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Sanya Bari

I help people create the relationship of their dreams. Helping transform your pain into empowerment.

I help couples and women turn their relationship turmoil such as divorce, infidelity, heartbreak, and loss of loving connection into healing strength, empowerment, and rebuilding. I help them to reconnect with their strengths and gain the confidence they need to make the best decisions for themselves and their families.

07/18/2025

They told you love should be easy.
That if it’s hard, something must be wrong.
That good marriages just work.

But what if that’s the myth that’s keeping us stuck? 💔

In this episode of the Love Clarity Podcast, I sit down with to dismantle the stories we’ve been told and the ones we silently carry. 🫂

We talk about what healing in marriage really looks like, why rupture can be a beginning and the truth about emotional skill-building in partnership.

If you’ve ever wondered
“Is it supposed to feel this hard?”
or questioned if you could be the one to shift your relationship
This one is for you.

🎧 Full episode on the Love Clarity Podcast

07/16/2025

Some wounds don’t scream.
They whisper. They deny. They erase.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:
“Why do I feel so small?”
“Am I the one overreacting?”
“Is this really love?”

You are not alone. 💔

🎧 A new episode of the Love Clarity Podcast is out now

This conversation explores the kind of harm that’s hard to name—but impossible to ignore.
A quiet erasure. A steady shrinking. The truth your heart already knows.

07/14/2025

Some of the most painful relationships don’t leave marks.

In the next episode of the Love Clarity Podcast, I ask the question so many silently carry:
Is this love—or is it emotional abuse? 💔

We’re talking about the kind of harm that hides behind “I love you”…
and how to trust yourself when no one else sees what you’re feeling.

🎧 Episode drops Wednesday
You’ll want to hear this one.

Comment “I’m in” below if you want to be the first to know when it goes live.

07/11/2025

So much of what we’ve been told about love sounds right…
But it doesn’t feel right.
And it leaves us quietly wondering:
💔 Why does this still hurt?
💔 Why does this feel off, even when I’m doing everything “right”?

In this episode of the Love Clarity Podcast, I sit down with Monica Tanner —relationship coach, podcast host, and myth-slayer behind the upcoming book Bad Marriage Advice.

We talk about the relationship myths we’ve inherited, the quiet harm they cause, and how to build love that actually heals.

This is for anyone who’s ever felt invisible while trying to do everything right. For anyone tired of keeping score instead of building connection. And for anyone ready to love from a place that finally feels like home. 🏡

🎧 The episode drops next Friday on the Love Clarity Podcast

07/08/2025

You Already Know.
But knowing and leaving aren’t the same.
Especially when you’ve invested so much in trying to make it work.

You tell yourself you're growing.
That maybe one more conversation, one more compromise, one more cycle will change things.

But deep down?
You’re not confused.
You’re just afraid to honor what’s already clear.

This post is for the part of you that knows.
That’s tired of circling.
That’s ready to come home to itself.

💌 Save this for the days you forget.
🔁 Share it with someone still stuck in “almost.”

07/01/2025

Congratulations to the School for Transformational Healing Class of 2025 🥳

These brave souls graduated from the School for Transformational Healing — each one walking away with more clarity, deeper love, and a lighter heart.

Their journey wasn’t easy. But it was worth it.
They broke generational cycles. Reclaimed their voice.
And finally found peace from the inside out. 💜

🌱 Now it’s your turn.
Enrollment for TH School 2026 is open.

If you’re tired of living in survival mode
Repeating patterns that hurt
Feeling alone in your healing
Or doubting whether love, peace, and clarity are even possible for you
This is your invitation. ✨

Inside TH School, you’ll:
• Heal what’s been buried or ignored
• Learn to trust yourself again
• Create relationships rooted in safety, not survival

You don’t have to keep doing it the hard way.
Let 2026 be the year you finally choose YOU

💌 If you’d like to reserve your spot, just DM me.

06/27/2025

Can you really trust again after someone you love breaks your heart?

Most people think trust comes back when the other person changes. If they just stop doing the hurtful things, everything will go back to normal.

But the truth is, when your sense of safety has been shattered, trust can’t be outsourced—it has to be rebuilt from within.

The pain of betrayal reaches the most tender, sacred parts of us. And yet, inside that darkness, there's an invitation to create something unshakable: self-trust. ✨

Inside the Love Clarity Inner Circle, we do this kind of work. We rebuild from the ground up, with people who won’t rush your healing or tell you to “just move on.” It’s deep, it’s sacred, and you don’t have to do it alone.

DM me if you're ready to begin. We'll walk with you. 💜

06/26/2025

Too often, we shrink to make others comfortable, calling it humility when it's really self-abandonment.

Real humility is anchored.

It’s knowing your worth without shouting, offering your gift without apology.

It’s being deeply aligned with your soul, not your ego.
If you’ve been playing small to keep peace, maybe your healing begins with standing in your truth.

In the Love Clarity Inner Circle, we support people who are learning to stand taller—within themselves. 🌿

If this speaks to you, it might be time to start honoring your gift more fully. ✨

06/24/2025

I know how hard it can be to tell when it’s time to go.

We get so used to staying — in relationships, roles, routines — even when parts of us are quietly breaking down.

But there’s a way to ask yourself gently and honestly without getting lost in fear or guilt.

In this blog, I’m sharing two questions I often ask my clients when they’re in that foggy in-between space:

❓ Can I be who I truly am and still stay?
❓ Can I love myself well and still stay?

These questions don’t rush you.
They help you listen — to your truth, to your body, to what’s been quietly asking for your attention.

If you're in that tender place of not knowing… this might meet you right where you are.

📖 Read the full blog: medium.com/
Look for: “The Two Questions That Will Tell You If It’s Time to Leave.”

📌 Save this post for the days when clarity feels just out of reach.

06/19/2025

What if fear didn’t have to lead the way?
What if it could just come along for the ride?

“Let fear come along. Just don’t let it lead.”

Fear doesn’t need to be erased—it needs to be witnessed.
When we stop trying to banish it and start relating to it differently, something softens.
It becomes smaller, less sharp.

Inside the Love Clarity Inner Circle, we don’t wait for fear to disappear.
We learn how to keep moving—with love in front and fear in the backseat.

Because healing isn’t about being fearless.
It’s about being willing.

If you're ready to lead with love, not fear—DM me. 🌼

06/17/2025

You’re doing your best.
You’re showing up.
But something still feels out of reach — like the life you want keeps slipping through your fingers.

Most people aren’t lazy or lost.
They’re just tired in a way that sleep can’t fix.
Energetically overdrawn — from the pressure to prove, the weight of unspoken expectations, and the quiet habit of putting themselves last.

But the life you long for does show up.
It opens a window.
The question is: will you have the energy to walk through it?

This is what we practice inside the
Love Clarity Inner Circle 💜

Real conversations.
Real change.
Real people doing the work.

Let’s talk if you want to start your journey. 🌱

06/15/2025

I didn’t think I’d be ready for this Father’s Day.

I thought it would break me.
But instead, I woke up to something else:
Gratitude.
A soft, steady kind.

Gratitude that I got to be his daughter.
That I got to witness what it looks like when a man lives with intention—
with devotion to his faith and to his family.

There’s still a part of me that wants him here.
But I feel how deeply he lives inside me—
in how I love, how I parent, how I lead.

To anyone who underestimates the role of fathers—especially in the lives of daughters—
this is an irreplaceable gift.
And I’m so blessed to have fully received it.

My father didn’t teach with words—he taught by being.
His faith, his integrity, his calm presence…
That was the lesson.
And it shaped who I am.

Now that he’s no longer here in front of me,
I’ve been making an even more intentional effort to live like he did—
with balance, peace, and quiet momentum.
Always moving forward. Always grounded in love.

I think I can let him go—even when I don’t want to—
because I saw him start preparing long before the moment came.
From my child’s eyes, I watched a man live in full alignment.
And it made me want to do the same.

I love you, Abu.
May you rest in the most beautiful corners of Jannah.

And to my husband—
The man I chose with full intention, knowing exactly what kind of father you’d be.

You’re fun. Present. Gracious.
You keep growing, and it shows in every way you show up for our family.
You’re setting the standard—not just for our children, but for me, too.
I’m so proud to walk beside you.

Happy Father’s Day—
To the men who father children, animals, communities, and dreams.
Thank you for your strength, your softness, and your presence. 🤍❤️💙

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Mountain Lakes, NJ

Opening Hours

Monday	8am - 8pm
Tuesday	8am - 6pm
Wednesday	8am - 7pm
Thursday	8am - 7pm
Friday	8am - 5pm
Saturday	9:30am - 5pm
Sunday	11am - 12pm

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