10/30/2025
This is such a tough topic for people, but it’s important. Let me start by saying this: This is NOT an attempt to make anyone feel guilty for things they’ve said in the past. I myself have said combinations of these things in the past before I did my own work around food and body. Remember that we are and have been steeping in diet culture every day of our lives.
This is a reminder that when we know better we can do better. Also, the holidays are coming up and I always hear these things said at gatherings so it’s a good time to think about how you want to respond if your littles are subject to hearing some of these things.
We have to remember that little brains aren’t developed yet and are SO literal. Often what we say and what our kids interpret is the total opposite. Just another reason to ditch the negative body and food talk!
If you are a parent and are noticing you’ve said some of these things, it’s not too late! There’s no need to beat yourself up about it. We can always change the narrative. 🩷
*Also of note, it is definitely NOT just moms or women saying these types of things. When you see “mom” please know that these are just examples, coming from my point of view, as a mom myself.
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*My posts are intended for informational and educational purposes only and are not therapy, a substitute for therapy, or medical care.*