01/27/2026
Sometimes we don’t burn out.
We check out.
That’s what happened to me recently.
I came to Vail to ski and spend time with close friends...and I did. I skied for three full days, soaked in the mountains, moved my body, laughed, breathed.
And then… I got sick.
Down for the count for two days.
Along the way, and especially with the physical illness, came a surprising desire to step away from everything else...emails, posting, responsibilities, showing up.
Cue the Judge saboteur:
“What the f*ck is wrong with you?”
“This is how you support people.”
But here’s the deeper truth I’m sitting with:
Checking out isn’t just emotional.
It’s physiological.
Even after pleasure, movement, and connection, our central nervous system may still need more regulation. And when it doesn’t get it, the body often steps in.
A stressed or overwhelmed nervous system impacts:
– immunity
– metabolism
– energy and motivation
– clarity and connection
So instead of asking, “What’s wrong with me?”
I’m practicing asking,
“What is my system asking for?”
Am I overwhelmed?
Unsure of direction?
Quietly scared about what’s next?
Avoidance and wisdom can feel very similar in the body.
If you’ve been checked out lately, this may not be failure...it may be intelligence.
Listening to the why beneath the pause is one of the most powerful health practices we have.