07/01/2025
✨Cord cutting won’t save you.✨
People won’t like this, but I’m gonna say it anyway.
Cord cutting rituals? They don’t work the way you think they do.
They won’t erase the ache 💔
They won’t kill the obsession 🧠
They won’t take away the hope you’re secretly still gripping with your knuckles 👊🏼
You’re not really trying to cut the person ❌🫵🏼
You’re trying to cut the pain 🩹
The fantasy 🪄
The version of events where you got what you wanted and it didn’t hurt like hell 🔥 Or.. possibly someone who invades your safety or space. (Understandable).
I’ve done the rituals 🕯️
Over and over. Different ways. Different spirits. Different candles 🔮
And every time, the only thing that changed was my hope that something might finally stick back then 🙏
But here’s the raw truth, I don't see anyone say... I learned the hard way:
You are the spell. 🧬
You want to cut the cord? ✂️
Then grip the neck of your bihh ass ego and look it dead in the eyes 👁️
Admit what you’re still attached to 🧷
It may be a person, place, or thing.
Own the ache 💢
Acknowledge what it did to you 🗣️
Say it out loud... even if it makes you feel dumb, even if it’s messy, even if it hurts. 🤕 Don't worry about who is judging. They aren't living it.
Then sit with it 🪑
Ask:
💭 What did I learn from this attachment?
💭 How did this change me?
💭 What did it awaken?
💭 Where did it poison me?
💭 How did I grow?
💭 And what were they feeling too?
And then...you feel it 💦
All of it
You let the emotions move like waves 🌊
You let them flow instead of bottling them up behind a pretty spell jar and hoping the universe handles it for you 🧴🌌
You respect the pain 🤍
You respect the person, place, or thing. 🙏
You respect yourself 👑
And most of all:
You stop trying to control the outcome 🎭
You stop trying to “manifest” someone forgetting you, or crawling back 🚫
You stop making your healing about punishment or reward!!! ⚖️
You release...not because you’re over it, but because holding on is killing you.🫀
Cord cutting doesn’t free you 🧵
Acceptance of what the root cause and admitting some stuff does. 🕊️ When you do it right...even if when your tested again. It's a whole different feeling. It's gratitude. And yes it's real hard to get there.
Every time the ache rises again, choose gratitude 🌹
Every time the ego whispers “you were robbed,” choose reverence 🪞
Because unless your mind, body, and soul do the work together
no candle, no scissors, no string. No spirit will ever be enough to break your own souls will.🪢
You are the ritual 🌺
You are the release 🌬️
You are the medicine ✨️💜✨️
