Dr. Aseem Desai

  • Home
  • Dr. Aseem Desai

Dr. Aseem Desai Live in Rhythm with your Heart, Mind & Body.

The Pulse of UncertaintyHow to reset your body when your brain is stuck in limbo“I’ll be sitting at my desk and feel a p...
26/08/2025

The Pulse of Uncertainty
How to reset your body when your brain is stuck in limbo

“I’ll be sitting at my desk and feel a pause.
Like my heart forgets what to do.”

Brian’s heart was structurally fine.
But his nervous system wasn’t.

Two months of job uncertainty had taken a toll.
He was stuck in a loop of what-ifs, and his body was looping too.



🧠 Science

Uncertainty activates the brain’s threat centers (amygdala, insula), while exhausting the prefrontal cortex, the part that helps us stay calm and focused.
The result?
• Racing heart
• Skipped beats
• Shallow breath
• Sleeplessness
The body braces, even if nothing’s “happened.”



📿 Wisdom

“We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.” — Seneca
Ancient traditions knew this pain.
The Stoics called it training.
The Buddhists called it impermanence.
Vedanta called it a fog.
They all pointed to the same thing:
When you can’t control the future, return to the present.



🛠 Strategy: The Open Loop Reset
1. Name what’s unresolved.
2. Notice how your body is reacting.
3. Take one small action.
4. Close a different loop: give your body something it can complete.



Uncertainty doesn’t always scream.
Sometimes, it skips a beat.

▶️ Read the full post: “The Pulse of Uncertainty”
(link in bio)

26/08/2025
🫀 New on PulseLoneliness doesn’t just hurt. It shows up in the body. Rising heart rate. Restless sleep. Stress that won’...
21/08/2025

🫀 New on Pulse

Loneliness doesn’t just hurt. It shows up in the body. Rising heart rate. Restless sleep. Stress that won’t let go.

This week’s essay, The Pulse of Relationships, looks at how connection heals and why disconnection takes such a toll.

💡 A reminder: the relationships that steady us are as vital as the heartbeat itself.

👉 Read the full piece at the link in bio

🫀 New on PulseLoneliness doesn’t just hurt. It shows up in the body. Rising heart rate. Restless sleep. Stress that won’...
21/08/2025

🫀 New on Pulse

Loneliness doesn’t just hurt. It shows up in the body. Rising heart rate. Restless sleep. Stress that won’t let go.

This week’s essay, The Pulse of Relationships, looks at how connection heals and why disconnection takes such a toll.

💡 A reminder: the relationships that steady us are as vital as the heartbeat itself.

👉 Read the full piece here:

Loneliness, the Heart, and the Cost of Silence

How do you consume social media: for connection, curiosity, or clicks?In neuroscience, unexpected rewards cause the bigg...
31/07/2025

How do you consume social media: for connection, curiosity, or clicks?

In neuroscience, unexpected rewards cause the biggest dopamine spikes.
In the ICU, dopamine is delivered as a drip—to support the heart 🫀and kindeys without overwhelming them.

Maybe our brains 🧠 need the same.
A steady rhythm, not a chaotic rush.

Read 📚: The Pulse of Dopamine

Subscribe to the Pulse newsletter on Substack. Stories, science, and strategies to help you live in rhythm—one beat at a time.

Rewiring Reward for a Steady Life Rhythm

Twenty years ago, I moved from Chicago to Orange County to join the medical staff at Mission Hospital and Mission Intern...
29/07/2025

Twenty years ago, I moved from Chicago to Orange County to join the medical staff at Mission Hospital and Mission Internal Medical Group— now Providence health system Mission Hospital and Mission Heritage Medical Group.

While titles, systems, and technologies have changed, one thing has remained constant: the people.

From the nurses and advanced practice providers to the hospital and office staff, and my physician colleagues across departments—this is a place where clinical excellence is matched by compassion and teamwork. It’s a powerhouse of talent within a small-town atmosphere, and it’s been a privilege to be part of it.

In heart care, and in all of health care, there’s no such thing as “just another day.” Every interaction has the potential to change a life. The people here show up every day with that awareness—and with heart.

Thank you to all who make this mission real.



Leading innovation, delivering with compassion.

Heart disease remains a top cause of not only mortality but morbidity related to hospitalizations and reduced quality of...
24/07/2025

Heart disease remains a top cause of not only mortality but morbidity related to hospitalizations and reduced quality of life. Thank you to Providence health system for supporting top-notch cardiovascular care.

Atrial fibrillation is a major cause of stroke, heart failure, and reduced quality of life. Growing evidence suggests a ...
15/07/2025

Atrial fibrillation is a major cause of stroke, heart failure, and reduced quality of life. Growing evidence suggests a strong link with dementia including Alzheimer’s. Join Mission Heritage Heart Rhythm Specialists in this free online class with Mission Hospital where we discuss everything you need to know at each stage of atrial fibrillation, or AFib, from prevention to diagnosis and treatment.

Register for this free online class today: http://ms.spr.ly/6046Sx56s

Mission Hospital Providence health system Heart Rhythm Society American Heart Association

Atrial fibrillation is a major cause of stroke, heart failure, and reduced quality of life. Growing evidence suggests a ...
15/07/2025

Atrial fibrillation is a major cause of stroke, heart failure, and reduced quality of life. Growing evidence suggests a strong link with dementia including Alzheimer’s. Join Mission Heritage Heart Rhythm Specialists in this free online class with Mission Hospital where we discuss everything you need to know at each stage of atrial fibrillation, or AFib, from prevention to diagnosis and treatment.

Register for this free online class today: http://ms.spr.ly/6046Sx56s

👉Have you ever felt off—but couldn’t quite name why?🫀A fast heartbeat, a tight chest, a wave of overwhelm.🫁We tell peopl...
01/07/2025

👉Have you ever felt off—but couldn’t quite name why?
🫀A fast heartbeat, a tight chest, a wave of overwhelm.
🫁We tell people to take a deep breath.
But sometimes, the better question is:
Have you taken your own pulse first?

One of my patients thought something was wrong with her heart.
The EKG was normal.
What wasn’t normal was everything else—grief, stress, exhaustion.
Once she named it, her body finally exhaled.

That moment became the seed for Pulse—a new space I’m creating to explore what throws us out of rhythm… and how we find it again.

If you’re curious about how the rhythm of your heartbeat connects to your clarity, perception, and well-being—
Check out the first two posts on my Substack and a recent piece in Psychology Today.

🔗 [Link in bio]

👉Have you ever felt off but couldn’t quite name why?👉Do you ever sense something’s misaligned in your body, your thought...
01/07/2025

👉Have you ever felt off but couldn’t quite name why?

👉Do you ever sense something’s misaligned in your body, your thoughts, or your relationships?

👉What if the answer starts with your heartbeat?

A patient once came to me convinced she had a dangerous heart rhythm. Her EKG was normal. What wasn’t normal was the pressure she carried, grief she hadn’t named, and a life out of sync. As we talked, her symptoms softened. Not because of a prescription, but because someone finally listened. Being heard led to more accurate perception of her symptoms and what story they were really telling.

That’s what my new Substack, Pulse, is about.

It’s a space I’ve created to explore how the rhythms of our hearts reflect the rhythms of our lives, and what happens when those rhythms fall out of sync. In medicine, we often say “take your own pulse first” before helping others. I believe that holds true in life too.

In my first few pieces, I explore:
• The power of pausing and checking in with your own body and perception
• Three stories about the impact curiosity, vulnerability, and humility can have on how we connect with ourselves and each other
• What we miss when we treat symptoms without listening for meaning

If any of that resonates, I’d be honored if you’d read, reflect, or share:

🫀Take Your Own Pulse First
❓The Courage to Ask
🩺 When a Racing Heart Isn’t Just Physical (Psychology Today)

We’re all trying to find clarity in a noisy world. Sometimes, the first step is to listen for your own rhythm.

SUBSTACK:
https://open.substack.com/pub/draseemdesai/p/take-your-own-pulse-first?r=2tftra&utm_medium=ios

https://open.substack.com/pub/draseemdesai/p/the-courage-to-ask?r=2tftra&utm_medium=ios

PSYCHOLOGY TODAY:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mindful-beats/202506/take-your-own-pulse-first



Psychology Today American Heart Association - Healthy for Good American Medical Association American Psychological Association

“At a cardiac arrest, the first procedure is to take your own pulse first.”

Honored to collaborate with the Providence marketing team and share insights from our work in cardiac electrophysiology....
26/05/2025

Honored to collaborate with the Providence marketing team and share insights from our work in cardiac electrophysiology. At Mission Hospital’s nationally recognized Heart and Vascular Institute, we’re not just treating hearts—we’re saving lives.

Did you know?
• Atrial Fibrillation (AFib) affects over 6 million Americans and increases the risk of stroke fivefold.
• Sudden Cardiac Arrest causes nearly 360,000 deaths annually in the U.S.—more than stroke, lung cancer, and breast cancer combined.
• Many arrhythmias are silent but life-threatening—and early diagnosis and intervention can make all the difference.

Grateful to be part of a team committed to advancing care and empowering patients through innovation, compassion, and excellence.



Heart Rhythm Society

Address


Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Dr. Aseem Desai posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

  • Want your practice to be the top-listed Clinic?

Share

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn
Share on Pinterest Share on Reddit Share via Email
Share on WhatsApp Share on Instagram Share on Telegram

My Story

Dr. Aseem Desai is a cardiologist and heart rhythm specialist in Orange County, California. He did his medical training at Stanford University and was an Assistant Professor of Medicine at the University of Chicago. Dr. Desai has a unique understanding of all sides of the healthcare system. He has personally dealt with and managed his own illness for years, and he feels a deep empathy with family members of patients, having lost both of his parents to sudden death. Dr. Desai’s passion for connecting with people has allowed him to increase heart health awareness through peer-reviewed scientific publications, speaking engagements, blogs, and social media. He provides personalized care based on the statement: “Doctor, if I were a family member of yours, what would you recommend?” When he’s not helping patients, he enjoys spending time with his family, singing, playing guitar, reading, and yoga.