05/28/2026
Guiding a loved one through end-of-life while running any business, much less a patient advocacy nonprofit, is a deeply personal journey. One that blends caregiving, anticipatory grief, leadership, and the challenge of sustaining mission amid profound life transition.
One of the most heart-wrenching events that occurs in our lives is one-on-one end-of-life caregiving. This post is a bit sideways from my usual pelvic organ prolapse sharing. It is up close and personal. It's equally emotional and visceral. Its strength and weakness all rolled up into a guttural ball. June is Pelvic Organ Prolapse Awareness Month and patient advocacy does not take days off. But zero doubt I will be a bit slower, a bit more scattered, and a tad less focused on the women APOPS is committed to supporting over the coming days, weeks, or possibly longer, including during June, POP Awareness Month.
Experiencing the intersect of caregiving, loss, and leadership will likely be quite the education in strength. There are seasons when leadership and compassion collide - when guiding a loved one unfolds alongside the daily responsibility of sustaining a for-profit or nonprofit business.
I was blessed to be able to spend my dad's final couple of days with him, recognize when his exit was upon us, hold his hand and talk him through the transition to the other side. To those who have walked this walk, thank you for respecting your loved one. To those who see this journey coming just around the bend, I encourage you to try to set work aside a bit and be strong in the moments of value to bond tightly with and nurture your loved one's journey. You will cherish the memory forever.