12/25/2025
đ§ââď¸ Confessions of the Wobbly Yogi
âGratitude Starts With You (Yes, You)â
đ Tis the Season⌠to Remember Yourself
Itâs that time of year again â twinkle lights, crowded calendars, and the pressure to feel grateful 24/7. We're supposed to slow down, be present, and cherish the little things. But if weâre being real? Sometimes youâre so busy checking off lists, cooking for others, or holding it together emotionally, that the whole âgratitudeâ thing feels like one more item to fake your way through.
Been there. Still go there.
But yoga â that trusty old mat I keep crawling back to â has a funny way of pulling me out of autopilot and back into what matters. Not in a glittery, perfectionist way. In a quiet, steady way that whispers: Start with you.
đż The Practice of Presence
Yoga teaches presence, but not just in the âpeaceful zenâ sense.
Presence is awareness â of your breath, your body, your thoughts.
Itâs noticing that youâre clenching your jaw again or that you havenât taken a deep breath all day. Itâs hearing the birds outside when you step into Warrior II instead of your inner critic screaming that youâre not doing it right.
Gratitude doesnât have to be loud.
Sometimes itâs just:
âI showed up today.â
âMy legs are shaky but still holding me up.â
âMy breath is here, and so am I.â
Thatâs presence. Thatâs gratitude. And you donât have to wait for Christmas morning to practice it.
đ Gratitude Isnât Just for Others
We throw around gratitude like itâs a gift you give other people:
âIâm so thankful for my family, my friends, my dog, my mail carrier...â
Beautiful, yes. But hereâs the part we skip way too often:
Gratitude starts with being thankful for yourself.
For the way you keep trying.
For the way you get back up when you fall.
For the quiet strength you carry through the chaos.
Yoga helped me rebuild that relationship with myself â the one I didnât even realize Iâd abandoned.
It helped me stop apologizing for needing rest.
It helped me appreciate my body not for how it looked, but for how it held me â through stress, through grief, through joy.
đ§ââď¸ Yoga as a Mirror
Your mat doesnât lie.
It shows you exactly where you are: mentally, physically, emotionally.
Some days I feel like a warrior goddess.
Some days I feel like a broken Barbie missing a leg.
Both are valid. Both are worthy.
Thatâs the lesson. Gratitude is not about perfection. Itâs about presence.
Itâs about building a practice of noticing â and appreciating â whatâs already here.
And sometimes, the biggest gift you can give the world is someone whoâs at peace with herself.
Start there.
⨠This Monthâs Mantra:
âGratitude isnât just thank you â itâs I see you, I love you, I honor you.
And yes, that includes you.â