Karen Pando-Mars

Karen Pando-Mars Psychotherapist, Author, Consultant,
Senior Faculty at the AEDP® Institute.

Forthcoming book by Norton: Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns: Healing Trauma in Relationship.

Here is the recent conversation Diana Fosha and I had with Dr. Sarah Bren on the Securely Attached podcast.  Sarah is a ...
04/16/2025

Here is the recent conversation Diana Fosha and I had with Dr. Sarah Bren on the Securely Attached podcast. Sarah is a great listener and deeply engaging. We would love to hear your responses.
Norton Mental Health AEDP Institute

Discover how rethinking attachment through the lens of AEDP offers insights into healthier attachment patterns and relationships.

Here at the AEDP “In it together”conference, we are together to hold our book!!! Deep appreciation for how writing this ...
04/05/2025

Here at the AEDP “In it together”conference, we are together to hold our book!!! Deep appreciation for how writing this book with Diana Fosha was indeed a process of being in it together!

A shout out to the SF AEDP Essential Skills 2012 course participants who asked me “but what do you do when patients have different attachment styles?”

In 2016, came the paper, now here’s the book, a deepened and expanded response to that question, with the grids of each configuration shifting from styles to patterns of attachment- and their corresponding clinical markers and interventions…

I’m feel so happy and excited to be sharing and celebrating it in person at our conference!

We're getting excited - running into friends and collegues on the street and in the nearby cafe...tomorrow it all begins...
04/03/2025

We're getting excited - running into friends and collegues on the street and in the nearby cafe...tomorrow it all begins!

We’re getting excited! Today we’re finding friends and colleagues on the street, in the cafe… tomorrow it all begins!
04/03/2025

We’re getting excited! Today we’re finding friends and colleagues on the street, in the cafe… tomorrow it all begins!

Dear AEDP members, Join Diana and I for a Transformance Talk discussing our new book - Tailoring Treatment to Attachment...
03/11/2025

Dear AEDP members,

Join Diana and I for a Transformance Talk discussing our new book - Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns. We will be in conversation with Carrie Ruggieri, editor of the Transformance Journal for an interactive live webinar - free for members!

We would love for you to join us Tuesday, March 11th from 12:00pm-1:00pm EST - on launch day!

Register via link: https://register.aedpinstitute.org/Order.aspx?selectedId=5250&offerGuid=dc7e22a0-7d19-4ce9-8b72-f4400489ef16&rtype=MEMBER

🖤 Honoring Multicultural Healing in AEDP & Black History Month 🖤I’m feeling excited to share this rich and deeply import...
02/15/2025

🖤 Honoring Multicultural Healing in AEDP & Black History Month 🖤

I’m feeling excited to share this rich and deeply important interview with two incredible AEDP therapists, Yi-Fang (Evon) Chiu and Lois Ridley, on decolonizing therapy for marginalized cultures. Lois is a member of the AEDP Vision Collective and Yi-Fang is a part of our AEDP international community, practicing in Taiwan. They both have a deep interest in psychotherapy from a multicultural healing lens.

This TV interview aired February 11th, and I couldn’t think of a more meaningful time—during Black History Month—to amplify the deep impact of this work. I’m honored to be in community with therapists who are committed to expanding healing beyond Western frameworks and integrating a multicultural lens into psychotherapy. This work matters and it's shaping the future of psychotherapy!

I’d love to hear from you:
➡️ How are you integrating multicultural perspectives into your practice?
➡️ What are your thoughts on decolonizing therapy?

💡 Watch the full interview here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuQ1Msin3IU

Let’s continue learning, unlearning, and building a more culturally competent healing space together. 💛

Accessing suitable therapy and mental health support is challenging for many, especially among BIPOC communities. Current methods are not always equipped to ...

I cannot wait for this book to enter the world - and it's release is just one month away - on March 11th!Tailoring Treat...
02/11/2025

I cannot wait for this book to enter the world - and it's release is just one month away - on March 11th!

Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns offers guidance on how to translate attachment theory, neuroscience, and trauma healing into transformative clinical interventions. I've loved co-authoring this book with Diana Fosha, and we are so grateful for the early endorsements we've received. A very special thanks to Rick Hanson, Ph.D. for offering this early review - which is such an honor coming from him.

This book has been a labor of love and we hope it will be a resource for each of you.
Preorders mean the world to authors, and our publisher Norton Mental Health has offered 20% discount and free shipping - order your book today! https://lnkd.in/gbwU9muD

With Greg Dunn Neuro Art – I just got recognized as one of their top fans! 🎉. So grateful for Greg Dunn Neuro Art to gra...
02/11/2025

With Greg Dunn Neuro Art – I just got recognized as one of their top fans! 🎉. So grateful for Greg Dunn Neuro Art to grace the cover of our book Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns.

Hi friends! I'm very excited to share this Barnes & Noble sale with you! Use code: PREORDER25 at checkout for a discount...
02/05/2025

Hi friends! I'm very excited to share this Barnes & Noble sale with you! Use code: PREORDER25 at checkout for a discount on my forthcoming book Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns, co-authored with Diana Fosha.

This preorder sale is only through Friday Feb 7th, so don't wait and grab your copy today!

So grateful to share this beautiful circle of learning, inspiration and exploration in deep accompaniment🙏
01/21/2025

So grateful to share this beautiful circle of learning, inspiration and exploration in deep accompaniment🙏

📚 Exciting News! I’m thrilled to reveal the cover of my forthcoming book, Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns—co-...
12/13/2024

📚 Exciting News! I’m thrilled to reveal the cover of my forthcoming book, Tailoring Treatment to Attachment Patterns—co-authored with Diana Fosha, published by Norton Mental Health and coming March 11, 2025.

Over the last 10 years, I've poured my heart and mind into researching and writing about the vital intersection of attachment theory, neuroscience, and trauma healing. This book is a culmination of that important and meaningful work - offering insight and interventions for anyone in the helping and healing profession. We can heal attachment trauma!

🔬 This isn’t just a book about theory; it’s about transforming how we work with trauma. Together, we can heal attachment trauma and help our clients access the brain's incredible potential for neuroplasticity.

🌌 I want to share about the book cover: I wanted something beautiful, and relevant – and have been drawn to Greg Dunn Neuro Art for years. This piece is named “Cortical Twilight.” We like the image's abstract quality, sheer beauty, and the fact that it is an art work depicting structures of the brain: the cortex and neural circuitry. Dunn’s description of the piece even identifies “cells that keep things regulated,” so apropos for how key in our work is helping patients process emotions in a regulated way. Given that our book talks about how to harness the brain’s potential for neuroplasticity, the elements of designs are well-suited and meaningful. We aim to set the conditions for our patients to have a secure attachment with us, their therapists, in order to heal their insecure attachment – and to have new and corrective experiences which can promote positive neuroplasticity.

🎨 The colors in Cortical Twilight are vibrant – blues, silvers, hints of lavender, and gold - which relates to how we see vitality as an aspect of secure attachment. There are also areas that look like the reflection of light on water. The neuronal structures give an impression of roots. There’s an oceanic feel – with a bit of horizon and a sense of depth. The upper white/violet gives an impression of clouds, even cloud parting perhaps revealing some blues skies, but not literal, and the bursts of yellow gold suggest energy potential, flashes of significance. We love how this gives impressions for so many aspects of the work of psychotherapy.

💬 I’d love to hear what you think of the cover—what does it evoke for you? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

👉 Pre-order your copy now wherever books are sold! Amazon link here: https://a.co/d/dfn7S7O Stay tuned and follow along as I share more about the book in the coming months!

Special thanks to my incredible co-author Diana Fosha, the team at Norton , Bethany Saltman, and friends, family, & colleagues who have encouraged and supported me along the way. March can’t come soon enough!

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