01/13/2026
Placing the weight of your healing —
and your journey toward your highest timeline —
in other people’s hands creates an impossible burden.
When we hold others to unspoken expectations
to heal us, validate us, or repair the past for us,
we’re asking them to override free will — theirs and ours.
That pressure doesn’t create safety.
It erodes connection.
Whether it’s a family member, a friend, or someone from your past, expecting another person to carry your healing
sets both of you up for disappointment and fractures the future of the relationship.
No one else is responsible for your healing.
& that truth is liberating.
With Love & Support,
Laurel 🤍