04/16/2026
Worried about someone's drinking but not sure what to say?
You're not alone in that uncertainty. Most people hesitate because they're afraid of saying the wrong thing, damaging the relationship, or making it worse.
Here's a place to start:
✔ Lead with care, not concern: "I've noticed you seem stressed lately. I'm here if you want to talk."
✔ Avoid ultimatums or labels. Stay curious, not confrontational.
✔ Don't try to fix it in one conversation.
✔ Take care of yourself too. Supporting someone you love is hard.
The fact that you're thinking about this means you already care. That's enough to start.