Dagmara Niecikowski, LCSW

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07/25/2025

Although it may feel impossible to break out of the OCD cycle once it’s established, there are ways to do so. The two most researched ways to seek help for OCD and break this cycle are through therapy and medications. Other strategies can help break OCD thought loops, such as practicing mindfulness, seeking support from others, and becoming more comfortable with uncertainty.

Here are some strategies for how to break the OCD cycle:

Seek Professional Treatment
The best way to break the OCD cycle is to begin OCD treatment. Exposure and response prevention (ERP) is considered a first-line treatment for OCD because research has repeatedly shown it to be the most effective way to stop compulsions. Medications for OCD may also sometimes be recommended, along with other types of behavioral therapies. Remember, every individual is unique, and it is important to find a treatment plan that works for you.

Treatment options for OCD include:

Exposure and response prevention (ERP): ERP for OCD has been identified as the gold standard treatment for OCD due to its effectiveness. ERP helps break the cycle of OCD by participating in exposure exercises to provoke the feared obsession while not engaging in compulsive behaviors. This helps break the association between compulsions being viewed as the only way to achieve relief from obsessions.

Medication: SSRIs are the most commonly prescribed medication because they can help reduce the anxiety that obsessions cause. If a person’s anxiety is lower, they are more able to resist their compulsive urges and break the OCD cycle.

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT helps explore the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. CBT for OCD specifically attempts to break the link between obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors that are used to reduce distressing feelings, therefore breaking the cycle of OCD.

Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): Many obsessions are rooted in a sense of uncertainty (i.e., “What if I harm my child?”) which can cause a feeling of unease. ACT for OCD can help someone to accept the feeling of uncertainty and any related emotions that come up with it. As uncertainty-related distress decreases, so will the drive to perform compulsions.

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): In EMDR for OCD, the main focus is lessening present-day distress that occurs with the obsessions. This approach traces back the root of this distress to desensitize and reprocess past events contributing to present OCD symptoms.

Practice Mindfulness & Meditation
Mindfulness can help break the OCD cycle by encouraging individuals to observe their thoughts and feelings without judgment. This approach allows people with OCD to experience intrusive thoughts without feeling ashamed or guilty. This will reduce the anxiety they feel and make them less likely to perform compulsive rituals.

Additionally, mindfulness exercises like meditations for OCD and breathing exercises for anxiety can regulate the nervous system. This can help someone to reduce the anxiety they feel when their obsessions are triggered and make them less likely to use compulsions to cope. Mindfulness also encourages a person to stay in the present moment, as opposed to ruminating about the past or worrying about the future. This awareness combats many OCD mental compulsions.

Seek Out Social Support
Being stuck in the OCD cycle can be isolating, like you’re going through this alone. Reaching out to social support and asking for help in your OCD recovery process is as important as professional support. If you are struggling to find support in your personal life, there are many different support groups for individuals with OCD that can act as a source of comfort and camaraderie. For more information, visit: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/ocd-cycle/

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07/25/2025

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Positive affirmations are more than just kind words — they’re powerful tools that help build your child’s confidence, emotional regulation, and self-worth. 💬💛

These affirmations nurture secure attachments, encourage resilience and foster a strong sense of belonging in both home and classroom environments.

07/25/2025
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What is suicidal ideation?

Suicidal ideation, or suicidal thoughts, is when you think about, consider or feel preoccupied with the idea of death and su***de. These thoughts may come and go or be extremely distracting. You might dwell on thoughts of su***de to the point where you make a plan to take your own life.

It’s difficult to simply define what suicidal ideation looks like because it’s different for each person. For example, you might fall asleep to the thought of not waking up in the morning. Or you might see a fast-moving vehicle and think about jumping out in front of it. As such, these thoughts can range in severity and intensity.

While having a thought isn’t the same as physically attempting su***de, it can still impact your mental health and lead to suicidal behaviors or self-harm. If you’re thinking about su***de or have suicidal thoughts, it’s important to talk to someone about it. This may help or prevent it from getting worse. You can call or text the Su***de & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988. However, you don’t need to be in a “crisis” to call the Lifeline. Someone is available to talk to you 24/7. ( via Cleveland Clinic)

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07/17/2025
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Today's article (which contains my first guest) looks at what it's like to be in a relationship with an autistic person, as well as why some people think that autists can't understand emotions.

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09/29/2024

Kids can be hard on themselves — especially kids with mental health challenges. They can get stuck in negative thinking patterns that may make depression, anxiety and upsetting feelings even worse.

Some amount of cognitive distortion is normal. We all make thinking mistakes. It’s when that kind of thinking is chronic and entrenched that the thoughts are likely doing a number on a child’s emotional life.

Read more:
https://childmind.org/article/how-to-change-negative-thinking-patterns/ -parents-can-help-kids

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