03/09/2026
Today I read for a family who traveled in from out of state. As soon at they entered I was aware of a younger male in his late 20s. I told them this as I opened the session, and that this young man was claiming the appointment was made for him. They said yes, it was and I learned I was reading for his former wife, mother in law, mom, brother and son.
He showed me a quick passing due to overdose and a history with “getting in trouble” involving police. He told me he’d struggled with addiction for some time and that at the time of his passing hadn’t seen his family in a while. His wife confirmed this.
He turned to his son. “I’m so proud of you, buddy. Proud of all you do but mostly just proud of who you are.” He teared up as he spoke. “You are my greatest accomplishment and the best legacy I could ever leave.” He explained that his son was an old soul, and that he’d been sent to this family to heal people, including him.
He showed me his son playing baseball and that he still goes to every game. He stated that his team excelled this past year, and so did his son individually. “His team won the championships and he was on the all star team!” His mom smiled. He also put hat on his son, a particular baseball hat relating to him. “He almost wore one for him today but didn’t,” his mom replied.
“He wanted you to know he knew that, even if you didn’t wear it,” I explained. “They often bring up conversations you had this morning or things that have just happened in the past day or so to show you they are with you and aware of everything.”
He stopped at one point to “compliment mom’s kicks”, and focused on her sneakers. He showed me he loved collecting them himself and loved a clean, pristine shoe like Jordans. His family laughed that this is true.
He showed me that one of the males present wears his jewelry (brother has his watch), and that they have his cremains in various jewelry pieces. “We have necklaces and one person has a ring,” his mom said. He also indicated that everyone present had some of his cremains, which he loved.
He spoke about his brother both having his first child, a baby boy and that he recently moved to be closer to his wife’s family. He talked about an upcoming trip his mom would be taking to visit them and to not worry “because it’s not that far, mom!” She laughed and touched her son’s shoulder. “That’s what you always say to me!”
“He’s showing me you having a piece of his clothing that has to do with him playing sports, something extra special,” I said to his son. His uncle poked him excitedly as I spoke. His son replied that he now has his father’s Eagles jersey from high school and that eagles are a symbol for him, too.
“I want to thank my ex for loving me despite myself,” he said. “She always took the high road, and was always kind. She’s the kindest person I know.”
“He told my son that before he died. That I was always the kindest person he knew. Talked about how kind I was, and told my son not to tell me.” His former wife smiled with some sadness.
“Having me say that to you is just confirmation from him to you that he knows you know, and his way of saying it to you himself,” I said.
“He shows me bringing him to water after his passing, bringing cremains. A place that was meaningful to him..” His mom explained that she and his dad brought his cremains to a waterfall he used to love visiting to leave some. He explained how this place always brought him tremendous peace, and showed me using nature and birds to show his presence that day while they were there. “He sent us two eagles while we were there,” his mom said.
Told his former wife how much he likes her current husband, that he approves. He said this person was very good for her and their son. “They got along well and actually knew each other,” she said. “He did like him!”
He spoke about coming in dreams to multiple family members. His mother in law confirmed this for herself.
His mom gasped. “His father just had a dream about him last night!”
Her son spoke quietly and with emotion. “I had to do that because he was supposed to come today but didn’t. He’s the one who actually needs it most. We had a tough relationship and he regrets a lot. But so do I! I regret what I said to him, not listening to him. I felt like I could never be good enough for him, and I failed him repeatedly. I never knew he felt the same way.” He paused.
“It’s on me. I was f*cking up, he was trying to help me. That’s it. I didn’t come to talk last night. I came to him to let him know that we are good. We are ok, and hopefully he can be more ok now, too.”
“I just wanted to hug him. Let him know we are good. We have both suffered. My dad is in a lot of pain. He needs to know I came through for him, and I want him to listen to this recording.”
His mom teared up. “That’s the dream he had last night. He said in it, he walked into a room where our son was sitting in a chair just smiling at him. My son didn’t say a word. Just got up, walked up to him and gave him a big hug.”
His son sent a wave of love about his dad as she spoke. “I knew he needed this too. I decided if he wasn’t coming, I was going to do what I could anyway. I want him to start to find peace like I have. We can do it together.”