Sanya Bari

Sanya Bari Relationship Trauma Therapist
🧠 Peak Performance Coach
🎤 Keynote Speaker
đź“•Author
đź’ž Creator: Love Clarity Method
🎙️Love Clarity Podcast

I help couples and women turn their relationship turmoil such as divorce, infidelity, heartbreak, and loss of loving connection into healing strength, empowerment, and rebuilding. I help them to reconnect with their strengths and gain the confidence they need to make the best decisions for themselves and their families.

10/06/2025

Do you only show the “good” parts of you in love?
What happens to the messy parts—the doubts, the triggers, the thoughts you don’t want anyone to see?

Real love isn’t built by hiding your shadows.
It’s built when you trust yourself enough to say, “I don’t like what I’m feeling right now, but I want to bring it to the table anyway.”

That’s radical self-trust.
That’s emotional maturity.
And that’s the kind of love that lasts—because it makes space for all of you, not just the parts that please.

⭕ This is exactly what we’re practicing inside the Love Clarity Inner Circle, learning to hold space for our shadows instead of running from them.

Ready to start that journey with us? DM me and I’ll share how to begin. 🔅

09/02/2025

You’re allowed to choose what you want without shaming what you don’t. ❤️

The moment you place judgment on what you don’t want, you create resistance, and that resistance quietly blocks the very thing you’re trying to move toward.

Freedom comes when you drop the judgment and simply allow yourself to choose… unapologetically, fully, and consciously. 🌿

This is the kind of deep inner work we explore inside the Love Clarity Inner Circle — learning how to untangle old patterns, release resistance, and choose love without fear.

If you’re ready to start your journey, DM me and let’s talk about how the Inner Circle can support you.

Sometimes what feels like love… isn’t really love at all.It’s an old safety pattern dressed up as care.I call them GROT:...
08/28/2025

Sometimes what feels like love… isn’t really love at all.

It’s an old safety pattern dressed up as care.
I call them GROT:
〰️ Guilt
〰️ Role-playing
〰️ Over-responsibility
〰️ Transaction

These are the places where fear sneaks in and quietly runs the show.
Where we over-give, over-explain, or shape-shift just to feel safe.

But here’s the beautiful thing:
When you can see GROT for what it is, you don’t have to fight it.
You can pause, breathe, and gently return to love — for yourself and for them.

Because real love doesn’t come from fear.
It comes from freedom. 🌿

If this resonates and you want to explore this work more deeply, we dive into it inside the Love Clarity Inner Circle — a space where we heal, learn, and grow together.

📞 DM me if you’re ready to start your journey.

08/27/2025

25 episodes in. 🥳

I’m sitting here feeling so deeply honored and grateful for every single one of you who’s walked this journey with me. 💜

And now… Season 2 of the Love Clarity Podcast is almost here.

We’re going deeper, braver, truer — and this time, we’ll be dropping two episodes every week so we can explore even more of what it means to heal, love, and live fully.

Thank you for being here.
Thank you for supporting me.

Here’s to the next 25. The next 100. And everything still ahead. 🌿

08/20/2025

What if the part of you that’s been hardest to trust is the one that could teach you how to truly stand by yourself?

We’re so used to looking for validation in the reactions of others, but what if the real shift happens when you show up for yourself, simply because you matter?

In this episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, you’ll hear how befriending yourself changes everything, how walking beside your own heart can end cycles of self-betrayal and open the door to a deeper kind of loyalty.

🎧 Full episode on The Love Clarity Podcast

How many times have you tried to be lovable by shrinking, performing, or giving too much? đź’”Episode 25 of The Love Clarit...
08/18/2025

How many times have you tried to be lovable by shrinking, performing, or giving too much? đź’”

Episode 25 of The Love Clarity Podcast is a milestone conversation—about that quiet but life-changing moment when you finally stop asking if you’re enough… and start remembering that you already are.

I’m sharing my own story of that shift:
âś… The ache of over-functioning
✅ The performance we slip into when we’re afraid
âś… The moment clarity replaces guilt
âś… What love looks like when you no longer leave yourself behind

Episode drops this Wednesday!
Comment "CHOOSE" if you want me to notify you when it’s live.

08/15/2025

Pain isn’t your enemy.
It’s your guide. 🌱

When you stop running from pain and start listening to it, you realize it’s not here to destroy you.
It’s here to deliver you.

Every ache, every heartbreak, every moment of discomfort…
is a quiet invitation back to yourself.

When you learn to love yourself at the exact spot that hurts,
That’s when healing begins.

Inside the Love Clarity Inner Circle, we explore how to sit with pain in a way that actually softens it, so it no longer runs your life.

đź’Ś DM me if you want to start your journey.

We think we’re “loving”... but sometimes, it’s really self-betrayal in disguise. 💔Guilt. Role-playing. Over-responsibili...
08/14/2025

We think we’re “loving”... but sometimes, it’s really self-betrayal in disguise. 💔

Guilt. Role-playing. Over-responsibility. Transaction.

They feel noble in the moment—yet they slowly drain the life out of us.

These 4 lies about love aren’t who you are… they’re what you learned. And you can unlearn them.

So here’s the question:
When you look at your relationships right now…
Which one of these patterns do you catch yourself in the most?

đź“„ Want to spot and heal them for good?
DM me “GROT” and I’ll send you the free worksheet: The 4 Lies We Tell Ourselves About Love.

The Little Things Making Up My Days ✨
08/10/2025

The Little Things Making Up My Days ✨

08/08/2025

Do you think the biggest problem in communication is saying the wrong thing, or not truly listening? đź’¬

Most of us focus on what to say, but the real magic happens when we learn to stay connected to ourselves, listen from the heart, and see the loving essence in the other person, even in the hardest conversations.

When you shift from “proving your point” to truly understanding, you create space for connection, peace, and resolution instead of more distance.

This is exactly the kind of transformation we explore together inside the Love Clarity Inner Circle, where communication isn’t just a skill, it’s a path to deeper, more fulfilling relationships.

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Tuesday 8am - 6pm
Wednesday 8am - 7pm
Thursday 8am - 7pm
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Saturday 9:30am - 5pm
Sunday 11am - 12pm

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