Tammy Ness, LCSW, PLLC

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Moral Injury is so common with our Public Safety and Emergency Responders and can be life threatening.
02/02/2026

Moral Injury is so common with our Public Safety and Emergency Responders and can be life threatening.

Moral Injury: An Occupational Injury, Not a Personal Failure

Moral injury occurs when repeated exposure to events where you cannot prevent harm, enforce justice, or act in alignment with your values creates lasting internal conflict.

This is not weakness.

This is what happens when a conscience is repeatedly put in impossible situations.

How this cycle shows up for first responders:

Event: Witnessing or participating in situations that violate deeply held values

Assessment: “This shouldn’t be happening” or “This isn’t right”

Dissonance: Values vs. role limitations vs. system constraints

Internal Impact: Shame, guilt, anger, grief, helplessness, spiritual distress

Behavioral Impact: Overworking, emotional numbing, avoidance, substance use, burnout

Cycle Repeats: Because exposure is ongoing—not because you failed to cope

Key distinction:
PTSD = fear-based, threat-driven

Moral Injury = values-based, rooted in responsibility, betrayal, and conscience

They often co-occur—but require different conversations and different care.

Why this matters:

Unaddressed moral injury is strongly linked to:

Depression and burnout

Loss of meaning or identity

Increased su***de risk

Healing is not quick—and cannot be forced

Moral injury cannot be processed on command.

The body and nervous system require steps:

Safety before meaning
Connection before insight
Compassion before accountability

Bottom line:

You were not “too sensitive.”
You were injured by exposure that conflicted with your values—and injuries deserve care, not silence.

01/23/2026
I have a few immediate openings for couples, emergency responders or ART Accelerated Resolution Therapy.701-720-8876 tex...
01/21/2026

I have a few immediate openings for couples, emergency responders or ART Accelerated Resolution Therapy.
701-720-8876 text or call

What's new for you right now that makes your brain feel alive?  For me this year it has become watercolor painting. I ha...
01/17/2026

What's new for you right now that makes your brain feel alive?

For me this year it has become watercolor painting. I have never really studied watercolor before but this year I started a 30 day challenge to just learn to move my brush with water and color. It doesn't even matter if its good or not. 😄 It is so freeing, so relaxing and I am excited to practice every day.

What are you going to do for your brain?

I can surely recognize how these behaviors lower the mood and get us into that funk. Some days we need rest, but some da...
01/16/2026

I can surely recognize how these behaviors lower the mood and get us into that funk. Some days we need rest, but some days we create a cycle we struggle to free ourselves from.

01/12/2026

Thinking about starting therapy? Here’s what to expect—especially if you’re a first responder or corrections professional.

Therapy can feel awkward at first. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong—it means you’re doing something unfamiliar in a profession that teaches you to keep it together.

You’re the expert on your calls, your shift work, your culture. A good therapist will listen, adjust, and welcome feedback—especially if something doesn’t land right.

Some sessions may leave you tired. That’s not weakness; it’s your nervous system finally having permission to stand down.

Progress often happens between sessions—on calls, on the tier, in the car ride home—when you apply what you’re learning in real time.

Not every session is a breakthrough. Most are quiet reps that build resilience over time.

And yes—you may need to shop around. Finding someone who understands first responder or corrections culture matters, and many offer free consults for that reason.

Getting help doesn’t mean you can’t handle the job.

It means you’re serious about staying in it—and staying well.

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Great reminders for all of us.
12/17/2025

Great reminders for all of us.

12/09/2025

When you’re in grief, the holidays can be so challenging.
This time of year can feel so painful. The world is loud with joy — and inside, you’re aching.
I am offering a complimentary grief support series for anyone struggling this holiday season.
In these three December sessions, you'll find gentle space for:
Coping with holiday grief

Navigating family and expectations

Honoring your person

Taking care of yourself without apology

Live on Sundays, December 7th, 14th and 21st at 12 pm PT / 3 pm ET — replays available
HolidayGrief.com

Seasonal Affective Symptoms, difficult family relationships, financial strains, loneliness and other hardships contribut...
12/08/2025

Seasonal Affective Symptoms, difficult family relationships, financial strains, loneliness and other hardships contribute to challenges this time of year. Take care of yourself and be kind to others who we don't know their challenges.

10/27/2025

We know there's some anxiety regarding SNAP benefits and the government shutdown. Here's a list of current community resources that can help.

REPEAT!! I love my work with First Responders!! Today was extra challenging as I was privileged to work with Corporal Kr...
10/25/2025

REPEAT!! I love my work with First Responders!!

Today was extra challenging as I was privileged to work with Corporal Krysta Becker, with Ward County Sheriff's Department, who is a certified Fire Arms Instructor. Although this is part of my Ride Along experiences to increase my cultural awareness with First Responders, this was really more about me today. I have no fear of guns, other people handling guns, I should say. The fear is me, my inexperience in handling a gun. Even though I grew up around guns, I never loaded a gun, never handled and cared for a gun. I just target practiced with tin cans or clay pigeons after someone else loaded the gun for me.

But today was real. My heart was pounding, my adrenaline was on fire, the dopamine flowed freely and it was a definite high five experience.

There was another part of today that sits me back again to think about the work of our law enforcement, the decisions about life they have to make daily, the self awareness it takes to make decisions about life and death, protecting others while risking their own.

Complete respect and a great experience increasing my awareness as we work on wellness strategies for our First Responders. Thank you for what you do every day and stay safe out there.

Daily tools as important as brushing your teeth.
10/12/2025

Daily tools as important as brushing your teeth.

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