12/10/2025
“Every year we promise we won’t overspend for the holidays… and every year we wake up in January feeling ashamed.”
That’s what a couple told me recently — two hardworking parents who make good money.
But every December, the same pattern shows up:
He overspends because he wants to give the childhood he never had.
She can’t say no because the guilt eats at her.
And by the time the lights come down, they’re left with regret, tension, and a balance they don’t want to look at.
They told me,
“We’re not struggling. So why do we feel so out of control after the holidays?”
And I reminded them —
It’s not discipline. It’s clarity.
Most couples are spending from emotion, not intention.
From comparison. From pressure. From love mixed with fear.
What hurts most is that the holidays bring joy…
but the aftermath brings shame.
This year, they chose something different.
Not restriction — clarity.
And that’s exactly why I created the
5-Day Challenge: From Money Confusion to Money Clarity.
In five days, I’ll help you understand:
• Why holiday spending spirals
• Where the money truly went
• How to break emotional patterns
• How to enter the new year with confidence, not guilt
If the holidays left you feeling overwhelmed or confused, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to repeat the cycle.
👉 Join the 5-Day Challenge
Because you deserve financial peace going into a new year.