01/29/2026
People who have big emotions may seem magnetic to you in the moment. But, that same person may not actually be a solid mentor for you.
Someone who is operating from a place of ego and needing to be right about things…
Someone who is feeling a need to call others in their industry out by name and shame them…
Someone who centers their own personal problems or politics in much of their content
This person may not be grounded, mature, or ready to mentor others.
What people who are coming into my spaces seem to need more than anything is nervous system regulation and a soft space to land.
The body only heals when it feels safe. And so when we are in containers where there are political, social, spiritual expectations and pressures—you may learn some information but find your body has actually had a set back.
Someone who is at the place in their journey where they are ready to mentor others are going to have a high level of self-awareness and maturity. And this doesn’t always look flashy. Their content may not be pushed by the algorithm.
But their energy, ego, and intention are in the right place.
This is part 2/3 so check out the other videos in this series.