The Power of Pleasure

The Power of Pleasure Xanet Pailet is the author of Living an Or****ic Life, now available for pre-order at https://amzn.t Has your s*x life become routine and boring?

Are you looking for ways to deepen your passion and intimacy? Are you getting what you want from your relationship? Do you feel comfortable expressing your true s*xual self? The Power of Pleasure offers a unique approach to s*x and intimacy coaching that is more powerful and effective than traditional relationship talk therapy. Using a somatic based embodied approach, we will help you become empow

ered around your s*xuality and be able to understand and express your needs and desires. You will learn new skills to become a better and more confident lover, increase your s*xual energy, and create more intimate and juicy relationships. We take an experiential approach to s*x and intimacy coaching enabling you to practice new skills and receive immediate feedback. While at all times we maintain a high level of professionalism, our sessions our often filled with fun and laughter as we explore new experiences, deepen connection, and examine our edges.

💗 Why Slowing Down Matters for Intimacy 💗Here’s the truth most people don’t talk about…Many women aren’t ready to dive i...
07/30/2025

💗 Why Slowing Down Matters for Intimacy 💗

Here’s the truth most people don’t talk about…

Many women aren’t ready to dive into physical intimacy after just a few minutes.
They need time—emotionally, mentally, and physically—to arrive, to soften, to open.

For most, it takes 30–45 minutes of connection, presence, and tenderness before their body feels truly receptive.

And no—this doesn’t mean anything is wrong.
It means you’re human. It means you’re wired for deep, meaningful connection, not instant performance.

When you honor this slower pace, something magical happens:
✨ Emotional safety deepens
✨ Desire returns
✨ Intimacy becomes sacred

If this speaks to you, your relationship might be ready for something deeper.

🕊️ Comment “RETREAT” below and I’ll send you the details of our next Couples Intimacy Retreat.

Let’s make connection—not pressure—the foundation of your love life.

07/24/2025

How a Weekend Retreat Saved Our 10-Year Marriage

💔 Do you ever feel like you’re living with your partner… but the connection is gone?
Like you're more roommates than lovers?

You're not alone. So many couples reach a point where intimacy fades—not because the love is gone, but because life, stress, and silence get in the way.

But it doesn’t have to stay that way.
You can rebuild trust.
You can reignite desire.
You can find your way back to each other.

🌿 That’s what our Couples Intimacy Retreats are all about.

Through guided exercises, sacred space, and real conversations, couples come home to themselves—and each other.
They cry. They laugh. They reconnect. They learn tools to heal.

✨ If you’re ready to stop surviving and start thriving in your relationship… check out the comment below for more details...

Because love is worth fighting for—and you don’t have to do it alone. 💗

My guest appearance on the Call IT in With Dar podcast is live! You can listen at http://callitinpodcast.com/ or on your...
07/18/2025

My guest appearance on the Call IT in With Dar podcast is live! You can listen at http://callitinpodcast.com/ or on your favorite podcast service.

This podcast, hosted by my friend Darla McCann ( ), is for women seeking more depth and more meaning in their life... more happiness, more healthiness, more peacefulness, more abundance and more overall fulfillment, and I am so honored to be in the spotlight!

Please help out with feedback by leaving a review mentioning my name. It will be most appreciated!

And Dar has graciously provided us with a quick quiz to help uncover which type of “Light Leader” you might be…. healer, teacher, warrior, or visionary? - as a gift from her to you.

Click here to take the free quiz! https://darsdivineconnections.com/archetype-quiz



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You. Me. The Costa Rican rainforest. Hot springs. Slow mornings. Laughter. Luxuriating. Letting. It. All. Go.We’re doing...
07/18/2025

You. Me. The Costa Rican rainforest. Hot springs. Slow mornings. Laughter. Luxuriating. Letting. It. All. Go.

We’re doing this. 💃🏽

https://bit.ly/awakenyoursensualself

Go to 🔗 in bio or drop a 💛 if you want me to DM you the details!



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07/17/2025

🔥 When Your Desire Changes, Don’t Panic—Get Curious 🔥

You used to feel turned on just by a look or a thought. Now? Not so much.

That doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means your body is asking for something different.

Spontaneous desire is the lightning bolt.

Responsive desire? It’s the slow fire that needs kindling—touch, connection, safety.

And guess what? It’s totally normal. Especially as we age.
Because reigniting passion isn’t about “getting back what you lost.”
It’s about discovering what’s waiting underneath the silence.

Curious to explore more? 💫 Comment below and I'll send you more info...
..or click the link below to grab my free '20 Minutes to Better Love Life' course—designed to help you reconnect, reignite, and remember what feeling truly alive together can feel like.

https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/20-minutes-to-better-s*x/

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If you’re a midlife woman who’s feeling less desire for s*x than you used to…Let me say this loud and clear:✨ You are no...
07/16/2025

If you’re a midlife woman who’s feeling less desire for s*x than you used to…
Let me say this loud and clear:
✨ You are not broken.
✨ You are not alone.
✨ And you are definitely not the only one.

Yes, menopause changes things—hormones shift, lubrication can be tricky, and libido might take a hit. But thinking this is just your “new normal”? That’s the real problem.

There are solutions. There is support.
And most importantly—there’s a path back to your sensual, powerful self.

🌸 If this speaks to you, check out my Sensual Awakening Retreat—a sacred space for midlife women to reconnect with their bodies, their pleasure, and their truth: https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/sensual-awakening-retreat/

Because you deserve to feel alive in every sense of the word. 💗

What if you could want again—deeply, fully—Not just in the bedroom... but in your body, your relationships, your creativ...
07/11/2025

What if you could want again—deeply, fully—

Not just in the bedroom... but in your body, your relationships, your creativity, your life?

What if you could reclaim your spark—not because something is missing, but because you’re ready for more?

More joy. More ease. More pleasure. More YOU. ✨

At the Awaken Your Sensual Self Retreat, we’re not chasing youth—we’re celebrating womanhood in its fullest expression.

It’s about softening into yourself, shedding old stories, and awakening the parts of you that still long to dance, to feel, to come alive.

Isn’t it time to stop settling for less than your full aliveness?

VIP Early Bird pricing is still available—but not for long.

Step in and say yes to the next beautiful chapter 👉 https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/sensual-awakening-retreat/

Drop a 💃 or ✨ in the comments if your body is saying yes please.

What if 20 minutes could completely change your love life? (And yes—it’s absolutely FREE.)So many couples crave deeper c...
07/02/2025

What if 20 minutes could completely change your love life? (And yes—it’s absolutely FREE.)

So many couples crave deeper connection, more spark, and less pressure—but no one teaches us how.

That’s why I created: “20 Minutes to Better Love Life” — a powerful mini-course to help you feel more connected, confident, and open to pleasure… whatever that looks like for you.

You’ll walk away with tools to:
✨ Release shame
✨ Feel safer in your body
✨ Reignite desire
✨ And reconnect with what turns you on

Valued at $197, and I’m giving it to you for FREE—because everyone deserves this kind of support.
Whether you're partnered or solo, this is your gentle, guided reset.

💬 Drop a “LOVE” in the comments if you want the link. Or sign up now: https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/20-minutes-to-better-s*x/

You deserve a love life that feels alive, not like a chore. 💛

Most couples think they’re listening… but are you really hearing each other?Mindful listening goes beyond words. It’s ab...
06/27/2025

Most couples think they’re listening… but are you really hearing each other?

Mindful listening goes beyond words. It’s about presence, attunement, and creating a space where your partner feels deeply seen and safe to open up.

If you’re craving more intimacy, connection, and emotional ease in your relationship—this is where it starts.

💫 Explore the full experience:
👉 https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/reignite-the-flame-2/

You arrive with your story.Your tenderness.Your longing.And as you settle into our first sacred circle…You exhale.Not ju...
06/25/2025

You arrive with your story.

Your tenderness.

Your longing.

And as you settle into our first sacred circle…

You exhale.

Not just from your lungs—but from your soul.

Surrounded by women who get it—who meet you without masks or judgment—something in you softens.

You remember you’re not alone. You never were.

This is where the healing begins.

Not by fixing yourself.

But by being fully seen. Fully held. Fully you. 💫

Come gather with us.

Come home to yourself.

Come witness the power of sisterhood.

📍Costa Rica | Feb 9–15
🌿 VIP Early Bird Pricing ends soon
https://bit.ly/awakenyoursensualself
Click the🔗in my bio for more details or DM me if you’re curious! 💖

Feeling disconnected lately?Touch might be the missing ingredient. 💞When done with intention, even the smallest physical...
06/18/2025

Feeling disconnected lately?
Touch might be the missing ingredient. 💞

When done with intention, even the smallest physical gestures—like a hand on the back or a warm embrace—can reignite passion and deepen emotional safety.

We created a quick carousel that walks you through why touch matters and how to bring it back into your relationship. 💫

👉 Swipe through to rediscover the power of physical connection.
Check out this link if you want a free guide to help you reconnect: https://powerofpleasure.activehosted.com/f/52

Imagine this...You arrive high in the mountains of Costa Rica, where the air is cool and clean, the trees are dripping w...
06/14/2025

Imagine this...

You arrive high in the mountains of Costa Rica, where the air is cool and clean, the trees are dripping with orchids, and a soft mist wraps around you like a hug from Mother Earth herself.

✨ Welcome to Awaken Your Sensual Self ✨

You’re greeted with a warm towel, a handcrafted mocktail, and a table full of delicious bites—each one made with love and designed to nourish every part of you.

The staff? Attentive, kind, and completely dedicated to making sure you don’t have to lift a finger.

This is your invitation to fully exhale.

To let go of the to-do lists, the caregiving, the constant thinking… and just be.

This is the sacred container where you’ll reconnect with your body, awaken your sensuality, and remember the parts of yourself that have been quietly waiting for your attention.

🌿 A place where pleasure, sisterhood, and nature come together to hold you.
🌿 A place where you get to be fully taken care of—for once.
🌿 A place to begin again.

Join me this February in Costa Rica.

There’s still time to claim your VIP Early Bird spot.
👉 https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/sensual-awakening-retreat/

DM me or click the link in my bio to learn more about the retreat! 💖

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