Muskogee Shipman Cremation & Funeral Service

02/27/2025

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02/19/2025

Celebrate my life for who I was ♥️

Life Celebrant Anita J Shipman

02/16/2025

Did you know? By pre-planning you lock in the cost for what a burial or cremation costs today.

What’s that mean for you? No matter if you live twenty years after taking out the policy( and hopefully you do and longer).

And say the cost of cremation hypothetically goes from $1,600 to $4,500. You will not have to pay the difference on what is guaranteed in your contract. Same goes for a traditional burial. As time goes by, prices go up. But that doesn’t mean. You have to pay the difference.

We also have the option instead of paying all up front. You can make monthly payments. That better help you financially during this period in our history.

Life Celebrant Anita J Shipman
918-683-1700

02/13/2025

Simple-Affordable-Respectful Cremation

918-683-1700

02/10/2025

Affordable cremation with a family you can trust ♥️

Love, Jason & Anita Shipman

02/07/2025

Looking for someone who can honor and celebrate you or your loved ones life?

Let our Certified Life Celebrant help you. Anita J Shipman has been serving as a Life Celebrant since 2012. Bringing healing and peace to many families.

Call 918-683-1700 to book with her today.

02/06/2025

The Importance of Viewing Before Cremation: A Vital Step in the Grieving Process

Cremation has become an increasingly popular choice for end-of-life arrangements, but many families grapple with the decision of whether to hold a viewing before the process.

While traditional funerals often include a time for family and friends to say their final goodbyes, some may feel that a viewing is unnecessary before cremation. However, allowing loved ones to see the deceased before cremation can be a crucial step in the grieving and healing process.

1. Provides Closure and Acceptance

One of the most profound benefits of a viewing is the sense of closure it provides. The death of a loved one can feel surreal, and seeing the person in repose helps family and friends process the reality of the loss. Without this moment of acknowledgment, some may struggle with denial or lingering doubts about the death, which can prolong grief.

2. Facilitates the Grieving Process

Grief is a deeply personal journey, but certain rituals help ease the emotional burden. Viewing the deceased allows mourners to express their sorrow openly and begin to process their emotions in a supportive environment. It offers a moment to reflect, say a final goodbye, and honor the life that was lived.

3. Encourages Family and Community Support

Gathering together for a viewing strengthens bonds among family and friends. It creates an opportunity for shared mourning, where individuals can console one another, share memories, and find comfort in togetherness. This communal support is essential in navigating grief and preventing isolation.

4. Allows for Religious or Cultural Rituals

For many religions and cultures, viewing the body before cremation is an essential part of funeral rites. It may involve prayers, anointing, or other customs that show respect for the deceased and provide peace to the bereaved. Skipping this step may feel incomplete for those who hold these traditions dearly.

5. Provides Reassurance and Peace of Mind

A viewing also reassures loved ones that everything is being handled with care and dignity. It confirms that the individual has been respectfully prepared and cared for before cremation, helping to ease concerns about the process.

6. Honors the Life of the Deceased

A viewing serves as a final tribute, allowing family and friends to pay their respects in a meaningful way. Personal touches such as displaying cherished photographs, favorite belongings, or playing their favorite music can make this farewell even more special.

Conclusion

While cremation offers a practical and meaningful way to say goodbye, incorporating a viewing beforehand can be an invaluable experience for those left behind. It provides closure, facilitates grieving, strengthens family bonds, honors traditions, and ensures a respectful farewell. Choosing to have a viewing before cremation is not just about seeing the deceased—it’s about embracing the opportunity to process loss, celebrate life, and find solace in shared remembrance.

918-683-1700
Jason & Anita Shipman

02/04/2025

The Importance of Planning for Your Death: A Gift to Your Loved Ones

Death is an inevitable part of life, yet many people avoid thinking about it, let alone planning for it. While it may seem uncomfortable or even morbid, preparing for your death is one of the most responsible and considerate things you can do for your loved ones. By taking proactive steps, you can ease the burden on your family, ensure your final wishes are honored, and even leave a lasting legacy.

1. Reducing Stress for Your Loved Ones

Losing a loved one is an emotional and challenging experience. Without a plan in place, family members are left to make difficult decisions about funeral arrangements, finances, and legal matters while dealing with grief. Pre-planning your funeral, outlining your wishes, and organizing your financial affairs help alleviate this burden, allowing your family to focus on healing rather than logistics.

2. Ensuring Your Wishes Are Honored

Do you prefer burial or cremation? A traditional service or a celebration of life? What kind of music or readings would you like? If you don’t document your preferences, these decisions will be left to others who may not know what you would have wanted. By making your wishes clear, you ensure that your farewell reflects your values, beliefs, and personality.

3. Avoiding Family Conflicts

Disagreements over funeral arrangements, inheritance, or medical decisions can create tension among family members, sometimes leading to long-lasting conflicts. A well-documented plan—including a will, an advance healthcare directive, and a power of attorney—provides clarity and prevents misunderstandings, reducing the likelihood of disputes.

4. Financial Preparedness and Cost Savings

Funerals can be expensive, often costing thousands of dollars. Without a plan, your family may struggle to cover the costs or make hasty financial decisions under stress. Pre-planning allows you to compare prices, set aside funds, or even prepay for services, potentially saving money and preventing financial strain on your loved ones.

5. Leaving a Legacy

Beyond logistics, planning for your death is an opportunity to shape how you’ll be remembered. Writing a will ensures your assets are distributed according to your wishes. You can also create ethical wills or legacy letters to pass down wisdom, values, and personal messages to your family. Some people even plan charitable donations or establish trusts to continue making a positive impact after they’re gone.

6. Gaining Peace of Mind

While thinking about death can be uncomfortable, planning for it can actually bring a sense of relief. Knowing that your affairs are in order allows you to live more fully in the present, confident that your loved ones will be taken care of when the time comes.

How to Get Started

• Create a Will: Outline how you want your assets distributed and designate an executor.

• Plan Your Funeral: Document your preferences and consider prepaying for arrangements.

• Organize Important Documents: Keep financial, legal, and personal records in a secure place.

• Set Up Advance Directives: Specify medical preferences and appoint a healthcare proxy.

• Talk to Your Family: Communicate your plans to reduce confusion and ensure your wishes are understood.

Final Thoughts

Planning for your death isn’t about being morbid—it’s about being prepared. It’s an act of love and responsibility that spares your family unnecessary stress and ensures your legacy is preserved the way you want. By taking action now, you’re giving yourself and your loved ones the greatest gift: peace of mind.

918-683-1700

02/03/2025

Why wait? I know it’s no fun to think about the truth “death.” But we will all face it one day.

Let’s get together and not talk about death, but instead life!

Pre-Plan today and give the gift of ♥️

Life Celebrant Anita J Shipman

02/01/2025

Family owned and operated, proudly serving the Muskogee and surrounding communities ♥️

01/29/2025

With the economy the way it is. It’s no surprise that cremation is on the rise.

Remember this when searching for a home to care for your loved one or yourself. It’s not always about who’s the cheapest.

There’s a lot that goes into what Undertakers do. Hours spent awake doing tasks many couldn’t imagine. There’s a price they pay to pour out the love, compassion, dedication and empathy that they have. To endure the days and embrace the pain their eyes see on a daily basis.

We are all looking for the best deal. But when it comes to who’s handling and caring for your loved one. Know your options and understand what services you’re getting. Who’s caring for your loved one and you after the cremation is over.

Life Celebrant Anita J Shipman
918-683-1700

12/27/2024