04/17/2026
In Thought
“What are we going to do when we get home? When the two sons of the parable of the prodigal son both have returned to their father, what then? The answer is simple: They have to become fathers themselves. Sons have to become fathers; daughters have to become mothers.
Being children of God involves growing up and becoming like God. Jesus doesn't hesitate to say this: “Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect, be compassionate as your heavenly Father is compassionate” (see Matthew 5:48 and Luke 6:36). How? By welcoming home our lost brothers and sisters the way our Father welcomes us home.”
— Henri J.M. Nouwen, Bread for the Journey
In Reflection
Henri Nouwen offers a profound answer to the question of spiritual maturity: when the prodigal son returns home, he must learn to become a father. Being children of God involves growing up and becoming like God—meaning we are called to be perfect and compassionate as our heavenly Father is perfect and compassionate (Matthew 5:48; Luke 6:36). The primary way we express this Christ-like maturity is by welcoming home our lost brothers and sisters the same way our Father welcomes us.
The Gospel accounts illustrate Jesus’ life as a continuous act of unconditional welcome. He stopped for the woman with an issue of blood, heard the blind beggar’s desperation, and welcomed those considered outsiders: tax collectors, lepers, prostitutes, and even the condemned thief on the cross. This total inclusivity reveals the character of the Father, whose open arms are the heartwarming reality of the Prodigal Son parable.
For those of us on a journey of recovery or battling mental health struggles, the memory of feeling like an outsider, judged, or unwanted can be deeply painful. Yet, having experienced God’s grace—that radical, non-judgmental embrace—we are now called to mirror it. We cannot truly receive forgiveness until we are willing to extend it, and we cannot claim spiritual maturity if our hearts are closed.
It is a good, crucial exercise to consider: How inviting are we? How welcoming are we? How loving are we? If our faith is real, it should translate into a tangible, open-door policy toward others, especially those who are struggling, messy, or different from us. Let us strive to resemble our Father in this essential quality, turning the inspiring picture of His love into an active practice in our own lives. Whom in your life today—perhaps a struggling family member, a difficult colleague, or a person you tend to judge—can you intentionally welcome with the unconditional love you have received from the Father?
—DH
In Deed
Identify one person you have been "keeping at a distance" due to their struggles or lifestyle. Intentionally reach out with a kind word or an invitation today, reflecting the open-hearted mercy God has shown you.