12/17/2025
I have this conversation a lot.
Usually it sounds like:
“I’m doing a lot… I just don’t feel confident that it’s actually working.”
And that’s such a frustrating place to be.
It’s not because you don’t care.
It’s not because you’re inconsistent.
But because you are trying… and still questioning every decision you make.
Most people don’t need more motivation.
They don’t need another workout or a new set of nutrition rules.
They need to stop feeling like they’re guessing.
They want to know:
– am I pushing when I should be?
– am I eating in a way that supports what I’m training for?
– am I actually moving closer to what I want, or just staying busy?
That’s the part that wears people down over time. Because I was in this exact spot when I first started.
Trying harder doesn’t help if you’re not sure you’re working on the right things
My DMs are open. I’m happy to talk through whether what you’re doing right now actually makes sense for the results you want.