it’s an art ✨
I mean honestly, who doesn’t resonate with this line?
#mentalhealth #mentalwellness #anxiety #highfunctioninganxiety #productive #taylorswift
Tag a cycle breaking mama who needs to hear this message today 🫶🏼
#motherhood #postpartum #cyclebreakers #maternalmentalhealth
The holidays are the busy season for therapists 😅
Ultimately, relationship dynamics feel hard because they are hard. I’m so grateful for Nedra Tawwab’s voice in this space & the resources that she has given us through her books “Set Boundaries, Find Peace” & “Drama Free.”
Both are empowering books for those who are navigating difficult family dynamics and/or breaking generational cycles 💪🏼
#boundaries #family #relationships #familydynamics #healthyboundaries #breakingcycles #mentalhealth #mentalwellness #holidays #holidayseason
Most of us have been taught to push through the pain — rub some dirt on it, get back on the horse, put on your big girl undies, *insert cliche southern saying here*
Those approaches might work for some things in life… But that’s not how trauma recovery works 😬
Physical & emotional safety are the top priority of trauma recovery. Think about it — if trauma inherently takes away our physical and/or emotional safety, then recovery from trauma must prioritize re-establishing this safety.
And for the vast majority of us, there’s nothing safe about pushing through the pain of traumatic memories. So even if we are able to push through to the other side, we’re often left disappointment that we don’t feel any better (or sometimes we may even feel worse).
This is why pace is so important in trauma work. Your body leading the pace from a space of safety is essential for steady & sustainable growth 🌿
#trauma #traumarecovery #traumahealing #mentalhealth #mentalwellness #emdr #somatictherapy #mindfulness #safety
🕯️ Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day 🕯️
Thinking of anyone who is holding a candle today instead of holding their baby or babies 💚
Global Wave of Light - 7pm in every time zone
We’re back with the final part of my top 3 tips for receiving trauma-informed care from your healthcare providers!
We’re back with the final part of my top 3 tips for receiving trauma-informed care from your healthcare providers!
Tip number 1 was to interview your healthcare providers in order to find a trauma-informed provider who will be supportive of your needs.
Tip number 2 was to know (to the best of your ability) your triggers & nervous system responses.
Tip number 3 is to collaborate with your healthcare providers in order to meet your need for safety & comfort in the healthcare space through trauma-responsive boundaries.
I’m definitely aware of how intimidating it can feel to set a boundary with a healthcare provider. There’s an inherent power differential that a truly trauma-informed provider will not only be aware of, but also be actively mitigating by empowering you. After all, they may be an expert in their field, but YOU are the expert on what it’s like to live in your body.
I firmly believe that a truly trauma-informed provider will not treat a trauma-responsive boundary as silly, inconvenient, or annoying. It’s my hope that’s the case for your journey 🙏🏼
After you’ve explored & utilized tip 1 & 2, here are some examples of trauma-responsive boundaries that you can try with your healthcare providers:
*at the OBGYN*
“I have some things I’d like to discuss with you today & sometimes I feel anxious after my exam, so I would like to talk about my other concerns before my exam while I am still clothed.”
*at the dentist*
“I’ll be wearing some noise reduction ear buds during my cleaning today, but I want you to know that they aren’t noise canceling so I’ll still be able to hear you. Can you please verbally walk me through each step of the cleaning process?”
*at the chiropractor*
“Please do not adjust anything above/below this area of my body today. I would also appreciate you letting me know when you’re about to apply pressure.”
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Part ✌🏼 is here!
Our bodies communicate their needs through sensations, emotions, & patterns. By leaning into our triggers & nervous system responses with curiosity, we can discover what our body needs in order to feel safe & comfortable with our healthcare providers.
Then, we can collaborate with trauma-informed healthcare providers to get those needs met. Spoiler alert — part three will help you learn how to do this through trauma-responsive boundaries 🌿
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My top 3 tips for receiving trauma-informed care from your healthcare providers 🌿 (part one)
You can interview any healthcare provider (family doctor, OBGYN, therapist, dentist, chiropractor, & more!) to sus out if they’re truly trauma-informed & if they’ll be supportive & accommodating to your needs as a trauma survivor.
Have you ever asked a healthcare provider about trauma-informed care? How’d it go for you? Tell us in the comments ⬇️
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This quote has been resonating deeply with my clients lately, so I wanted to share it with this community as well.
May we all experience enough safe & supportive space to sit with our emotions & learn their real names 🌿
#mentalhealth #mentalwellness #anxiety #depression #trauma #traumarecovery #traumahealing #cslewis #healingjourney
Sometimes they really do sneak up on ya 😅
Friendly reminder that having an emotional response to a trigger doesn’t make you a failure or not as “healed” as you thought — it makes you human 🫶🏼
Now get out there & keep cruising, Trauma Recovery Barbie 🤩
#trauma #traumarecovery #traumahealing #mentalhealth #mentalwellness #barbie #barbiemovie
So grateful for this conversation with The Birth Trauma Mama on how our body communicates it’s needs & how we can learn to attune & respond to those needs 🌿
I believe that this episode would resonate with survivors of any form of trauma, not only perinatal trauma. Give it a listen & let me know your thoughts!
🎙️The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast - Episode 40
#trauma #birthtrauma #traumahealing #traumarecovery #mindfulness #somatics #somaticexperiencing #polyvagaltheory #mindbody #mindbodyconnection