The Wellness Flame, Health & Longevity Coaching

The Wellness Flame, Health & Longevity Coaching Advanced Health Coaching for busy professionals who have concerns about their heart health.

Powerful lifestyle modifications broken down into doable steps that are designed to put YOU back in charge of your health & longevity.

Happy Wellness WednesdaySo, you’ve read that you should take calcium for your bones. But, you also might have heard mixe...
11/05/2025

Happy Wellness Wednesday

So, you’ve read that you should take calcium for your bones. But, you also might have heard mixed messages about the safety of calcium supplementation lately.

Some research suggests that large doses of calcium supplements may increase the risk of calcium buildup in the arteries, which could affect heart health. Other studies have found no clear connection—but many experts agree on one thing: calcium from whole foods is safest and most effective.

One concern with supplements is when you take a big dose all at once, your blood calcium levels spike for several hours. This may encourage calcium to settle in blood vessel walls instead of in your bones. For this reason, if you do take calcium supplements, it’s best to spread smaller doses throughout the day rather than taking it all at once.

But here’s the good news—you can meet most or all of your calcium needs through your diet. Whole foods give you calcium in a gradual, balanced way, along with other important nutrients that protect your heart, bones, and overall health.

Calcium-Rich Whole Foods (heart-friendly and lower in saturated fat):

Fortified almond milk 1 cup 450 mg
Fortified soy milk 1 cup 450 mg
Canned salmon with bones 3 oz. 180 mg
Sardines (canned in water) 3 oz. 325 mg
Tofu (set with calcium) 4 oz. 250 mg
Cooked collard greens 1 cup 260 mg
Cooked kale 1 cup 180 mg
Cooked spinach 1 cup 240 mg
Edamame (soybeans) 1 cup 100 mg
Almonds 1 oz (about 23 nuts) 75 mg
White beans (cooked) 1 cup 160 mg
Broccoli (cooked) 1 cup 60 mg

Key Takeaways:

Aim for most of your calcium from food rather than supplements.

If you need supplements, research suggests taking no more than 500–600 mg at a time, spaced 4-5 hours apart, with food to improve absorption.

Include calcium-rich plant foods, seafood with edible bones, and fortified plant milks in your daily routine.

Check your vitamin D levels with your healthcare provider. Vitamin D is needed to help in the process of absorbing calcium from your gut into your bloodstream.

Your body needs calcium for strong bones and teeth, but also for healthy muscles, nerves, and blood vessels. By focusing on heart-friendly whole foods, you can protect your bones and your heart.

***Always talk to your healthcare provider before beginning any new supplements, because there may be other health considerations or medication interactions to be aware of.

Once you have your tailored calcium requirement information from your healthcare provider, and if you feel like you need help integrating it into your daily routine;

please feel free to schedule a free call with me at https://wellnessflame.as.me/schedule.php

Here’s to your health, longevity, and strong bones AND heart!

Happy Wellness WednesdayWho decided it was a good idea to hand out bags of sugar to kids and adults alike… right before ...
10/29/2025

Happy Wellness Wednesday

Who decided it was a good idea to hand out bags of sugar to kids and adults alike… right before we all change the clocks and mess with our sleep schedules?

Halloween is Friday and we turn the clocks back at 2 am this Sunday morning. On the bright side, we do get an extra hour of time. But if you’re like me, it’s an adjustment that can leave you feeling a little…witchy.

🎃 When Halloween Meets “Falling Back” — The Perfect Storm for Sleep Deprivation 🍬🕰️

It’s the ultimate trick:
Eat candy. 🍫
Stay up late. 🧟
Then try to “enjoy” that extra hour of sleep while your body and brain are both saying, “It’s time to get up!”

Even the Jack-o’-lanterns look tired this week. 🎃

But in all seriousness, the combination of a sugar surge and a time shift can throw your circadian rhythm into chaos. The result? Grogginess, brain fog, irritability, and that lovely feeling of wanting to nap at your desk by 2 p.m.

As a Nurse and Health & Wellness Coach, here are my favorite strategies to reduce the disruption and keep your sleep (and sanity) intact this week:

💤 1. Shift bedtime gradually:
Start going to bed 15-20 minutes later for a few nights leading up to the change. If possible, keep your sleep duration the same each night. Spending that extra hour in bed will make your internal clock shift more challenging.

If you find yourself drooping Sunday afternoon, taking a 20-30 minute nap can spark your energy. Napping much more than that can contribute to difficulty falling asleep Sunday night. So, set an alarm.

🌞 2. Chase the morning light:
Get outside early—ideally within 30 minutes of waking. Movement in the morning light helps reset your body’s internal clock and boosts alertness.

On the other hand, late evening workouts can rev your body up for a few hours and may interfere with sleep onset. Best to get your activity earlier in the day and stick with your usual exercise routine.

🥗 3. Light, balanced meals:
Skip the leftover Halloween candy as a breakfast appetizer. (Tempting, I know.) Focus on whole, plant-based foods throughout your day to stabilize blood sugar and energy.

If you need a snack before bed, keep it light because heavy snacks will interfere with sleep at any time of the year.

☕ 4. Watch the caffeine creep:
That 3 p.m. latte may taste divine, but the caffeine can linger in your system long after sunset. Caffeine is also a diuretic, contributing to dehydration and more fatigue.

Be sure to drink plenty of water and limit alcohol intake. Alcohol is both a diuretic and a sedative, which can lead to dehydration and sleep disturbances.

📵 5. Power down earlier:
Blue light from screens suppresses melatonin. Limit screen time, ideally for 2 hours before bed. Eliminating the blue light from televisions, computers and phones allows the dimming outdoor light to signal your brain that it is time to sleep.

🌙 6. Be patient with yourself:
Your body may need a few days to recalibrate. Prioritize rest, hydration, and consistency. You’ll feel back in rhythm before your carved pumpkin starts to cave in.

If you find yourself a little edgy, try some relaxation techniques. Find a quiet space to do some deep belly breathing for a few minutes. It can do wonders.

Remember, if next week feels a little eerie and your internal clock seems haunted—this too shall pass. 🕯️ And don’t forget to generously sprinkle patience to people around you. After all, we’re all in this together!

✨ So, here’s to treating your body kindly, fueling it well, and keeping your wellness flame shining bright—even through the tricks and time shifts! ✨

All my best,

Renae

P.S. Looking for additional strategies to improve your health? Schedule a free call with me at https://wellnessflame.as.me/schedule.php

I’d love to help

Come spend an hour with us.  You will leave with tangible take-aways for an exciting next chapter of life!
10/20/2025

Come spend an hour with us. You will leave with tangible take-aways for an exciting next chapter of life!

🌟 Reiki Master Certification: A Journey of Healing and Discovery 🌟I’m honored to share that with the guidance of a Maste...
10/15/2025

🌟 Reiki Master Certification: A Journey of Healing and Discovery 🌟

I’m honored to share that with the guidance of a Master, I have attained my Reiki Master Certification — a milestone that represents more than just a credential.

This has been a three-year journey of study, practice, and deep personal discovery — a never-ending quest for the highest and best within myself and in service to others.

Under the guidance of my Reiki Master Teacher, Cherie Conover at A Reiki World, I’ve had the privilege of learning within two beautiful Reiki traditions:

Traditional Usui, founded by Dr. Mikao Usui, which honors the origins and principles of Reiki as a practice of healing, balance, and harmony.
Holy Fire® III, developed by William Lee Rand, which brings in a powerful yet gentle spiritual energy that promotes purification, empowerment, and inner guidance.

Cherie’s depth of teaching illuminated both the rich history and the evolution of Reiki practice in the United States, helping us understand how this ancient energy work continues to adapt and support modern-day healing.

As a Board Certified Holistic Nurse, I find that some of my clients are looking for healing on an energetic level — seeking balance that goes beyond the physical body.

For those who are skeptical or new to the concept of energy work, Reiki often provides a doorway to experience something they may not have thought possible. Even if someone believes they “can’t relax,” Reiki gently invites the body and mind into a state of deep calm and restoration.

Reiki has profoundly deepened my understanding of what it means to hold space for healing — physically, emotionally, and spiritually. As both a nurse and a health and longevity coach, I see this as a natural extension of my calling: to help others reconnect with their own innate capacity for balance and well-being.

✨ The journey continues… ✨

If you’re curious about how Reiki can support your health, vitality, or personal growth, I’d love to share more about it and answer your questions.

Schedule a free call with me at https://wellnessflame.as.me/schedule.php

Here’s to your health, longevity, and healing on all levels!

Happy Wellness Wednesday!  Imagine a future YOU bounding out of bed in the morning with purposeful excitement for your d...
10/08/2025

Happy Wellness Wednesday!

Imagine a future YOU bounding out of bed in the morning with purposeful excitement for your day ahead and the steadfast calm in your belly that comes with financial security. Let’s make that dream happen.

10/01/2025
Happy Wellness WednesdayLast week, I had the most extraordinary experience at The Successful Nurse Coach Elevate & Evolv...
09/24/2025

Happy Wellness Wednesday

Last week, I had the most extraordinary experience at The Successful Nurse Coach Elevate & Evolve Intensive Conference and Retreat in the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains of Boone, NC.

For three days, I immersed myself in deep inner-work coaching, led by the incredible Leon VanderPol along with my awesome coaches, Shelby Kurz, RN and Laura Minard, RN. I also enhanced my capabilities in advanced coaching skills that I will now bring back to my clients.

✨ Standing Up and Being Seen ✨

The experience was nothing short of transformational. The theme was simple, yet profound:

➡️ To stand up and be seen—physically, mentally, emotionally—in all ways, as my authentic self.
➡️ To be fully embraced in that authenticity by the 50+ people present, each of us taking our turn to be seen, held, and accepted.

It was simultaneously scary and vulnerable… and also uplifting, fulfilling, and freeing. To be witnessed as my true self and to hold space for others doing the same is an experience I will never forget.

🌟 Ignite, Fuel & Shine Wellness Circle 🌟

The timing of this retreat couldn’t be more perfect, because beginning October 9th, I’m offering the Ignite, Fuel & Shine Wellness Circle.

This is a small, intimate group (limited to 4 participants) committed to a 6-month journey of holistic weight loss and wellness transformation.

And here’s the truth: most of us already know what to do to lose weight. Eat better. Move more. Get sleep. Manage stress.

The real question is—why don’t we do it?

That’s where the Ignite, Fuel & Shine Wellness Circle goes deeper. Together, we’ll uncover the:

Old stories you’ve been carrying that keep you stuck

Limiting beliefs that sabotage your progress

Assumed lack of capacity that whispers you can’t succeed long-term

Because true transformation isn’t about counting calories and steps—it’s about shifting the inner landscape so you can create a new way of being.

💡 If you’re (or someone you know) ready to dig deep, commit to your future health, and step into your most vibrant, purposeful self, let’s talk.

📧 Email me at Renae@thewellnessflame.com
📞 Or call me at (401) 785-7367

Whether you’re a “heck yeah!” or a “not yet,” we’ll figure it out together. This will be a no-pressure chat to see if this may be the difference you are looking for.

All my best,

Renae

Happy Wellness WednesdayWill you see the sign when a new trail head presents itself?Yesterday was a great day. I shared ...
09/17/2025

Happy Wellness Wednesday

Will you see the sign when a new trail head presents itself?

Yesterday was a great day. I shared an observation with a client about how he is cultivating a mindset that opens him to new possibilities.

This is such an important milestone in our work together—because when our mindset is open, opportunities don’t just pass us by unnoticed. We actually see them.

Life offers us new trailheads all the time. The question becomes: are our eyes and minds open enough to recognize them?

For so many years, we keep our heads down, working hard, managing responsibilities, and checking off to-do lists. And then one day, we look up and realize we’ve entered a new season of life. Questions naturally arise:

Who am I without my career?
Who am I when the kids move out?
Am I ready to retire?
How will I fill my days?

These are not easy questions—but they are rich with possibility.

With an open mindset, what emerges is exciting:

New passions.
New friends.
New learning.
New experiences.
A newly defined sense of purpose.

The second half of life is not an ending—it is an opening. And cultivating an open mindset allows us to step into it with curiosity, courage, and hope.

What possibilities are waiting for you, just beyond the next bend in your trail?

How can I help you SEE them?

Let’s chat about it.

Schedule a free call with me at https://wellnessflame.as.me/schedule.php

Here’s to your health, longevity, and many happy new trails!

All my best,

Renae

Happy Wellness Wednesday…a day late.There was a time in my life when I put on a lot of weight. I was uncomfortable.Uncom...
09/11/2025

Happy Wellness Wednesday…a day late.

There was a time in my life when I put on a lot of weight. I was uncomfortable.

Uncomfortable in my clothes. Uncomfortable looking in the mirror. Uncomfortable in social situations. Uncomfortable in my own skin.

I hated having my picture taken. In fact, I didn’t allow photos when I was at my heaviest.

My energy was low, I lost my breath easily, movements were harder, and my body was achy.

But the worst thing was how I felt about ME…on the inside…as a person. It undermined my confidence, and I spoke to myself very harshly in my head. I assumed others were having the same thoughts about me, too.

I felt ashamed.

It made me underestimate my value as a human being.

I tried lots of different strategies to lose the weight. I’d lose some, but the weight came back…over and over again. I was frustrated and beginning to feel hopeless.

It wasn’t until I stopped reducing the value of my whole being to the number on the scale that the weight started to come off. I made small changes in my diet and started moving more…then I purposefully paid attention to how it made me feel.

At first, it wasn’t really noticeable. But, because of my education in exercise physiology, I knew I was making a difference on the cellular level. I kept at it.

I approached myself with kindness and care, instead of reprimand and criticism.

Slowly, very slowly, the number on the scale began to move.

Today, when I tell people I once weighed more than 45 pounds more than I do now, they can’t believe it. (I never got on the scale at my heaviest, so I don’t know what the top number was.)

I am so grateful that I took the time and invested in my health and well-being then. I have no doubt it makes a valuable difference in the health I enjoy today.

Please know it is never “too late.”

If you are uncomfortable with your weight and it is undermining your confidence and your health…

…if you are open to speaking to yourself in a kinder voice and making slow, steady changes that last…

…please reach out to me at Renae@thewellnessflame.com or call (401) 785-7367.

I am starting the “Ignite, Fuel & Shine Wellness Circle” small-group coaching on October 9th. There are only 2 seats left. This will be a no-pressure chat to see if this may be the difference you are looking for.

All my best,

Renae

Happy Wellness Wednesday🔥 Ignite, Fuel & Shine Wellness Circle 🔥Ignite Your Health • Fuel Your Purpose • Shine Your Ligh...
09/03/2025

Happy Wellness Wednesday

🔥 Ignite, Fuel & Shine Wellness Circle 🔥

Ignite Your Health • Fuel Your Purpose • Shine Your Light

Are you ready to invest in your health, purpose, and energy this fall?

Join me for a 6-month small-group coaching experience designed to help you build lasting habits, connect with like-minded peers, and receive personalized support in a trusted, small-group circle.

📅 Dates
October 9, 2025 – March 26, 2026
(Group limited to 4 participants)

🌀 Monthly Rhythm:

Week 1: Full Group, In-Person — Thursdays 4:30–6:00 PM

Week 2: Private 1:1 Zoom with Coach — 30 minutes (time arranged individually)

Week 3: Full Group, In-Person — Thursdays 4:30–6:00 PM

Week 4: “Lift Your Training Wheels” — Independent week with quick text/email check-in

📍 In-person sessions held at 28 Caswell Street, Suite 200, Narragansett, RI

Note: No meetings on holidays

💡 What’s Included?
✔️ One 60-minute orientation phone call before the start date
✔️ Two in-person group sessions each month
✔️ Monthly 1:1 private coaching call
✔️ Weekly accountability & support

🌟 Why Join?
Build healthy habits that last
Gain tools for resilience, focus & energy
Connect with peers walking a similar path
Receive personalized coaching in a safe, supportive space

💲 Investment:
$1,800 — Paid in full by September 25, 2025

📌 Space is very limited — only 2 seats left!

Reserve your spot today:
📧 Renae@thewellnessflame.com | ☎️ (401) 785-7367

✨ Your health, your purpose, your light — let’s ignite it together.

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