03/08/2026
Happy International Women’s Day! I woke up today thinking about the strong lineage of Finnish women who came before me.
My Finnish grandma Irja (who we called Mummi, meaning grandma in Finnish) spoke no English and was a spicy lady. She spoke her truth, worked hard, and had very little materially. But I didn’t love her for what she had. I loved her because even though life was not easy for her, she was the most giving and hardworking person I knew.
Mummi made everyone feel so cared for. She fed us constantly, always saying “ota lisää, ota lisää” at the dinner table, meaning “take more, take more.” We spent summers on her rural Finnish farm, and she pushed my brother and me around the property in a rickety wheelbarrow while she worked (2nd picture). She chopped wood, cleaned, tended her garden, cooked and baked endlessly, and started the outdoor wood sauna. She gave birth to my mom, Maritta, on that sauna bench because that was life.
My mom Maritta also had a tough life. She grew up without electricity or running water, skied to school, worked on the farm, and later immigrated to the U.S. away from everything she knew.
She now carries the torch as the strongest and most loving woman I know. The Finnish word “sisu” means unwavering determination to do hard things in the face of adversity, and no one embodies it more than her. She worked nights as a nurse while raising two kids to make sure we had everything we needed. Now she helps me run my business and often picks every last leaf from my yard because she loves working 😂
We are stubborn, opinionated, and bossy. But the love we have for others has no end.
These women taught me to be someone people can always call on. Even on the hardest days of running a business, I know I’m capable of doing this because of the women who came before me. They taught me that hard work, empathy, love, and respect are how we truly connect.
I am in awe of women. Friends, family on both Finnish and Swedish side, mother in law, sisters in law, my customers, neighbors, women in the community. All of you nurture, love, build, create, grieve, and make life. For that, women are everything. Happy International Women’s Day.