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04/15/2026

If you saw my last video… this is the part no one talks about.

It’s not that you don’t know what to do.
It’s that in the moment, your body takes over.

And until you learn how to work with that…
nothing changes.

That’s exactly what I teach inside my boundaries course.

Message me “BOUNDARIES” and I’ll send you the details.

04/15/2026

Recovery isn’t just about not drinking.

It’s about understanding why we go back to things we know aren’t serving us… whether that’s alcohol or something else.

I wrote an article on this recently.
👇 Link in the comments.

04/14/2026

You don’t lose yourself overnight.

It happens in small moments.
Small decisions.
Small silences.

Until one day… you feel like a stranger in your own life.

If this hit, you’re not alone.

04/14/2026

I was sitting down to work yesterday with full intention… and then caught myself in a pattern.

I had a list. Emails to answer, things to send, a post to write.

But the day had already been full. Dropped the kids off, oil change, took a call, Menards for the remodel, lunch with my husband talking life and business, DMV… then finally home with a small window to work.

And that’s when it hit.

Not confusion… but that low-level pressure of needing to pick something and start.
So I did what I always do before I work. I went to music for a few minutes.

That’s intentional for me. It brings more joy into my work and helps regulate me before I start.

But today, I stayed there longer than I needed to.

Not because I didn’t know what to do next…
but because shifting into work felt like more than my system wanted to take on in that moment.

So instead, I stayed where it felt easier.

I had to actually stop and interrupt it.
Slow my breathing down.
Pay attention to what I was feeling in my body.
Let that settle before trying to move forward.

It’s subtle.

But I wasn’t stuck because I didn’t know what to do…

I was avoiding the discomfort of starting.

And it’s the same pattern I see show up in my life and in so many others.

04/13/2026

Happy Monday!

04/12/2026

“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
2 Corinthians 12:9

This doesn’t mean the struggle disappears
It means you’re not lacking the strength, support, or clarity you need in it

God isn’t saying
“get it together and then I’ll meet you there”

He’s saying
“I’ll meet you in the middle of it”

And for me… there are moment this shows up

Impatient with my kids at times
Doubting my own capabilities
Seeing something in someone else's life and questioning my own
Avoiding what I know I need to do
Trying to control outcomes instead of trusting what I can't yet see
Holding back from what I’m called to do
because I don’t want to be rejected

And yes
feeling the weight of it when people doubt me or don’t support me

Those things don’t disqualify me
They’re often the exact places I’m being invited to do something different

And sometimes grace doesn’t look like instant change

Sometimes it looks like practice
Sometimes it looks like God placing the right people in your life
to help you see what you couldn’t see before
and walk through what you didn’t know how to walk through

That’s still His grace

Giving you what you need
even if it comes through process, not instant relief

God’s power isn’t shown in pretending we’re strong
It’s shown when we stop hiding where we’re not

When we’re honest

When we let Him meet us there
His grace is already sufficient

04/11/2026

Check out this article I wrote:

How Can Setting Boundaries Improve Emotional Well-Being? Discover the Benefits

https://loom.ly/c4FAGaM

04/09/2026

You can understand boundaries and still struggle to follow through in real life.

You can know what you want to say and still hesitate.
Still overthink.
Still say yes too fast.
Still shut down.
Still replay the conversation later wishing you had responded differently.

That’s the part a lot of people don’t talk about.
The problem is not always knowing better.
The problem is what happens in the moment.

That’s why I created Setting Boundaries In Real Life.

This course is for people who want more than insight.
It’s for people who want to understand why boundaries feel hard, recognize what is happening in their body, and start responding differently in real life.

It's for people who want to improve their relationships, transform their communication, and experience more peace and freedom in their lives.

If you’re ready to stop just thinking about boundaries and start practicing them in a more honest, grounded way, you can explore the course here:

https://loom.ly/xqwEV1k

04/08/2026

One thing I’ve seen over and over is that people feel lighter when they stop trying to control every outcome.

Less resentful.
More grounded.
More able to notice joy in small things.
More grateful.
More confident.
More able to trust themselves.

Sometimes holding a boundary is uncomfortable at first.
Not because it is wrong, but because it is unfamiliar.

In a lot of ways, boundary work can feel like physical therapy for your nervous system.
You are building strength in places where you may have learned to collapse, accommodate, overgive, or override yourself.

And if people stay with the process long enough, long enough to feel it, move through it, and see what happens on the other side, something often shifts.

They stop carrying so much resentment.
They stop gripping so hard.
They feel more like themselves again.

That kind of change is quiet sometimes, but it is real.

If you want a place to start, I created a free guide:
10 Boundary Patterns That May Be Draining Your Energy

Download it here:
https://loom.ly/lBKsvCY

04/07/2026

One of the ways I’ve gone against myself is by staying too long in places I no longer needed to be.

Sometimes that looked like staying later at someone’s house because the conversation was good.
Because I was helping with a project.
Because it felt awkward to leave.
Because some part of me thought staying longer helped maintain the relationship.

You know, the classic Minnesota long goodbye.

And sometimes none of that was bad in itself.
The conversation might have been meaningful.
The helping might have been real and generous.

But I still wasn’t honoring myself in the process.

I knew I needed to get home.
To make a healthy dinner.
To reset.
To do the basic things that help me feel grounded and be a better version of myself.

And when I didn’t speak up, it affected more than just that one evening.
Sometimes it meant I lost the time I needed to unwind.
Sometimes the kids went to bed too late.
Sometimes I felt it the next day, or even into the next week.

That’s one of the things I’ve learned about boundaries:

Sometimes the issue isn’t that you’re doing something bad.
It’s that you’re not paying attention to the cost of abandoning yourself while you’re doing something good.
That’s a much more real kind of boundary work.

If this resonates, my free guide might be helpful:
10 Boundary Patterns That May Be Draining Your Energy

Download it here:
https://loom.ly/lBKsvCY

04/06/2026

Sometimes you don’t realize you went against yourself until the conversation is over.

You replay what you said.
You notice the tightness in your chest.
You realize something felt off, but you didn’t say it.
Or you said yes when part of you already knew it was a no.

That’s one of the hard things about boundaries.
Often the struggle starts before you ever say a word.

It starts in the body.
The pressure.
The guilt.
The hesitation.
The moment you override what you really feel or need.

That’s why boundary work is not just about learning what to say.
It’s about learning to recognize what’s happening in real time so you can respond with more awareness instead of habit.

If you want to explore this more, I created a free guide:
10 Boundary Patterns That May Be Draining Your Energy

Download the free guide here:
https://loom.ly/xrgHsDY

04/02/2026

If your mind is already 10 steps ahead… pause.

Look around.
Where are you right now?

Not where you should be.
Not what you haven’t done yet.

Right here.

Take a breath.
Drop your shoulders.

Now ask:

👉 What’s the next step from here?

Not the whole plan.
Just one thing.

Do it

before your mind pulls you somewhere else.

Most people aren’t stuck because they don’t know what to do.

They’re stuck because they’re never fully in the moment they’re in.

If you need help getting out of the spiral, I created something simple.

👉 I’ll drop it below in the comments.

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