05/05/2026
I’ve seen this a handful of times and I find myself disagreeing with it.
I don’t believe we become meaner. We are only perceived as mean by those who were taking advantage of our kindness when we finally get clear with our boundaries.
Have I changed? Absolutely. I’m clear. And I’m resolved with my personal boundaries.
And being given the label as ‘mean’when I’m holding healthy boundaries is… fine. 🤷🏼♀️
I’m going this way➡️where the peace is. 🕊️🤍✨