
09/25/2025
Redirection can be your best tool to defuse a coming tantrum - as long as you don’t use a screen.
When you see signs of a meltdown, ask your child to find something red or to sing a song, or pull a small colorful book out of your bag to distract them.
Research shows that using a screen to calm your child will actually make tantrums more frequent and more intense because they haven’t recognized and processed their emotions in a healthy way, they feel rewarded with screen time for having a tantrum, and their own emotional self-regulation skills deteriorate instead of mature.