08/15/2025
I carried my 9 year old yesterday when we were on a long hike 😬😬😬
Some species park their young in a nest or burrow and come back to feed them (like bunnies). Others, like humans, are built to carry our babies close.
Why?
•Human babies are born very immature compared to other mammals. Their brains and bodies still have a lot of developing to do.
•Staying close regulates their temperature, heart rate, breathing, and even blood sugar.
•Being carried keeps them calm, helps digestion, and supports bonding.
•Your movement is their favorite lullaby—they’ve been rocked to sleep by your walking since before they were born.
What this means in real life:
•Your baby isn’t “spoiled” for wanting to be held. They’re wired for it.
•Baby gear can help, but nothing replaces the biology of your arms or a good carrier.
•You’ll get more done (and have freer hands) if you learn to use a wrap, sling, or soft-structured carrier early on.
So, instead of wondering how to stop holding your baby so much… lean in to it. You were made for this. And so were they. 🤱✨