ABCD: After Breast Cancer Diagnosis

ABCD: After Breast Cancer Diagnosis ABCD provides FREE, one-to-one emotional support to anyone impacted by breast cancer.

With 275+ volunteer Mentors around the country, our customized services provide hope, guidance and compassion to patients, families and friends around the world. ABCD offers FREE, personalized emotional support and information for anyone impacted by breast cancer. As a complement to medical care, we match people with a trained volunteer Mentor who has a similar lived experience, providing compassi

onate support based on diagnosis, treatment, age, and lifestyle. With a fully virtual platform, ABCD helps people worldwide, ensuring no one faces breast cancer alone.

Join Breast Cancer Recovery, Medical College of Wisconsin Cancer Center, and Wisconsin Breast Cancer Coalition for Educa...
07/24/2025

Join Breast Cancer Recovery, Medical College of Wisconsin Cancer Center, and Wisconsin Breast Cancer Coalition for Education Day 2025: From Diagnosis to Transformation – Embracing the Journey Ahead 💜

ABCD is proud to be one of the partners of this in-person event for anyone impacted by breast cancer. Whether you're a survivor/thriver, caregiver, healthcare professional, a family member or friend, you’ll leave informed, empowered, and inspired.

🗓️ Saturday, September 13
📍 Ingleside Hotel in Pewaukee, WI
🎟️ Only $10 to attend – includes continental breakfast, lunch, and handouts!

🔗 Learn more and sign up: https://www.wibreastcancer.org/education/education-day/

On Tuesday, our very own Ellen and Keeshia had the pleasure of hosting Leslie and Susan from My Density Matters at the A...
07/24/2025

On Tuesday, our very own Ellen and Keeshia had the pleasure of hosting Leslie and Susan from My Density Matters at the ABCD office! 🩷

We enjoyed a thoughtful and energizing conversation where we exchanged ideas and explored ways our organizations can work together to help more people understand breast density and the value of emotional support. 🤝

What a great day doing some planning with Ellen and Keeshia at ABCD: After Breast Cancer Diagnosis at their office in Milwaukee yesterday.
We share the common philosophies of and - where more is possible if we work together. All good things to come, and we can't wait.

ABCD Executive Director Ellen Friebert Schupper stopped by the Milwaukee Admirals office today to personally deliver the...
07/21/2025

ABCD Executive Director Ellen Friebert Schupper stopped by the Milwaukee Admirals office today to personally deliver their 2025 Power of One-to-One Award, which they received alongside Traction Factory! 🏆

The Admirals weren’t able to attend A Night Out for ABCD: Illuminate in May—when the award was originally presented—due to a playoff game, so this visit was a special opportunity for Ellen to hand-deliver the award and share our heartfelt appreciation in person.

Huge thanks to both the Admirals and Traction Factory for their incredible support of ABCD’s mission and helping us ensure that no one faces breast cancer alone. 💜

We’re honored to have been awarded with ABCD: After Breast Cancer Diagnosis’s Power of One-to-One Award, alongside our friends at Traction Factory, for our commitment to ABCD’s mission of providing one-to-one emotional support to anyone impacted by breast cancer!🎗️💜

When Beth Gramz was diagnosed with Stage 3 triple-negative breast cancer at age 33, her ABCD Mentor helped her feel unde...
07/18/2025

When Beth Gramz was diagnosed with Stage 3 triple-negative breast cancer at age 33, her ABCD Mentor helped her feel understood, supported, and less alone. That experience changed everything.

💬 “I don’t know how else to word it except that my connection with her felt like fate."

Now, Beth gives back as a Mentor, volunteer and passionate ABCD champion. “I tell everyone about ABCD. I’m basically a walking billboard," she says.

Beth’s story is one of full-circle care: receiving support when she needed it most, and offering it with heart when others need it too. Because no one should face breast cancer alone. 💗

✨ Read Beth’s full story: https://abcdbreastcancersupport.org/our_stories/beth-gramz-mentoring-with-care-giving-back-with-heart/

💗 Tonight’s the night!Join us for “Finding the Grace in the Gray: Dealing with the Emotional Impact of a Health Scare” —...
07/16/2025

💗 Tonight’s the night!

Join us for “Finding the Grace in the Gray: Dealing with the Emotional Impact of a Health Scare” — our next LEAP Speaker Series webinar featuring author and leadership coach Susan Hall.

Whether you’re navigating a diagnosis, managing “scan-xiety,” or just trying to quiet a busy mind, Susan brings powerful tools, humor, and heart to help you move from fear to strength.

✨ You don’t want to miss this one — it’s free and open to all!

🗓️ Tonight, July 16
⏰ 6:30–7:30 PM CT
📲 RSVP now: https://abcdbreastcancersupport.org/abcd-event/leap-speaker-series-finding-the-grace-in-the-gray-dealing-with-the-emotional-impact-of-a-health-scare/

🚨 Breast cancer is the most common cancer in people ages 15 to 39, with an estimated 13,000 new cases in this group each...
07/15/2025

🚨 Breast cancer is the most common cancer in people ages 15 to 39, with an estimated 13,000 new cases in this group each year.

That’s why ABCD: After Breast Cancer Diagnosis and Young Survival Coalition (YSC) are joining forces—connecting young survivors and those living with metastatic breast cancer to trained peer Mentors who truly understand. 💞

🤝 This collaboration expands access to FREE, high-quality, personalized peer support and resources that improve quality of life—ensuring more young adults receive the connection and support they need, when they need it most.

Peer support significantly reduces mental distress, including feelings of depression, anxiety, and isolation, while increasing resilience among cancer survivors. Together, we’re making sure no young adult has to navigate breast cancer alone. 💗

🔗 Read our press release to learn more: https://abcdbreastcancersupport.org/abcd-and-ysc-collaborate-to-expand-access-to-peer-support-for-young-adults-impacted-by-breast-cancer/

✨ Another Special Mentor Moment ✨We were so glad to welcome Mentor Melodie Henderson—who lives in Virginia—and her daugh...
07/14/2025

✨ Another Special Mentor Moment ✨

We were so glad to welcome Mentor Melodie Henderson—who lives in Virginia—and her daughter Maraya to the ABCD office during their recent visit to Milwaukee!

They toured the ABCD office with Executive Director Ellen Friebert Schupper and Director of Healthcare & Community Partnerships Keeshia Jones. They even spotted Melodie’s photo and quote featured on one of our event signs, which made the visit extra special. 💗

Moments like these remind us just how far ABCD’s impact reaches and how deeply it’s felt. We’re so grateful for our Mentors and for opportunities like this to meet them in person!

Today, on what would have been her 75th birthday, we celebrate Melodie Wilson Oldenburg—journalist, breast cancer advoca...
07/13/2025

Today, on what would have been her 75th birthday, we celebrate Melodie Wilson Oldenburg—journalist, breast cancer advocate, wife, mother, and the visionary founder of ABCD. Her legacy lives on through every connection, every story, and every act of one-to-one support that brings hope to anyone impacted by breast cancer, anywhere, at any stage.

Join us in honoring Melodie’s life and the lasting impact of her vision. 💞

💞 We were thrilled to welcome one of our incredible Mentors, Maria Borneman and her daughter Alyssa during their recent ...
07/12/2025

💞 We were thrilled to welcome one of our incredible Mentors, Maria Borneman and her daughter Alyssa during their recent road trip from Pennsylvania to the 2025 YMCA National Gymnastics Championships in Green Bay (Alyssa was competing!).

On their way north, they made a special stop in Milwaukee, where Linda, one of our Match Specialists, met up with them for lunch (complete with a classic Raspberry Racine Danish Kringle 🥐), followed by a visit to the ABCD office for a tour, photos, and some swag.

Linda shared, “We spent a lovely 2.5 hours getting to know each other better. It was so meaningful to both of us to be able to make a deeper connection with each other. I truly valued (as did she) the time we got to spend together.” 💗

We are so grateful for these strong connections built within the ABCD Mentor community.

💫 We are proud to share that Melodie Wilson Oldenburg, ABCD’s founder, has been honored as one of TEMPO Milwaukee’s 50 M...
07/11/2025

💫 We are proud to share that Melodie Wilson Oldenburg, ABCD’s founder, has been honored as one of TEMPO Milwaukee’s 50 Most Influential Women.

🎙️ Melodie began her broadcast career in the 1970s and became a respected anchor known for her professionalism and strong connection with viewers. After being diagnosed with breast cancer in 1992, she used her platform to share her experience and support others. In 1999, she founded ABCD to fill a gap in emotional support and ensure no one would face breast cancer alone.

Although Melodie passed away in 2009, her legacy of compassion, courage, and community impact continues to inspire and uplift lives every day. This amazing recognition is a reminder of the lasting difference she made—and continues to make. 💞

✨ Read her feature and explore the full list: https://tempomilwaukee.wixstudio.com/tempomilwaukee50/team

💻✨ Upcoming free LEAP Webinar!Feeling overwhelmed by stress or "scan-xiety"? Join us for our next LEAP series webinar fe...
07/10/2025

💻✨ Upcoming free LEAP Webinar!

Feeling overwhelmed by stress or "scan-xiety"? Join us for our next LEAP series webinar featuring Susan Hall, bestselling author of Decide Happy: Less Stress. More Joy.

Susan will share real-life tools to:
🌟 Manage anxiety in the moment
🌀 Reframe fear into possibility and strength
🔇 Turn down the volume on that scary inner voice
🌿 Cultivate calm and gratitude anytime

As a survivor of a rare cancer and a corporate leadership consultant, Susan shares “battle tested” lessons-learned with humor and inspiration that you can use immediately—even in life’s toughest moments.

🗓 July 16, 6:30-7:30PM CT
🔗 Register now (Zoom details will be emailed after registering!): https://abcdbreastcancersupport.org/abcd-event/leap-speaker-series-finding-the-grace-in-the-gray-dealing-with-the-emotional-impact-of-a-health-scare/

A small group of ABCD staff and Mentors recently had the opportunity to attend an Open House Pilates class hosted by Sta...
07/07/2025

A small group of ABCD staff and Mentors recently had the opportunity to attend an Open House Pilates class hosted by Stacey Extence — a certified Pilates instructor with specialized training in breast cancer recovery. 💜

Stacey is passionate about supporting individuals through and beyond diagnosis. She’s also affiliated with the Core Compassion Project, an organization that provides lymphedema sleeves, specialized fitness bras, and Pilates scholarships for breast cancer patients and survivors.

We’re so grateful to Stacey for sharing her time and expertise — allowing our group to experience her thoughtful approach to movement focused on range of motion, balance, and strength. 🙏

In the photos, left to right: Director of Corporate Partnerships & Events Ashley Kopca, Mentor Jessica Storm, Marketing & Communications Support and Mentor Megan Brown, Mentor Deneitra Ham, Director of Healthcare & Community Partnerships and Mentor Keeshia Jones, and certified Pilates instructor Stacey Extence.

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ABCD: After Breast Cancer Diagnosis nurtures hope and restores confidence in all those affected by breast cancer. We are passionate about building connections to create a caring community of people who really understand what it’s like to have breast cancer or to support someone who does.

ABCD was founded in 1999 by a group of women – led by Emmy-award winning broadcast journalist Melodie Wilson Oldenburg – who realized that having breast cancer is about much more than biopsies, surgery and chemotherapy. Most of ABCD’s founders are breast cancer survivors who discovered that the most valuable information and support came from others in similar life circumstances with similar experiences with the disease. Not everyone diagnosed with breast cancer knows where to find that kind of help. That’s where ABCD comes in. We provide free, personalized information and one-to-one support to patients, families and friends affected by breast cancer, from the newly diagnosed to those in treatment and on into survivorship. Our services focus on emotional and holistic support to complement medical care. Skilled intake staff actively listens to what a caller (“Participant”) needs and finding answers or solutions to her/his most pressing needs, from short-term support about appearance issues and financial management to more extensive matches between a Participant and breast cancer survivor (“Mentor”), whose specific diagnosis, life stage and concerns match their own.

Each match is carefully created to ensure a meaningful connection between a Mentor and Participant that meets the needs of the Participant and can last a long as needed; sometimes it’s a few phone calls during the treatment decision-making process and other times, matches develop into lifelong friendships. No one else – not a nurse navigator, not a helpline, or a website – provides this highly customized connection to someone who has truly ‘walked in your shoes.’

Based in Milwaukee, ABCD has trained Mentors residing coast to coast. All services can be conducted over the phone or via email, in English or Spanish, and are available to anyone in the United States or around the world. We also have Mentors who speak French, Polish, Russian, Portuguese and Ukranian. Based on the generous support of our donors, all ABCD services have been and always will be free and confidential.