12/14/2025
Sunday Gravy Is Tradition, Even When There Are No Tomatoes?!
In Italian-American homes, Sunday gravy isn’t just sauce. It’s ritual. It’s muscle memory. You learned it even if you swear you weren’t paying attention. Meatballs simmering, pasta waiting, and someone reminding you that yes, you’re supposed to know how to make it.
Traditionally it’s tomato-based: sugo turned “gravy” in America when meat became more abundant and Sunday dinners became ritual, the sauce grew richer, heartier, and proudly its own thing.
BUT tradition evolves.
For CLIENTS with reflux, autoimmune issues, nightshade sensitivities, or specific therapeutic diets, the heart of Sunday gravy can live on without tomatoes. 🙌🏻
Here is my version of Nomato Sunday Gravy (client-friendly):
Warm 2 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil, sauté 2 cloves garlic, 3 anchovy fillets with a dash of their oil, then add 2½ cups chopped carrots, 1 cup chopped fennel, 1 cup cauliflower, 1 cup cremini mushrooms, and 1¼ cups chopped beet. Add 1 bay leaf, 2 tsp parsley, 1 tsp sea salt, and 1 cup vegetable, fish, or chicken broth (depending on your recipe). Simmer until tender, blend smooth, return to the pot, and finish with 2 tbsp apple cider vinegar for balance. Add meatballs or sausage and let it gently bubble until everything tastes like Sunday.
Pro tip: finish with pasta water and a drizzle of extra-virgin olive oil for gravy that glistens, no tomatoes required. Are you paying attention 🤌🏼😋