07/10/2024
If you own a childcare center that isn't inclusive to children with high amounts of ineffective behaviors, you don't love children. You love children that exist in a way that makes your life easier.
If you own a childcare center and you haven't made it inclusive for children with ADHD, autism, and physical disabilities, you don't love children. You're just ableist.
If you own a childcare center and you believe some children are "bad kids", you do not love children. You love power and control over a vulnerable population.
If you own a childcare and consistently exclude/punish/belittle children of color (even subconsciously), you do not love children. You love white children. (And you NEED to target the bias inside yourself asap).
If you own a childcare center and you don't pick up crying babies because it "spoils them", you do not love children and you do not understand infant development at all.
If you own a childcare and you don't pay your teachers a living wage and benefits, you don't love children. If you loved children, you would make sure the people taking care of those children are healthy and not burnt out from working 4 jobs.
If you own a childcare center and you frequently raise your voice around children to try to "get them to listen", you don't understand child development, and you aren't looking for them to listen, you're looking for them to obey.
One day I'll figure out the funding and the schedule and accomplish my dream of opening an ethical center. But until then, can we please just do a little better? They're just kids. They need us.
(This rant is NOT brought to you by my current place of work. I'm so grateful for where I'm currently teaching/caretaking. I just needed to express some frustration; I don't think people who don't work in the field understand how truly flawed it still is.)