10/23/2025
Avoidant attachment often gets mistaken for not caring, but underneath the calm exterior is a nervous system saying, “Too close feels too risky.” 💭
People with an avoidant attachment style tend to pull back when emotions run high, crave independence, and feel safer relying on themselves.
It’s not about a lack of love—it’s about protection.
With awareness and new experiences of safe closeness, even distance can learn to relax. 🌿