Jessica Foley, MA, LMHC, LLC.

Jessica Foley, MA, LMHC, LLC. Providing psychotherapy for women seeking growth & positive change!™

Providing services online in CT, MA, NJ, CA, FL, and AZ!

I provide Psychotherapy for Women Seeking Growth & Positive Change! I help women overcome anxiety, depression, BED, PPD, and other issues! Online services in MA, CA, AZ, FL, and CT.

“Sometimes the hardest step is simply showing up for yourself.”I see many women in therapy ask: “Am I doing enough? Is t...
10/27/2025

“Sometimes the hardest step is simply showing up for yourself.”

I see many women in therapy ask: “Am I doing enough? Is this feeling valid? Will this ever feel different?”

If you’re googling:
• “Why do I feel stuck even though everything looks ‘fine’?”
• “Therapy for burnout & perfectionism”
• “Trauma work but still anxious all the time”

…you’re definitely not alone.

In 2025, more women are turning to therapy not just when something is deeply “wrong,” but before the overwhelm becomes unmanageable. They’re seeking support for:
🎯 Navigating the weight of systemic pressures (gender, race, identity) and how it influences mental health.
🧘‍♀️ Preventing / addressing burnout, managing stress, building sustainable self-care.
🧠 Deepening emotional awareness: it’s not just “feel better” but “understand myself better.”

If you’re wondering: “Could therapy help me even though things seem ‘okay’?” …yes, it absolutely could.

Here’s a gentle invite:
• Give yourself permission to say: I matter.
• Start with one question: What am I really feeling right now?
• Remember: Healing isn’t linear. Progress is rarely tidy.

If you’d like a safe space to explore any of this, I’d be honored to walk beside you.

💬 Drop a “🌿” in the comments if this resonates. And if you’d like to learn more about how I work (individual therapy, virtual options, etc.), feel free to check the link in my bio.

✨ It’s Open Enrollment Season! ✨Now’s the perfect time to review your benefits and make the most of them.✅ Did you know?...
10/23/2025

✨ It’s Open Enrollment Season! ✨
Now’s the perfect time to review your benefits and make the most of them.

✅ Did you know? You can use your FSA (Flexible Spending Account) or HSA (Health Savings Account) funds to pay for therapy sessions!

Whether you’re already in therapy or thinking about starting, this is a great opportunity to invest in your mental health. 💬💪

If you have questions about how to use your benefits, reach out — we’re happy to help guide you through it. Link in bio!

“Why can’t I or**sm with a partner?” — You’re not broken. ❤️‍🩹This is one of the most common questions I hear from women...
10/21/2025

“Why can’t I or**sm with a partner?” — You’re not broken. ❤️‍🩹

This is one of the most common questions I hear from women.
And the truth? You’re far from alone.

✨ Many women can reach or**sm during solo play — but find it harder with a partner. That doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It often means there’s a disconnect between comfort, communication, and pressure.

Here are a few gentle truths:
💬 Connection > performance. Feeling safe, seen, and relaxed matters more than technique.
🧠 Your brain is your biggest s*x organ. Stress, shame, or distraction can shut down pleasure fast.
❤️‍🔥 Bodies are unique. What works for you might not look like a movie moment — and that’s beautiful.
🪞 Exploration is self-care. Knowing your body (and sharing that with your partner) is part of the fun.

You’re not “bad at s*x.” You’re just learning your own map — and that’s powerful. 💫 Link in bio if you wanna chat about it!!

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🌙 Loneliness Doesn’t Mean You’re BrokenLoneliness isn’t a sign that something’s wrong with you — it’s a signal.A gentle ...
10/16/2025

🌙 Loneliness Doesn’t Mean You’re Broken

Loneliness isn’t a sign that something’s wrong with you — it’s a signal.
A gentle whisper that says, “You need connection.”
And connection doesn’t always mean with others — sometimes it means reconnecting with yourself.

💫 Here are a few ways to gently manage loneliness:
1. Name what you’re feeling. Saying “I feel lonely” out loud takes the shame out of it.
2. Create small rituals of care. Make your morning coffee slowly, light a candle at dinner, or take yourself on a solo walk.
3. Reach out, even if it feels awkward. Send that “Hey, thinking of you” text — connection often starts with tiny moments.
4. Join spaces where you’re seen. A women’s group, book club, or therapy circle can be healing reminders that you’re not alone.
5. Be kind to the parts of you that ache. Loneliness is proof that you crave love, not that you lack worth. 💗

✨ Remember: Solitude can be nourishing. Loneliness can be a doorway. Both can lead you home — to yourself. Wanna chat about it? Link in bio.

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“When desire feels quiet …If you’ve ever wondered Why don’t I feel like having s*x? — you’re not alone. Our bodies, mind...
10/12/2025

“When desire feels quiet …

If you’ve ever wondered Why don’t I feel like having s*x? — you’re not alone. Our bodies, minds, and lives are always shifting.

Here are 3 gentle ways to reconnect with your desire (without pressure):
1. Check in with your body — scan for tension, relaxation, or sensation. Turn off “shoulds.”
2. Use one sense — pick music, scent, texture — just one. Let that guide you, don’t force the rest.
3. Write a mini fantasy — not for performance, just to explore: what feels good, what you imagine.

If you’re curious: what’s one small thing you could try this week to reconnect with your erotic self? Drop it below or DM me if you want ideas. 💬

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💧 Let’s Talk About Arousal & Lubrication 💧Getting “wet” isn’t the same as being turned on — and not being wet doesn’t me...
10/06/2025

💧 Let’s Talk About Arousal & Lubrication 💧

Getting “wet” isn’t the same as being turned on — and not being wet doesn’t mean something’s wrong. Many women notice changes in arousal or natural lubrication, especially after childbirth, during menopause, with hormonal shifts, or when life feels stressful.

Physical arousal (what your body does) and mental arousal (what your mind feels) don’t always match up — and that’s completely normal!!

If you aren’t enjoying wood as much as Taylor-ifyou’re noticing dryness or difficulty “getting there,” try slowing down, using a good-quality lubricant, focusing on touch and connection, and checking in with your healthcare provider if it persists. Hormones, stress, and even certain medications can all play a role.

You deserve pleasure, comfort, and confidence in your body. 💕
Arousal isn’t a performance — it’s a process.

If you want to find out more, and you live in CT, MA, FL, AZ, NJ, or CA, hit the link in the bio and schedule a session.
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Ladies of AZ:✨ You don’t have to carry it all alone. ✨Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming — even when everything loo...
10/01/2025

Ladies of AZ:
✨ You don’t have to carry it all alone. ✨

Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming — even when everything looks “perfect” from the outside. Therapy offers a safe, supportive space just for you.

💠 Rediscover your balance

💠 Strengthen your voice

💠 Invest in your well-being

Your healing matters, and you deserve the space to thrive. 💜

📍 Serving women in the Scottsdale & Paradise Valley areas, and all of Arizona

📅 Now accepting new clients

➡️ Click the link in bio to schedule a consultation.

➡️ DM with any questions.

📚✨ Back-to-School & the Invisible Mental Load ✨📚For many moms, back-to-school isn’t just shopping for supplies. It’s: • ...
09/29/2025

📚✨ Back-to-School & the Invisible Mental Load ✨📚

For many moms, back-to-school isn’t just shopping for supplies. It’s:
• Remembering picture day 📸
• Coordinating carpool 🚗
• Packing lunches 🍎
• Filling out endless forms 📝
• Managing everyone’s emotions (including your own) 💭

This hidden labor is often overlooked—but it’s real work. And it impacts mental health.

💡 A gentle reminder for moms:
• You don’t have to do it all perfectly.
• Asking for help is a strength, not a weakness.
• Your wellbeing matters just as much as your child’s.

💖 To every mom holding it all together right now: you’re seen, you’re valued, and you’re not alone.

If you need help managing it all, please reach out using the link in bio. I got you, mamma.

✨ Let’s talk about Postpartum OCD ✨Many new parents expect worry to come with the territory — but when those worries tur...
09/24/2025

✨ Let’s talk about Postpartum OCD ✨

Many new parents expect worry to come with the territory — but when those worries turn into intrusive thoughts, mental rituals, or overwhelming fears about your baby’s safety, it might be more than “just anxiety.”

🧠 Postpartum OCD often shows up as:
• Scary, unwanted thoughts you can’t control
• Feeling ashamed or afraid of your own mind
• Compulsions (like checking, avoiding, or seeking reassurance) to ease the distress
• Exhaustion from trying to “push the thoughts away”

You’re not “crazy” and you’re not a bad parent.
➡️ These thoughts do not reflect your desires or intentions. They are symptoms — and they’re treatable.

With the right support, you can learn to manage these thoughts, reduce the anxiety, and feel more like yourself again. 💛

🌿 If this resonates, know you don’t have to go through it alone. I help parents navigate postpartum anxiety, OCD, and the transition into parenthood with compassion and evidence-based therapy.

📩 Send me a message or click the link in my bio to connect. You deserve care, too.

✨ Let’s talk about something many women silently struggle with: anor**smia (difficulty or inability to reach or**sm). ✨T...
09/22/2025

✨ Let’s talk about something many women silently struggle with: anor**smia (difficulty or inability to reach or**sm). ✨

This experience can feel isolating, frustrating, or even shameful—but you’re not alone, and it’s not something you “just have to live with.”

S*x therapy provides a safe, supportive space to explore the psychological, relational, and physiological factors that may be impacting your s*xual wellbeing. Through tailored strategies, guidance, and open conversation, we can work together to help you reconnect with pleasure and intimacy.

💬 Healing and change are possible. Your body and mind deserve that care.

➡️ If this resonates with you, reach out to the link in bio to learn more about how s*x therapy can support your journey.

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FAQ Friday!!I can help you common questions that you may be too embarrassed to ask!S*x is NORMAL! Having questions about...
09/19/2025

FAQ Friday!!

I can help you common questions that you may be too embarrassed to ask!

S*x is NORMAL! Having questions about S*X is NORMAL!

YOUR FEELINGS ARE NORMAL!

You are not alone!

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