03/15/2026
Rethinking Psychiatry: When Medication Is Essential, and When It Isn’t
This topic might spark controversy among colleagues in psychiatry whom I deeply respect. My stance comes from my own experience as a patient and from listening to countless trauma stories. Medications can save lives and are an essential tool in psychiatry, but they are not a substitute for addressing root causes. When triggers and stressors in personal and professional surroundings remain unchanged, adding 2–3 medications often won’t move the needle. In my clinical experience, that pattern repeats itself again and again.
14 reflective questions I ask before labeling someone with high GAD or PHQ scores
These questions are not a checklist to “prove” someone is OK without meds, but a lens to understand the full context of their life and what interventions might be most effective. They are designed to prompt conversation, not to judge.
1. Surroundings and changeability
- What is your personal and professional environment like? Is there something that can be changed to support mental health, or is the environment largely fixed?
2. Engagement with hobbies
- How often do you practice hobbies you’ve enjoyed since childhood? Do these activities still bring joy, relaxation, or a sense of mastery?
3. Frequency of belly laughter
- How often do you experience genuine, joyful laughter? Laughter is a powerful mood modulator and resilience booster.
4. Mood cycles and context (for women)
- If mood swings are present, what day of your cycle are you on? (Trying not to touch perimenopausal and menopausal mood swings are often misdiagnosed as anxiety and bipolar..) How do hormonal fluctuations interact with mood symptoms?
5. Partner and relationship patterns
- What kind of personality does your partner have, and how does that interact with yours? Do the dynamics support or undermine your well-being?
-Are you dating or married to someone who aligns with your personality and needs? If you value solitude, is your living situation (where word “space” is not valued) compatible with that need?
6. Personality and environment
- What is your personality type? Do you identify as highly sensitive, and are you surrounded by critical people who constantly want to change you?
7.Adverse childhood experiences
-Do unresolved childhood traumas stored in your limbic system trigger you when you see similar patterns in your adulthood?
8. Profession and fit
- Is your profession a good fit for your personality type and strengths? Does work stress contribute to or alleviate your symptoms? Can you do something about it with a bit of courage?
9. Purpose and meaning
- Do you have a sense of purpose and meaning in life? How anchored do you feel in goals that matter to you?
10. Attitude toward rest and play
- Do you take breaks, practice “chill” moments, or tend toward constant seriousness? Is there room for lighter, joyful experiences?
11. Value alignment
- Do your core values align with your professional space, your career, and your partner’s family? Misalignment can be a quiet driver of distress.
12. Movement and joy
- Are you intentionally engaging in joyful movement or pushing yourself to gym unhappily? (e.g., dancing with your kids or partner, playing, hiking)? What’s your relationship with physical activity?
13. Gratitude versus comparison
- Do you practice proactive gratitude for what you have (especially when you compare to underserved where people struggle for basics like water and food), or do you find yourself constantly comparing yourself to others who have more?
14. Acute Grief
-Since when masking grief with medication has become normalized?Why don’t we, as a society, allow someone—and ourselves—to cry during acute grief after losing a loved one (a parent or partner)?
Closing thoughts
- If meds are part of your treatment, they should be integrated thoughtfully with strategies that address the root causes: environment, relationships, meaning, and lifestyle.
- If root causes are being addressed, some patients may experience reduced symptoms and, in some cases, a lighter pharmacological plan over time.
- The goal is a personalized plan that respects patient values, preferences, and lived experience.