Holistic Counseling Center Long Island

07/19/2025

🫂Counseling for Loss of Intimacy in Marriage🫂

in marriage can significantly impact a couple’s relationship, leading to dissatisfaction and even separation, if not addressed.

Therapy, particularly , can be instrumental in identifying the root causes of and providing strategies for rebuilding emotional & physical connection.

Working with a who’s a professional in can help you strengthen your connection and find solutions to conflicts.

We offer a safe place where couples in a more effective way. (Even happy couples benefit from receiving support / advice from a who understands relationships). This will allow you & your partner to have more rewarding, satisfying lives together.

Common Reasons for Loss of Intimacy in :

: Lack of open and honest communication about feelings, needs, and desires is a major contributor to intimacy problems.

or : When one or both partners feel their needs are not acknowledged or valued, it can negatively impact intimacy.

and : Unresolved conflicts and resentment can build up and create emotional distance, hindering intimacy.

: Trust is the foundation of intimacy, and its erosion can lead to a decline in both emotional and physical closeness.

and : Life events like job changes, parenthood, or grief can create strain on the relationship and affect intimacy.

If you're struggling to on your own, seek the guidance of a .

By addressing the underlying issues, improving communication, and actively working on rebuilding emotional &physical connection, couples can reignite intimacy & strengthen their relationship.

https://hcc-li.com/counseling-loss-of-intimacy-marriage/

*Please note that we do not accept insurance. However, we can provide you with statements for OON benefits.

07/14/2025

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The Holistic Counseling Center of Long Island, New York - Contact Us - 565 Route 25A, Suite LR4, Miller Place, NY 11764 & also in Huntington

07/14/2025

Personalized Addiction Counseling in Long Island - Sessions catering to the needs of each unique individual.

It’s vital for clients to receive therapy that’s designed to meet their specific needs. Our goal is to provide the best possible care for the unique needs of each person.

We offer individualized counseling sessions to help you address the core issues driving your addiction, and facilitate your return to a healthy, fulfilling life.

Addiction Counseling on Long Island for:

Alcohol
To***co
Opioids
Cannabis
Gambling
Gaming
S*x / Relationships
Shopping
Prescription Drugs

https://hcc-li.com/services/addiction-counselor/

07/10/2025

The Holistic Counseling Center of Long Island offers mental health counseling in Suffolk County, New York.

Licensed practitioners are ready to help with any aspect of your personal & family mental health matters.

The professional therapy services we offer include:

➡️Imago relationship therapy
➡️Couples/marriage counseling
➡️Individual therapy
➡️Family/group therapy
➡️Clinical hypnosis
➡️Ear acupuncture
➡️Addiction counseling

Contact us for an appointment:

565 Route 25A (LR4) Miller Place, NY 11764

https://hcc-li.com/services/counseling-in-suffolk-county/

06/30/2025

Ear acupuncture is used to help with addiction, mental health & trauma.

The 5 points of auricular (ear) acupuncture are:

1. Shen Men: reduces nerves and anxiety.
2. Liver: detoxifies and purifies the blood.
3. Kidney: heals the internal organs & calms fears.
4. Lung: promotes aeration.
5. Autonomic: calms nerves & increases relaxation.

The Holistic Counseling Center is certified to practice NADA ear acupuncture in Long Island, New York.

Ear acupuncture involves the gentle placement of up to 5 small, sterilized disposable needles into specific sites of the ears. Recipients sit for 30-45 minutes in a calm place allowing the treatment to take effect. Plus, it is safe, pain-free and non-addictive!

Call Us (631) 248-1727

https://hcc-li.com/ear-acupuncture/

06/23/2025

Kindness isn’t something we can just talk about—it’s something our children need to feel, see, and experience. The way we treat them, and others, lays the foundation for how they treat the world. Every time we choose compassion, empathy, and patience, we’re not just parenting—we’re modeling what kindness truly looks like in action. 💛

Let’s raise kids who don’t just say kind things, but live them.

06/23/2025

Addiction Counseling Services for Residents of Long Island, NY.

We customize our therapeutic approach to the unique needs of each individual, focusing on long-lasting recovery.

For many people affected by addiction, addiction counselors are an important aspect to recovery. Substance abuse therapy helps clients understand & address the underlying causes of the addiction, as well as how to healthily cope with unique triggers. If you or someone you love is suffering from addiction, finding a therapist to help process emotions is an essential step towards healing.

Get help from compassionate therapists dedicated to your healing.

Holistic Counseling Center of Long Island

565 Route 25A (LR4) Miller Place, NY 11764

https://hcc-li.com/services/addiction-counselor/

06/18/2025

3. Constantly feeling lonely, even when with a partner.

06/18/2025

As an Imago Relationship Therapist on , David Weber’s primary goal is to help stop blaming, criticizing, and negatively reacting to each other and instead become more and .

Imago relationship is a form of and designed to help people work out misunderstandings, reduce conflict, and rediscover ways to .

Much of the work that takes place in Imago therapy sessions involves to recognize how relationship experiences have affected how we , , and within .

Couples typically sit facing each other and participate in exercises and guided by a trained . The therapist plays an active role in facilitating the between in a way that helps each understand how the other reacts & responds to conflict / stress, ideally enhancing empathy and reducing a recurrence of the same arguments or types of .

Dating partners, , and long-term can all benefit from Imago therapy.

Couples dealing with communication struggles, consistent conflict, intimacy challenges, and trust issues may want to work with an Imago therapist. Couples that are not in crisis also benefit from Imago relationship therapy, learning how to manage conflict and enhance their dynamic before anything damaging can occur.

Individuals looking to find ways to make better choices in their life and gain perspective to help them recognize the traits they desire in future partners may find benefits in Imago therapy as well!

If you wish to learn more about how can enhance your relationship, contact .

https://hcc-li.com/imago-relationship-therapist-long-island/

06/09/2025

Marriage counseling is necessary when couples experience persistent communication issues, arguments, a decline in intimacy, or when one / both partners feel emotionally disconnected / unfulfilled. It can also be helpful when facing specific issues like infidelity, money problems, or differences in parenting styles.

💚Communication problems: Difficulty expressing needs, feeling , or resorting to negative patterns like or . Counseling can improve communication skills & create a more positive dialogue.

💚Frequent arguments: Intense & unresolved that lead to & emotional distance. If you feel like your are going around in circles & never being resolved, therapy can teach you techniques.

💚Decreased intimacy: Physical or emotional disconnect, leading to a feeling of separation or lack of connection. Therapy can help couples reconnect & rebuild in their relationship again.

💚Life transitions: Major changes like having a child, job loss, or moving can strain a marriage. Preparing for significant life events can help ensure a smoother transition for any .

💚Specific issues: Dealing with , , or any other traumatic event can be a challenging time for a relationship.

💚Individual issues: If one partner struggles with personal issues that impacts the , individual or couples may be beneficial.

💚Considering / divorce: Marriage counseling can provide a space for to explore their options & make informed decisions about their future.

Important Considerations‼️

Both need to be willing to participate.

It’s not a quick fix.

can help, but it doesn’t guarantee a successful outcome: Some couples may choose to separate or after counseling.

Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to seek is a personal one. If you're experiencing persistent issues or feeling disconnected, it can be a valuable step in & finding healthier ways to .

https://hcc-li.com/when-is-marriage-counseling-necessary/

05/21/2025

Understanding DARVO is crucial for victims of abuse.

( , , , , ) is a pattern of behavior used by individuals (particularly those with narcissistic traits) to deflect accountability and manipulate others.

It’s a form of where a individual denies their wrongdoing, attacks the victim, flips the script to portray themselves as the victim, and shifts blame to the other person.

DARVO can be particularly harmful in situations involving , where it can make it difficult for victims to be believed and to seek justice or support.

Understanding DARVO is crucial for victims of abuse as it helps them recognize and understand the tactics used against them.

Here’s a breakdown of the DARVO pattern:

❌Denial: The narcissistic individual vehemently denies their actions or behaviors, dismissing any accusations or concerns.

❌Attack: They launch personal attacks, often targeting the victim’s character or credibility, to discredit them.

❌Reverse Victim and Offender: They shift the narrative, portraying themselves as the victim of the situation and claiming the victim is the real offender.

For example, if a person is in a with a and they are confronted about cheating, the narcissist might deny it, attack the partner’s intelligence, and then claim they’re being unfairly treated and that the partner is the one making the situation difficult.

To combat DARVO, it’s important to:

✔Document everything: Keep records of , abusive incidents, and any evidence of the narcissistic behavior.

✔Seek professional support: Therapists and can provide guidance and support in understanding and coping with the effects of DARVO.

✔Trust your gut: If you feel something is off, don’t dismiss your feelings. Seek outside validation and .

https://hcc-li.com/understanding-darvo-crucial-for-abuse-victims/

05/15/2025

Learn How To Say “No”

Some people find it difficult to say “no” due to many factors, including fear of disappointing others, a desire to avoid conflict, and a strong need for social approval. These challenges can stem from past experiences where saying “no” was negatively received, or from a deeply ingrained sense of obligation or guilt.

Effective “no” communication is direct, concise & respectful.

Learning to say “no” involves prioritizing your needs & boundaries, while maintaining respect for others. It’s about setting clear limits on your time & energy, and communicating those limits effectively.

Identify Priorities: What are your core values & what truly matters to you? Knowing your priorities helps you make decisions about what to say yes to & what to decline.

Set Boundaries: Establish clear limits on your time, energy & emotional resources. Know what you’re willing to commit to & what you need to protect.

Be Direct & Clear: Be straightforward & avoid using vague or ambiguous language. A clear “no” is easier to understand & less likely to be misinterpreted.

Be Polite & Respectful: While being firm, maintain a respectful tone. Acknowledge the request & express gratitude for being considered.

Practice: Start with small, low-stakes situations to practice saying no & build confidence.

Be Consistent: Once you’ve established boundaries, stick to them to avoid confusion & resentment.

Don’t Apologize: Unless you’ve genuinely done something wrong, don’t apologize for saying no. It’s your right to decline.

Be Prepared to Repeat: If someone pushes back/pressures you, be prepared to repeat your “no” firmly & calmly.

Examples:

“Thanks for the offer, but I’m not able to take on that project right now.”

“I appreciate the invitation, but I’m not going to be able to make it.”

“That’s not something I can do at this time.”

“I’m currently focusing on other commitments.”

Learning to say “no” is about respecting , prioritizing well-being & with others. By following these steps & practicing , you can learn to in a way that’s both respectful & confident.

https://hcc-li.com/learning-how-to-say-no/