01/06/2026
Men should be made aware of common female below-the-waist health conditions and women should be made aware of common male below-the-waist health conditions.
I am always happy to hear questions from the men in audiences. In the first two years of providing speeches to the lay community about pelvic organ prolapse, I was pretty surprised that a few men attend the presentations. I'm guessing some wive's coerced them to attend to clarify their experiences. One man was a caregiver for his mother. One mentioned a sister suffering in silence.
Industry presentations to educate sales reps clarified they knew the POP basics, but little about the quality of life impacts. Questions come through APOPS website from men on a relatively regular basis.
Just last week a male family friend who knows about my POP nonprofit backdrop reached out in my kitchen, stumbling around a question related to intimacy, until I straight up asked him if he meant what I felt he was hinting about. In general, I find males don't experience POP personally so they are generally not as embarrassed to ask the most personal questions.
APOPS educates women about POP all day every day. It fills me with hope when men ask about POP. Every question from a man clarifies one step forward in leveling the stigma playing field.