05/27/2026
In Thought
“It should be the work of Christians who believe in the paschal mystery to help people when they are being led into the darkness and the void. The believer has to tell those in pain that this is not forever; there is a light, and you will see it. This isn't all there is. Trust it. Don't try to rush through it. We can't leap over our grief work. Nor can we skip over our despair work. We have to feel it. That means that in our life we have some blue days or dark days. Historic cultures saw it as the time of incubation, transformation, and necessary hibernation. It becomes sacred space, and yet this is the very space we avoid. When we avoid darkness, we avoid tension, spiritual creativity, and finally transformation. We avoid God who works in the darkness-where we are not in control! Maybe that is the secret.”
— Richard Rohr, Everything Belongs
In Reflection
Richard Rohr offers a crucial perspective on spiritual and emotional labor: we mustn’t try to rush through or leap over our grief work or despair work. The pain, the “blue days or dark days,” must be felt. Historic cultures understood these periods as times of incubation, transformation, and necessary hibernation. These dark seasons aren’t meant to be avoided; they are sacred space.
The difficulty lies in the fact that darkness represents the space where we are not in control. We instinctively flee discomfort, yet when we avoid darkness, we avoid the very tension and spiritual creativity required for transformation. This is profoundly true in the fields of mental health and addiction recovery, where healing begins as a painful “dance in the dark.” We’re often terrified of confronting the void of our struggles—the root of our trauma, the depth of our despair, or the full extent of our dependency.
The good news of the gospel, as presented in John 1:5, assures us that we are not alone in the dark: Christ is the life that brings light, and the light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it. Our God is at work there, actively exposing darkness, illuminating truth, and revealing righteousness.
We are called to find rest in Jesus in the midst of the chaos, to trust the promise that this darkness is not forever, and that the Lord who bears light will bring transformation. Don’t be afraid of the pain; embrace it as sacred ground where God is performing the deepest, most necessary work. What specific feeling (grief, despair, or anger) are you trying to rush past or avoid today, and what action of surrender can you take to trust God to work within that darkness?
—DH
In Deed
If you are facing a “dark day,” stop trying to fix it for ten minutes. Sit in the discomfort and acknowledge that God is currently in that dark space with you, performing a work of transformation you cannot see.