08/31/2025
Profound AI prompt:
If purpose came with IKEA instructions, which step do people misread most?
Response (ChatGPT):
If purpose came with IKEA instructions, the step people misread most is probably:
“Assemble with parts you already have.”
Most of us start scanning the room for missing screws, looking in other people’s boxes, or wondering if we ordered the wrong set—when really, the instruction was to use what’s already inside the box (our own quirks, talents, scars, and strengths).
The second most misread step?
“Tighten slowly.”
We tend to over-torque—forcing life into place too fast, or tightening bolts of identity before we’ve even checked if the shelf is right-side up.
PURPÖS: IKEA Instruction Manual
(Some assembly required. Tools not included, but you already have them.)
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Step 1:
📦 Unpack the Box
• Contents: Your quirks, talents, scars, strengths, random obsessions, and embarrassing childhood dreams.
• Missing parts? Don’t panic. Those “gaps” are actually part of the design.
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Step 2:
📝 Check the Instructions
• WARNING: Comparing your purpose to your neighbor’s furniture may result in envy and wobbly legs.
• TIP: If instructions look confusing, reread them after snacks and a nap.
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Step 3:
🔧 Assemble with Parts You Already Have
• Do not search the internet for someone else’s missing screws.
• Your box is weird on purpose (pun fully intended).
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Step 4:
⏳ Tighten Slowly
• Purpose takes time to line up.
• Over-tightening = burnout.
• Under-tightening = self-doubt squeaks.
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Step 5:
👯 Invite a Friend
• Assembly is easier with company.
• Bonus: They’ll remind you when you try to attach Step 7 before Step 3.
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Step 6:
🌟 Stand Back & Admire
• Congratulations! Your purpose may look slightly different than the catalog picture.
• That’s good. That means it’s yours.
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Caution Signs (classic IKEA-style warnings):
🚫 Do not sit on someone else’s purpose.
🚫 Do not use purpose as firewood in moments of doubt.
✅ Do call support (friends, mentors, therapists) when parts wobble.