
09/05/2025
You’re not weak for being hurt. You’re not less spiritual because you’re struggling. Trauma—especially religious trauma—cuts deeply because it distorts the very place we were meant to find safety. But God is not the author of confusion or control. He doesn’t manipulate you into obedience or shame you into silence. He invites you into healing.
It’s okay if the process takes time. It’s okay if it’s layered and emotional. It’s okay if there are days when you still feel guarded or unsure. God’s not in a hurry with your healing, and neither am I.
You are allowed to grieve the loss of what should have been. You’re allowed to question, to wrestle, to be angry, to weep. These emotions don’t make you faithless—they make you honest. And honesty is where real faith begins.
Rebuilding trust—both in God and in yourself—takes courage. It doesn’t have to happen overnight. Healing doesn’t require a tidy testimony or a fast-track back to “strong faith.” It simply requires space, truth, and a Savior who meets you with grace in every step.
You deserve that. Not because you’ve earned it—but because you’re His.