Kaleidoscope Coaching and Counseling

06/30/2025

Just stumbled upon this video and HAD to share.

Have you ever heard phrases like these?
“Why can't you focus?”
“What do you mean you forgot?”
“You have so much potential!”
“You’re just lazy.” 😩💔

If you or someone you know has ADHD, these phrases might hit a little too close to home.

Check out this eye-opening TedTalk by Salif, where he dives deep into the roots of ADHD and offers a fresh perspective. He highlights not only the challenges but also the unique strengths that come with it. You may watch this in YouTube too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWCocjh5aK0

06/19/2025

Children develop responsibility not from harsh rules or complete freedom, but from opportunities to learn in a supportive and respectful environment.

Let’s create a space where kids can grow into responsible and caring individuals. Here are some practical tips to help you strike that balance:

1. 𝗘𝗻𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲: Assign them tasks they can manage. This helps build their confidence.
2. 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗖𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀: Kids need to understand the rules and the reasons behind them.
3. 𝗠𝗼𝗱𝗲𝗹 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁: Approach situations with kindness and firmness. Kids learn by watching you!
4. 𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀: Making mistakes is a crucial part of learning. Support them as they navigate this.

Remember, it’s not about being the strict parent or the “cool” parent—it's about guiding them with love and respect.

06/16/2025

Ever felt like you’re walking a tightrope, trying to balance discipline and support with your neurodiverse kiddos? You’re definitely not alone! What might look like “bad behavior” is often just emotional dysregulation peeking through. 😩💔

When our neurodiverse kids get overwhelmed, their brains flip to survival mode! They’re not acting out on purpose; they just haven’t mastered those coping skills yet. The more we understand this, the more confident we’ll feel when the going gets tough. 🙌💪

That’s where my program "𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗰𝘂𝗲: 𝗥𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗡𝗲𝘂𝗿𝗼𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗞𝗶𝗱𝘀 𝗨𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀" comes in. You’ll get all the actionable tools, genuine and evidence-based support, and a community that truly gets it.

Ready to feel empowered? Just drop the words “Parent Rescue” in the comments below, and we’ll slide into your DMs with the link to sign up!

Let’s navigate this journey together! 💖👇

06/12/2025

Great news! We’ve pushed back the registration deadline for "𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗰𝘂𝗲: 𝗥𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗡𝗲𝘂𝗿𝗼𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗞𝗶𝗱𝘀 𝗨𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀." You now have until 𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗲 𝟮𝟱𝘁𝗵 to sign up!

If you're overwhelmed by challenging behavior, feeling like you've lost control, or struggling with disrespect from your kids, this course is for you.

Here’s why you should consider joining:

1. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲 𝗮 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸! Parenting is a full-time job with no time off. It can be exhausting, and sometimes you just need a breather. By joining the Parent Rescue training, you’ll gain valuable skills in Positive Discipline while connecting with other parents facing similar challenges. You’ll see that you’re not alone, and you’ll have a support network to rely on when things get tough. Plus, you might even make some new friends along the way.

2. 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘆𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴. If you catch yourself raising your voice more than you’d like, don’t worry—you’re definitely not the only one. But let’s be real: yelling rarely gets you the results you want and can often make things messier. Positive discipline techniques can help you communicate better, set clear boundaries, and create a calmer home vibe. Not to mention, your vocal cords will thank you!

3. 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗺𝗲! 𝗕𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲, 𝗱𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗹! 😍 With more than 30 years of experience in marriage and raising neurodivergent kids, I’ve got practical, actionable tools to share that you can start using right away.

4. 𝗜𝗻𝘃𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆’𝘀 𝗳𝘂𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲. By signing up for the Parent Rescue training, you’re not just seeking peace of mind; you’re making a smart investment in your family’s future. The skills and strategies you’ll learn will help create a positive and nurturing home, giving your kids the best chance to thrive.

𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗱?

If you’re ready to swap yelling for positive discipline, don’t wait any longer. Sign up for Parent Rescue today and prepare to transform your parenting approach. Your kids (and your ears) will thank you! Register here → https://www.kcccares.com/parent-rescue

06/09/2025

Ready to be the calm and confident parent your neurodiverse child deserves? Trust me, you’re not alone in this journey, and I’ve got just the thing for you!

Join us for 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗰𝘂𝗲: 𝗥𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗡𝗲𝘂𝗿𝗼𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗞𝗶𝗱𝘀 𝗨𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀. This program is your go-to guide for navigating the ups and downs of parenting with ease and self-assurance.

Here’s what you’ll take away by the end of our session:

1️⃣ Learn exactly what to say and do in any situation, so you can approach parenting with total peace of mind.

2️⃣ Build a deep, lasting connection with your kids that sticks around, even when they’re off doing their own thing.

3️⃣ Receive a detailed parenting guide tailored specifically for your neurodiverse child at every stage of their development, all backed by years of experience!

👉 Don’t let this chance pass you by! Sign up now for our session starting Wednesday, June 11th. It’s time to take that first step toward a happier, more connected family life. Let’s make a lasting, positive impact together! 💪❤️

Register here: https://www.kcccares.com/parent-rescue

Feeling overwhelmed or confused? “Parent Rescue” offers support to help you confidently and lovingly connect with your neurodivergent child.

06/06/2025

Here’s a little something to ponder today... ❤️

06/04/2025

Are you feeling like you’re stuck in an endless loop of reminders, negotiations, and the dreaded yelling? 😩 Trust me, you’re not alone! It’s time for a change!

Join us for “𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗰𝘂𝗲: 𝗥𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗡𝗲𝘂𝗿𝗼𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗞𝗶𝗱𝘀 𝗨𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀.” This isn’t just another parenting class; it’s 𝙩𝙝𝙚 transformative experience you’ve been waiting for! 💪❤️

Say goodbye to frustration and hello to inspiring your kids to listen, cooperate, and take responsibility—without the guilt trip!

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, confused, or just want a deeper bond with your child, “Parent Rescue” is your go-to guide through this wild, beautiful journey of parenting.

🗓️ The next session kicks off on June 11, and there’s still time to secure your spot! This 6-week training is packed with essential tools to nurture your neurodiverse kiddos in a positive, loving, and effective way.

Here’s a sneak peek at what you’ll learn:

» Understanding the “why” behind defiance and how to tackle it head-on!
» Cultivating respect instead of resentment—yes, please!
» Why timeouts and threats often backfire, plus awesome alternatives!
» How your parenting style might be impacting your child’s behavior (let’s get real!).
» The Wheel of Choice: a game-changer that helps kids make decisions and boosts their confidence.
» Practical tools you can start using TODAY—even with those strong-willed little ones!

Ready to transform your parenting journey into one filled with understanding and connection? 🙌💖 Let’s make a difference, together! Click here to register → https://www.kcccares.com/parent-rescue

06/02/2025

Discover the Strengths of the ADHD Brain!

Did you know that ADHD brains are wired for creativity, innovation, and out-of-the-box thinking? If you’re ready to explore the unique challenges and strengths that come with ADHD, we’re here to help!

Schedule an appointment with us, and together we’ll find the tools that empower you to thrive. The possibilities are limitless when you embrace your unique mind!

Contact us here to get started 👉 https://www.kcccares.com/contact

05/28/2025

You know you’ve got amazing kids, but you feel like you’re stuck in a never-ending loop of nagging, repeating yourself, and, let’s face it, yelling. It’s draining, right?

You ask them nicely to do something, and it’s like you’re speaking a different language. You give it another shot, and still, nothing. Next thing you know, you’re frustrated and raising your voice, which is not how you want to roll as a parent.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and a bit let down by your parenting game, you’re definitely not alone. Lots of parents go through this and feel like they’re failing. But guess what? You don’t have to handle it all on your own.

Check out the Parent Rescue program! Together, we'll work on turning your home into a peaceful sanctuary—no more yelling, no more drama, and absolutely no more burnout. We’ll tackle this wild, beautiful parenting journey with confidence and kindness.

Ready to dive in? Click here → https://www.kcccares.com/parent-rescue, and let’s get started!

05/22/2025

𝗙𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗱, 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝗿!

Encouragement is the secret sauce to helping our kids grow into amazing humans. When we highlight their actions instead of just giving praise, we inspire them to keep pushing forward. 💪✨

Swipe 👉 to discover some powerful phrases that’ll uplift and motivate your little ones! 💖

And hey, if you’ve got your own go-to phrases that inspire your kids, drop them in the comments below! Let’s create a treasure trove of encouragement together!❤️

05/20/2025

You don’t need to be a perfect parent, but you do need to be present.

Parenting is a mix of highs and lows, and mistakes are part of the process. What matters most is showing up for your kids, both physically and emotionally.

Being present means engaging with your children, listening to what they have to say, and being there for important moments—whether it's helping with homework, cheering them on at a soccer game, or just enjoying a meal together. It’s about creating an environment where your child feels valued and understood.

You don’t need to have all the answers or follow every parenting trend to be effective. What’s important is building a trusting relationship. Kids remember the times you were there for them, not the times when you felt overwhelmed or unsure.

So, let go of the idea of being the “perfect” parent. Focus instead on being a steady source of love and support. Celebrate the small wins, learn from the tough times, and remember that your presence is what truly builds your child's sense of security and self-worth. Being an engaged parent can make a real difference—flaws and all.

05/19/2025

Let’s be real for a second: parenting can feel like you're constantly scaling a mountain. Seriously, every day brings a new set of challenges—getting everyone out the door in the morning, wrestling with bedtime, juggling meals, handling homework, enforcing chores, breaking up sibling fights, and let’s not forget those tech meltdowns. It's exhausting, right?

But here’s the good news: you’re not alone in this, and there's definitely a light at the end of the tunnel. You can break free from this cycle of stress and frustration. And believe it or not, it can actually be simpler and less overwhelming than you imagine.

Countless parents have been where you are, feeling just as stuck. They’ve tried the same old strategies, only to end up right back where they started, scratching their heads and wondering what they’re missing. If that resonates with you, it’s time to shake things up with a fresh approach.

Let me introduce you to my Parent Rescue program. This isn’t just a bunch of feel-good fluff; it's loaded with practical strategies and support to help you navigate those parenting hurdles with ease. You'll get the tools you need to encourage cooperation, build respect, and create a more peaceful home.

It’s time for a fresh start—one that empowers you and your family to soar to new heights. Click below to learn more!

Feeling overwhelmed or confused? “Parent Rescue” offers support to help you confidently and lovingly connect with your neurodivergent child.