead. It’s up to you”.
Being indecisive is a massive turn off for girls. As soon as you doubt yourself she will doubt you and you’ll actually higher the chance of her flaking.
If you really think she doesn’t want to eat Mexican, rather than asking her if she’d like something instead, state that you’re going to take her somewhere better: “Scratch Mexican. I forgot about this fun hidden gem I went to the other day. Let’s meet at Tottenham Court Road at say 7pm?”
