08/07/2025
When supporting a grieving child, it's important to speak honestly and gently about death using clear, age-appropriate language. Create a safe space where they feel heard and validated, encouraging them to express their feelings without fear of judgment. Reassure them that emotions like sadness, anger, and confusion are a normal part of grieving, and that there’s no “right” way to feel. Offer physical comfort, listen with full attention, and be patient—children may need time and repetition as they process loss.
Help them cope in healthy ways by encouraging activities like drawing, writing, playing, or talking with friends, and try to maintain familiar routines to provide stability. If they’ll attend a funeral or memorial, prepare them in advance for what to expect. Including them in remembrance activities—like creating a memory box or planting a tree—can offer comfort and connection. And if their grief becomes prolonged or intense, don’t hesitate to seek support from a mental health professional who specializes in child bereavement.
Please remember, you are not alone. We encourage you to call or visit us for more information and support. You can also explore additional resources on our website at Kessler Fahrenkrug Funeral Home – Resources – Grief Support, where you'll find helpful guidance and support for children and teens as they cope with loss.
