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THE POWER OF YET: TRANSFORMING NEGATIVE SELF -TALK I hope by now you can see how passionate I am about fostering positi...
09/05/2025

THE POWER OF YET: TRANSFORMING NEGATIVE SELF -TALK

I hope by now you can see how passionate I am about fostering positive self-talk and a growth mindset in my students.
Today, I want to share a powerful method that I’ve been using in my classroom and coaching sessions.
So often, I hear my students say:
💥I can’t do it.
💥I don’t know.
💥I’m not good at…
And the list goes on. These are examples of negative self-talk. Our subconscious mind doesn’t distinguish between true or false statements—it registers whatever information is received.
The Power of YET.

As I recognize the impact of negative self-talk, I encourage my students to add the word “YET” after their statements.
So the new sentences become:
I don’t know… YET.
I can’t do this… YET.
I don’t get it… YET.
I don’t understand… YET.
I’m not good at this… YET.
💁Can you feel the difference?

This is called The Power of YET.

Using the word "YET" helps my students transform their limiting beliefs into opportunities for learning and growth. Instead of thinking, I can’t do it, they start to believe, I don’t know it yet, but I can learn it. This shift empowers them to build resilience and perseverance.
They begin to understand that the challenges they face are temporary obstacles on their path to mastery.
Try This Exercise with Your Child 🧒!

Give it a try with your child and watch the magic unfold! Start using the word YET today, and see how it changes their mindset.

🟢I’d love to hear how it goes—share your experience with me!🟢

Celebrate Every Win, Big or Small 🌟As parents, we often ask our kids, “How was your day?” but how about trying this inst...
09/04/2025

Celebrate Every Win, Big or Small 🌟

As parents, we often ask our kids, “How was your day?” but how about trying this instead: “What’s something you’re proud of today?” 🌱

It’s such a simple question, but it can help your child start to reflect on their own accomplishments—whether it’s something big, like acing a test, or something small, like being kind to a friend. These little wins build up over time, shaping their sense of self-worth and confidence.

When we ask this question, we’re not just acknowledging their successes; we’re helping them develop the mindset of looking for the positive in their day. Over time, they’ll learn to recognize their efforts and feel proud of what they’re achieving, even when it’s not perfect. 🏅

So, today, try asking your child: “What’s something you’re proud of?” And watch how their face lights up when they realize that their small actions matter.

What’s one thing YOU’RE proud of today? Let’s celebrate those wins, big and small! 💬👇

Modeleazā convingerile copilului tau despre success Atunci când copiii ajung sā creadā ca succesul este rezultatul unor ...
09/03/2025

Modeleazā convingerile copilului tau despre success

Atunci când copiii ajung sā creadā ca succesul este rezultatul unor factori asupra cārora ei nu au nici un control, scad sansele ca acestia sā depunā efortul, perseverenta si practica necesarā pentru a-l obtine.
Foloseste acest proces pentru a-ti ajuta copilul sa vadā ca munca este cheia succesului:

1️⃣. Atunci când face ceva bine, descrie lucrul respectiv fārā sā-l lauzi; Exemplu- "Ai rezolvat corect problema numārul sapte din tema ta de la matematica. "
2️⃣. Intreabā-l - "Cum ai fācut asta? "
3️⃣. Oferā-i trei optiuni: 1. Ai muncit din greu? 2. Ai continuat sā incerci chair dacā a fost dificil? 3. Ai exersat?

Fiecare dintre acestea reprezintā un gând corect care-ti va ajuta copilul sa elimine gândurile negative ale neajutorārii.

4️⃣. Asigura-te ca rosteste cuvintele cu voce tare, pentru ca ceea ce spuem devine adesea realitatea noastrā. Ceea ce spune copilul nostru devine probabil realitatea sa.
5️⃣. In cazul in care copilului îi este greu sā rāspundā la intrebāri sau nu stie ce sā spunā, zāmbeste-i si pune-i aceastā intrebare: Dacā ai sti, ce variantā ai alege ?

💫When Life Gives You a Sign, Take It 💫You know those moments when life seems to send you exactly what you need at exactl...
09/02/2025

💫When Life Gives You a Sign, Take It 💫

You know those moments when life seems to send you exactly what you need at exactly the right time? I had one of those recently. I was sitting down to work on my plans for the upcoming months, feeling a bit lost on where to begin. I needed a push, a reminder that it’s not too late to start chasing big dreams.

Then, I received an email that read:

👉"Dream big and go for it in life. It's never too late to start or to restart. You can do it!"

✨✨At first, I thought it was just a coincidence. But then I realized—maybe it wasn’t. Maybe it was life’s little nudge, reminding me that no matter where you are, it’s always possible to start fresh, reinvent yourself, and move forward toward your goals.✨

It’s easy to get stuck in the mindset of "I missed my chance" or "It’s too late for me," but the truth is, it’s never too late to take action, no matter your age, stage, or situation. Every step forward, no matter how small, is progress. And when you take action, you begin to see possibilities where you once saw obstacles.

🌟So here’s to starting again—whether it’s a project you put off, a dream you abandoned, or a path you’re unsure about. Don’t wait for the "perfect time." Start now. The perfect time might be right here, in this very moment, and you just might need that push to see it.

❓❓❓Have you ever had a moment where life nudged you to take action? Maybe you’re starting something new, or even restarting a dream that got lost along the way. I’d love to hear your story. Share it with me!

Helping Kids Turn Mistakes into Learning OpportunitiesToday, I want to talk about mistakes.As a child, I felt constant p...
08/29/2025

Helping Kids Turn Mistakes into Learning Opportunities

Today, I want to talk about mistakes.
As a child, I felt constant pressure—What happens if I make a mistake?
I feared that people would think I wasn’t good enough. I told myself things like:
I don’t pay attention.
I rush too much.
I’m the worst!
The list could go on…
When I made mistakes, I felt embarrassed. My face would turn red, my head would drop, and I wouldn’t have the courage to look people in the eyes.
Looking back, I realize this came from a lack of self-esteem and self-confidence.
It wasn’t until adulthood that I truly understood—mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow.
From that moment on, the pain, guilt, shame, and embarrassment I carried from past mistakes started to fade. I learned how to let them go…
The Impact of Mistakes on Children
When children don’t know how to handle mistakes, it can be detrimental to their self-esteem and confidence. They may feel guilt, sadness, or anger.
Did you know that humans are the only animals who relive mistakes over and over again, often beating themselves up in the process?
Imagine a lion thinking:
"Oh no! I jumped too soon at that zebra! I should have waited a little longer. Why didn’t I run faster? Now we won’t have anything to eat. I can’t believe I messed up—I’m such a loser!"
Sounds ridiculous, right? A lion moves on and looks for the next opportunity.
Maybe we can learn something from the lion!
Helping Kids Reframe Mistakes
When children see mistakes as learning opportunities, they shift from negative emotions back into their power.
Although we can’t undo mistakes, we can choose how we respond.
Sometimes, mistakes happen because of a bad decision—like cheating on a test or taking something that isn’t theirs. But it’s important to emphasize that making a bad choice doesn’t mean they are a bad person.
5 Steps for Managing Mistakes
In my coaching sessions, I teach kids how to manage mistakes in a healthy way.
Look for teachable moments to help your child learn from their mistakes:
✔️ When they make a mistake.
✔️ When they make excuses for their actions.
✔️ When they blame others.
✔️ When they are too hard on themselves.
And remind them:
Everyone makes mistakes—mistakes are an opportunity to learn!
I’d love to hear from you! How do you handle mistakes with your child? Email me back—I’d love to chat.
Until then,
Love & Blessings,
Camelia

✨ Nurturing Confidence for a Successful School Year Online Workshop -for kids aged 7-9 ...
08/27/2025

✨ Nurturing Confidence for a Successful School Year
Online Workshop -for kids aged 7-9
6 Week Program

Did you know that no matter how much you love your children, you can’t make them believe in themselves, and you can’t give them self-confidence?

This is so important because whether or not kids believe in themselves will shape who they are and what they create in their lives. Do they go for it in life? Or do they sit on the sidelines?

Kids often believe they must feel confident before they do something new. However, exactly the opposite is true. The fear doesn’t go away, and the confidence doesn’t come until after they take action!
The good news is that your child can learn this skill in the upcoming workshop - "Nurturing Confidence for a Successful School Year"

The workshop will help your child to:
1️⃣.Believe in themselves when facing new things
2️⃣.Move through fear, uncertainty and self-doubt
3️⃣.Create an ‘’I CAN DO IT” mindset
4️⃣.Stretch outside of their comfort zone
5️⃣.Prepare their minds for success with ‘’Power shifting” and self talk skills
6️⃣.Prepare to develop the self-confidence to embrace change.

The workshop is filled with 6 fun and engaging sessions of storytelling, crafts, games, and fun activities. The workshop is taking place online, with limited space to only 4 participants to ensure your child receives full individual attention.

**Date:**September 27- November 1st
**Time:** 4:00pm - 5:00pm
**Venue:** Zoom Platform (zoom link will be provided after registration)
👉The investment for the workshop is $360/ child.
(Early registration until September 6th is $300/ child).

💫Ready To Join ? Please email us at cameliabruckel@gmail.com to register.

Igiena mentală este esențială pentru părinți și copiiAșa cm avem grijă zilnic de igiena corpului, la fel de important e...
08/26/2025

Igiena mentală este esențială pentru părinți și copii

Așa cm avem grijă zilnic de igiena corpului, la fel de important este să avem grijă și de igiena gândurilor noastre. Gândurile negative, lăsate necontrolate, pot afecta starea de bine și modul în care reacționăm la viață.

Părinții joacă un rol-cheie: atunci când învață să-și „dezinfecteze” gândurile și să cultive o minte sănătoasă, le transmit copiilor o lecție valoroasă pentru întreaga viață.

📌 Învățându-i pe cei mici să-și observe gândurile și să aleagă conștient ce gânduri să păstreze, îi ajutăm să devină mai echilibrați, mai încrezători și mai rezilienți.

✨ Începe chiar de azi să practici igiena mentală împreună cu copilul tău – pentru o minte curată și un suflet liniștit.
👉Alătură-te comunității mele BecomingME pentru resurse și strategii de mindset coaching dedicate copiilor și părinților.

I became a life coach for kids because I saw something too important to ignore…🧒Kids often believe they must feel confid...
08/24/2025

I became a life coach for kids because I saw something too important to ignore…

🧒Kids often believe they must feel confident before they do something new. However, exactly the opposite is true. The fear doesn’t go away, and the confidence doesn’t come until after they take action!
The good news is your kids can learn this skill in my BACK TO SCHOOL WITH CONFIDENCE workshop.

💥The workshop is designed specifically for children ages 7-9 years old as they prepare to move to the next grade.

The workshop will help your child to:
1️⃣.Believe in themselves when facing new things
2️⃣.Move through fear, uncertainty and self-doubt
3️⃣.Create an ‘’I CAN DO IT” mindset
4️⃣.Stretch outside of their comfort zone
5️⃣.Prepare their minds for success with ‘’Power shifting” and self talk skills
6️⃣.Prepare to develop the self-confidence to embrace change.

The workshop is filled with 6 fun and engaging sessions of storytelling, crafts, games, and fun activities. The workshop is taking place online, with limited space to only 4 participants to ensure your child receives full individual attention.

**Date:**September 27- November 1st
**Time:** 4:00pm - 5:00pm
**Venue:** Zoom Platform (zoom link will be provided after registration)
🟠The investment for the workshop is $360/ child.
(Early registration until September 6 th is $300/ child).

💫Ready To Join ? Please email us at cameliabruckel@gmail.com to register.

🌟Teaching gave me knowledge, but coaching gave me purpose.🌟💫After 30 years of teaching, I realized something powerful—ki...
08/23/2025

🌟Teaching gave me knowledge, but coaching gave me purpose.🌟

💫After 30 years of teaching, I realized something powerful—kids don’t just need lessons in math, reading, or science. They need tools to believe in themselves, to bounce back from mistakes, and to handle life with confidence.
I became a life coach for kids because I saw so many little ones holding back, not because they couldn’t—but because they didn’t believe they could.

✨Now, instead of only teaching what’s in the books, I get to help children discover the power within themselves. 💫 And that is the most rewarding journey of all.

Here’s how mindset coaching and leadership training can empower your child to believe in themselves and reach their full potential:
1️⃣. **Improved Confidence and Self-Esteem**: Kids learn to believe in their abilities, handle challenges, and see mistakes as opportunities for growth, which boosts their self-confidence and self-esteem.
2️⃣. **Better Problem-Solving Skills**: Mindset coaching teaches kids to approach problems with a solution-focused mindset, helping them become more resourceful and resilient in facing obstacles.
3️⃣. **Enhanced Emotional Regulation**: Children learn techniques to manage their emotions, leading to better self-control and reduced stress or anxiety.
4️⃣. **Stronger Communication Skills**: Leadership training often includes activities that enhance communication skills, helping kids express themselves clearly and listen effectively.
5️⃣. **Goal Setting and Achievement**: Kids learn how to set realistic goals and create action plans, which instills a sense of purpose and motivation.
6️⃣.**Resilience and Adaptability**: By understanding the power of a growth mindset, kids become more resilient and adaptable, traits that are valuable in every aspect of life.
7️⃣. **Positive Attitude Towards Learning**: Mindset coaching encourages a love of learning and curiosity, reducing fear of failure and making kids more open to new experiences.
8️⃣. **Social Skills and Teamwork**: Leadership programs often involve group activities, helping kids learn to work well with others, respect diverse opinions, and develop empathy.
9️⃣. **Better Decision-Making**: Kids are taught to make thoughtful decisions, considering consequences and evaluating options carefully.
🔟. **Preparedness for Future Challenges**: Early exposure to leadership and mindset coaching equips children with tools and strategies that will be beneficial throughout their schooling and future careers.

💫These benefits not only help children in the immediate sense but also lay a strong foundation for their personal and academic success as they grow.
Follow for more tips to empower your child!

Inca de la inceputul timpurilor, pārintii imperfecti au crescut adulti responsabili si buni la suflet. Tine cont de asta...
08/22/2025

Inca de la inceputul timpurilor, pārintii imperfecti au crescut adulti responsabili si buni la suflet. Tine cont de asta. Renuntarea la control reprezintā in general cel mai bun mod de a-l redobāndi. Numai atunci cānd ne agātām de furie si resentimente distrugem sānātatea fizica, emotionalā, sociala si spirituala pe care ne-o dorim. Iertarea este singura solutie. Ar putea fi util sā-ti pui aceasta întrebare dificila: Chiar trebuie sa ma agat de furie si durere, desi stiu ca le face rāu copiilor mei? Dr. Daniel G.Amen si Dr. Charles Fay

08/21/2025

✨BACK TO SCHOOL WITH CONFIDENCE✨
Online Workshop
6 Week Program for Kids

Did you know that no matter how much you love your children, you can’t make them believe in themselves, and you can’t give them self-confidence?

This is so important because whether or not kids believe in themselves will shape who they are and what they create in their lives. Do they go for it in life? Or do they sit on the sidelines?

Kids often believe they must feel confident before they do something new. However, exactly the opposite is true. The fear doesn’t go away, and the confidence doesn’t come until after they take action!
The good news is your kids can learn this skill in my BACK TO SCHOOL WITH CONFIDENCE workshop.

💥The workshop is designed specifically for children ages 7-9 years old as they prepare to move to the next grade.

The workshop will help your child to:
1️⃣.Believe in themselves when facing new things
2️⃣.Move through fear, uncertainty and self-doubt
3️⃣.Create an ‘’I CAN DO IT” mindset
4️⃣.Stretch outside of their comfort zone
5️⃣.Prepare their minds for success with ‘’Power shifting” and self talk skills
6️⃣.Prepare to develop the self-confidence to embrace change.

The workshop is filled with 6 fun and engaging sessions of storytelling, crafts, games, and fun activities. The workshop is taking place online, with limited space to only 4 participants to ensure your child receives full individual attention.

**Date:**September 27- November 1st
**Time:** 4:00pm - 5:00pm
**Venue:** Zoom Platform (zoom link will be provided after registration)
🟠The investment for the workshop is $360/ child.
(Early registration until September 6 th is $300/ child).

💫Ready To Join ? Please email us at cameliabruckel@gmail.com to register.

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What exactly is life coaching for kids?

Life coaching for kids is all about empowering kids through mindset development !

“No matter how much we love our children, we can’t give them self-confidence,self-esteem,or success in life.But what we can do, is help them develop it in themselves !” -Renaye Thornborrow, CEO, Adventures in Wisdom Inc.

Through story-telling and conversation kids learn how to use the power of their thoughts to create happiness, confidence and success I their life, so they can take their life, goals, and dreams wherever they want to go in their life.